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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I am an Asian Indian origin.
I believe my profile is good.
I had few meets in past. But all of them from clubs. I never had a successful one from this site.
After sending face pic all say it's not cup of tea..
Anybody could suggest any thing to overcome.
Mark |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I am an Asian Indian origin.
I believe my profile is good.
I had few meets in past. But all of them from clubs. I never had a successful one from this site.
After sending face pic all say it's not cup of tea..
Anybody could suggest any thing to overcome.
Mark"
You may believe you profile is good, but that doesn't mean it is.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I am an Asian Indian origin.
I believe my profile is good.
I had few meets in past. But all of them from clubs. I never had a successful one from this site.
After sending face pic all say it's not cup of tea..
Anybody could suggest any thing to overcome.
Mark"
What's Asian origin got to do with your post? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Expecting suggestions...."
Mate it's good. Some tweaks here and there but these chicks are just being petty. This site just shits on mens effort, especially the females and the beta Cuck males.
Make a few pics public.
Make your profile more relaxed and chilled.
A few about your interests but flesh them out and say what you're primarily looking for |
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it? "
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies |
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"Hi I am an Asian Indian origin.
I believe my profile is good.
I had few meets in past. But all of them from clubs. I never had a successful one from this site.
After sending face pic all say it's not cup of tea..
Anybody could suggest any thing to overcome.
Mark"
Your profile reads like a set of bullet points.
This could deter some who think if you can't put together a sentence on paper, then it's not worth the effort trying to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if I was a female that stupid legal notice u put abaut the Sidney university n stuff when u don't have a pic to show or any personal information would put me off n I wouldn't give u chance weather u brown or pink |
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"if I was a female that stupid legal notice u put abaut the Sidney university n stuff when u don't have a pic to show or any personal information would put me off n I wouldn't give u chance weather u brown or pink "
EXACTLY! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it? "
Why make a big deal out of what he as put as the title of this post? Is question wasn’t about his title it was about his profile and how to improve his success on here. |
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
Why make a big deal out of what he as put as the title of this post? Is question wasn’t about his title it was about his profile and how to improve his success on here. "
I don’t read that this reply was making a big deal out of anything, just asking a valid question. If you want to look at it this way I’d look to the OP as to why they felt the need to use it as their post title, when as stated, not mentioned on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone commented.
Actually they block before reading profile after picture.
I always check who viewed me..
I know none of you going to accept the fact..
Enjoy.
I am leaving.... |
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"Hi everyone commented.
Actually they block before reading profile after picture.
I always check who viewed me..
I know none of you going to accept the fact..
Enjoy.
I am leaving...."
people can view you in stealth mode so you don't know who has looked at you |
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"Hi everyone commented.
Actually they block before reading profile after picture.
I always check who viewed me..
I know none of you going to accept the fact..
Enjoy.
I am leaving...."
Serious question, is English your first language? |
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"Hi everyone commented.
Actually they block before reading profile after picture.
I always check who viewed me..
I know none of you going to accept the fact..
Enjoy.
I am leaving....
Serious question, is English your first language? "
What difference does that make??
Most of us would probably assume it's not..
OP .Your profile is hidden so no comment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies"
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know none of you going to accept the fact..
I find men of Indian Asian origin very attractive and plenty of other women do too . "
there are lots of profiles that state no Asians tho |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white?"
Yes you said it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know none of you going to accept the fact..
I find men of Indian Asian origin very attractive and plenty of other women do too . there are lots of profiles that state no Asians tho "
Another sensible comment.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know none of you going to accept the fact..
I find men of Indian Asian origin very attractive and plenty of other women do too . "
Thank you.
Please pm me |
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white?"
If you arrange a meet do you not want to know if he/she is chinese/jamaican/asian/African etc??
Mystery blind date eh? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white?
If you arrange a meet do you not want to know if he/she is chinese/jamaican/asian/African etc??
Mystery blind date eh? "
That is different.. |
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"Hi everyone commented.
Actually they block before reading profile after picture.
I always check who viewed me..
I know none of you going to accept the fact..
Enjoy.
I am leaving...."
It seems that you are trying to make people feel guilty and playing the race card at the same time OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white?
If you arrange a meet do you not want to know if he/she is chinese/jamaican/asian/African etc??
Mystery blind date eh? "
That's not what I'm saying at all.
Someone doesn't have to post on their profile if they're black/Asian if they don't want to.
Obviously if the person sends a pic and you don't find them attractive that's different but no one should be made to feel they have to announce their race on their profile |
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white?
Yes you said it"
Who said he needs to put it on his profile? The very valid point was made that the OP saw fit to include this detail in the posted question yet no mention on his profile.
We didn't say he needs to put this on his profile. But we do suggest that it might be a detail that may put some folk off. Get over it, everyone gets rejected, we've been blown out more times than a windsock after pic swaps. Dry your eyes snowflake and move on, you're not special so give up with the leading questions crap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well can honestly say your profile reads like a call centre script.
You need photos on your profile for people to want to meet.
Always remember people are allowed to choose, would you fuck the first lady that offered it to you if you wasn't interested? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white?
Yes you said it
Who said he needs to put it on his profile? The very valid point was made that the OP saw fit to include this detail in the posted question yet no mention on his profile.
We didn't say he needs to put this on his profile. But we do suggest that it might be a detail that may put some folk off. Get over it, everyone gets rejected, we've been blown out more times than a windsock after pic swaps. Dry your eyes snowflake and move on, you're not special so give up with the leading questions crap. "
Who's not special? |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"There’s for first problem, you post a question an don’t get an instant reply so post again. Shouts pushy to me.
This. The profile text is... confused. Need some commas in there or something. "
Huh you think just because people are trying to get laid they should use grammar grammar is over used its everywhere i don't think its important don't worry OP about those stuck up people who won't meet someome who can't string a sentence together just meet people who find illiteracy sexy and you should be fine |
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white?
Yes you said it
Who said he needs to put it on his profile? The very valid point was made that the OP saw fit to include this detail in the posted question yet no mention on his profile.
We didn't say he needs to put this on his profile. But we do suggest that it might be a detail that may put some folk off. Get over it, everyone gets rejected, we've been blown out more times than a windsock after pic swaps. Dry your eyes snowflake and move on, you're not special so give up with the leading questions crap.
Who's not special?"
The OP, of course you're special Tess  |
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white?
If you arrange a meet do you not want to know if he/she is chinese/jamaican/asian/African etc??
Mystery blind date eh?
That's not what I'm saying at all.
Someone doesn't have to post on their profile if they're black/Asian if they don't want to.
Obviously if the person sends a pic and you don't find them attractive that's different but no one should be made to feel they have to announce their race on their profile "
But it certainly helps eliminate who we are looking for..
You may as well say it's not important to Say whether your male/female or if you are 18 or 80.I agree,it shouldn't matter but it does and being Black or Asian is a huge part of who someone is and i feel it should be acknowledged.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't mention being of Indian Asian origin on your profile so why do you choose to title this post with it?
A valid point and you're probably not what people expected when you send the face pics, hence the 'not my cuppa' replies
Why does he need to post on his profile he's asian?
White people don't post there's that they're white?
If you arrange a meet do you not want to know if he/she is chinese/jamaican/asian/African etc??
Mystery blind date eh?
That's not what I'm saying at all.
Someone doesn't have to post on their profile if they're black/Asian if they don't want to.
Obviously if the person sends a pic and you don't find them attractive that's different but no one should be made to feel they have to announce their race on their profile
But it certainly helps eliminate who we are looking for..
You may as well say it's not important to Say whether your male/female or if you are 18 or 80.I agree,it shouldn't matter but it does and being Black or Asian is a huge part of who someone is and i feel it should be acknowledged.
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You don't have your race on your profile, so why do black and Asian users need to put it on theirs?
You can search by race if you're so concerned.
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OP I would suggest you have a look at your own expectations of fab.
It is not instashag or dial-a-fuck and you will not have ladies and couples beating a path to your door just because you are on here.
You have 6 published verifications from the last 7 months. Most single men would be delighted to be as successful as this. There are many thousands of men on here and very few are meeting several different couples/ladies each week.
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"OP I would suggest you have a look at your own expectations of fab.
It is not instashag or dial-a-fuck and you will not have ladies and couples beating a path to your door just because you are on here.
You have 6 published verifications from the last 7 months. Most single men would be delighted to be as successful as this. There are many thousands of men on here and very few are meeting several different couples/ladies each week.
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I stand by what I said previously, he’s not happy with what he’s already had an wants more, still screams pushy to me, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I am an Asian Indian origin.
I believe my profile is good.
I had few meets in past. But all of them from clubs. I never had a successful one from this site.
After sending face pic all say it's not cup of tea..
Anybody could suggest any thing to
Mark"
I posted this a couple of days ago and i was surprised with the feedback.
Most females dont care if youre asian, but as they get 200+ messages a day of guys they dont really bother reading all the messages.
Being a female on this site works a lot better than being a male.
The people i spoke to said they care about conversation, as they dont really want to speak/flirt with guys that say they're horny or send a dick pic, they want a connection
Establish a connection first and then females can trust you to flirt with you
Hopefully that helps |
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"Please read my initial point..
All the conversation moved away from the real question...
Fabulous..  "
It moved away, because the thread is titled Asian origin.
They either don't like your face pic, or your message, or your profile. |
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"Hi I am an Asian Indian origin.
I believe my profile is good.
I had few meets in past. But all of them from clubs. I never had a successful one from this site.
After sending face pic all say it's not cup of tea..
Anybody could suggest any thing to overcome.
Mark"
Hi mark.
From just looking at your public photo. Ive not looked at your photos on your profile.. We would assume you are white to be honest and if you had sent us a picture of yourself and we wasnt looking for an asain/indian man. Then we would probably say thanks but no thanks.
Your profile text isnt good either unless you have changed it from when you first posted this thread.
You shouldn't really let it bother you getting a "sorry not my cup of tea" message. Im sure there are loads of people that will like you.. if it does bother you that much you could always tell people before sending them your picture.
You could always take some classes to get your english up to scratch and write a tidy profile. 
I cant say much though. I think my profile is just as bad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi I am an Asian Indian origin.
I believe my profile is good.
I had few meets in past. But all of them from clubs. I never had a successful one from this site.
After sending face pic all say it's not cup of tea..
Anybody could suggest any thing to overcome.
Mark
Hi mark.
From just looking at your public photo. Ive not looked at your photos on your profile.. We would assume you are white to be honest and if you had sent us a picture of yourself and we wasnt looking for an asain/indian man. Then we would probably say thanks but no thanks.
Your profile text isnt good either unless you have changed it from when you first posted this thread.
You shouldn't really let it bother you getting a "sorry not my cup of tea" message. Im sure there are loads of people that will like you.. if it does bother you that much you could always tell people before sending them your picture.
You could always take some classes to get your english up to scratch and write a tidy profile.
I cant say much though. I think my profile is just as bad "
Thank you for your advice.
I will try.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You often can't tell or see someone's personality from a profile.
You normally find that out at a social.
Sometimes you get a dreadful experience of it in a message that requires a block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I am an Asian Indian origin.
I believe my profile is good.
I had few meets in past. But all of them from clubs. I never had a successful one from this site.
After sending face pic all say it's not cup of tea..
Anybody could suggest any thing to overcome.
Mark"
x men origins lol |
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"Hi I'm new to this I don't where I'm going wrong been a few weeks on here but not had single response "
This response is longer than your profile.
Did you honestly expect to be balls deep with NO effort?!! Seriously?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I'm new to this I don't where I'm going wrong been a few weeks on here but not had single response "
No photos on profile, boring profile text.
When there's thousands of other guys who have photos so we can see their body type and who put effort in to write an interesting profile, you're just another faceless man trying to get a fuck.
Sell yourself. Tell us why we should choose you instead of other guys. Don't say you're reliable as you're not verified to prove that. Don't lie either. We won't meet you anyway so don't bother asking or messaging us, we're just giving you advice.
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hi I'm new to this I don't where I'm going wrong been a few weeks on here but not had single response "
So you've taken a look at your profile and seriously thought "Well, there's bugger all on there, but a pretty much blank profile is all I need to get the ladies flocking to me"? You've taken a look and you honestly can't see why no one has shown any interest?
Considering most will take a look at your profile first to see if it's worth even opening your message...
The tools are already there to help you, but if you don't want to use them then I'm afraid no one else is going to make the effort to find out about your looks and personality. Effort in = more chance of "results". No effort = no results. Well, unless you are a woman because desperate guys will still contact an empty female profile. |
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