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By *attfsg OP Man
over a year ago
Norwich |
Ok I will start by saying a have a huge desire to see my girlfriend with another man. I have fantasised about it many many of times. I am sure she has the same fantasy also but can't be certain.
I feel like she has the same fantasy because almost every time we have sex she will grab my fingers or one of her dildos and start sucking. She also recently bought herself a buttplug, when I asked her why she said she wanted to know what it'd feel like to have two cocks in her at the same time. Three if you include the dildo she sucks. She also watches a lot of mmf porn.
Am I nuts or does it seem like she wants what I want? I'm scared to tell her my fantasy incase I'm completely wrong about a hers.
Any idea on how to approach this? Or try fish it out of her? Any help would be great. |
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Try talking to her. If you don’t ask, you don’t get! If you’re watching MMF porn together why not just casually ask if she’d like to do that some time?
Seriously, swinging is about communication and trust. If you can’t even share fantasies then it might not be for you |
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Because someone watches porn or fantasises about something doesn't necessarily mean they want to make it reality. However I think your girlfriend might be trying to open up conversation with you, she seems to be ok with talking about such things.
Ask her, there genuinely is no other way to find out if she's interested. |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
North Oxfordshire |
How about...
"Hey, I'm a member of this site called fab swingers. I was wondering if you'd perhaps like to join on a couples profile with me and look for another man to have a threesome with? How would you feel about that?"
Or is talking to your girlfriend old fashioned? |
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"Ok I will start by saying a have a huge desire to see my girlfriend with another man. I have fantasised about it many many of times. I am sure she has the same fantasy also but can't be certain.
I feel like she has the same fantasy because almost every time we have sex she will grab my fingers or one of her dildos and start sucking. She also recently bought herself a buttplug, when I asked her why she said she wanted to know what it'd feel like to have two cocks in her at the same time. Three if you include the dildo she sucks. She also watches a lot of mmf porn.
Am I nuts or does it seem like she wants what I want? I'm scared to tell her my fantasy incase I'm completely wrong about a hers.
Any idea on how to approach this? Or try fish it out of her? Any help would be great."
Great to see some progress.  |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"Ok I will start by saying a have a huge desire to see my girlfriend with another man. I have fantasised about it many many of times. I am sure she has the same fantasy also but can't be certain.
I feel like she has the same fantasy because almost every time we have sex she will grab my fingers or one of her dildos and start sucking. She also recently bought herself a buttplug, when I asked her why she said she wanted to know what it'd feel like to have two cocks in her at the same time. Three if you include the dildo she sucks. She also watches a lot of mmf porn.
Am I nuts or does it seem like she wants what I want? I'm scared to tell her my fantasy incase I'm completely wrong about a hers.
Any idea on how to approach this? Or try fish it out of her? Any help would be great."
Fish it out of her..... Ermmm think she has already told you or did you miss the bit when she said she wanted to know what two cocks felt like??? Just tell her 'well we can make that happen' |
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