I have been 'chatting' for several weeks now to two different couples in different locations. Both had expressed a 'real' interest in older men. Recently I was approached by a third couple, they were making the running but have suddenly stopped picking up my messages and now the original couples are not opening messages. I noticed that the latest couple were online at similar/often the same time as the original two couples. Yes I know this is getting very convoluted but is somebody 'spoiling' my pitch or are they all the same a just playing games? Anybody any experience of this or am I being paranoid? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Part and parcel of FAB I think as it has happened to me a few times had a message sent then replied bit of back and forth then nothing don’t get yourself hung up on it just carry on. A couple have come back at a later date though and people do have lives also |
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I appreciate that folk are not always going to reply and I have had plenty of conversations which suddenly stopped. It was the coincidence of all three suddenly not reading messages which made me suspicious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I appreciate that folk are not always going to reply and I have had plenty of conversations which suddenly stopped. It was the coincidence of all three suddenly not reading messages which made me suspicious. "
About what do you think it was a conspiracy or they maybe knew each other  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Being paranoid I think OP - people use the site at all times and, especially of an evening, it's entirely feasible they're all going to be on-line at the same time.
Without knowing the actual detail of the messages it's difficult to say why it went quiet - but it happens and for any number of reasons - you just have to accept and move on, don't pester and who knows they may come back to you at some point  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
Definitely over thinking it op. It's not uncommon for conversations to fizzle out. And the way you phrased your post makes it sound a bit like you stopped chatting so much with the first two couples in favour of the latest one, which probably explains why they're no longer interested. |
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