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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was wondering what people most go for. My pictures aren't the greatest I know but my personality is better. Surely you have to have a bit of personality over looks.
Thoughts?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend  "
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality. "
Oh god no, I’ve spoke to a few beautiful guys, who turned out to be complete cock ends. Blocked after a few messages |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.
Oh god no, I’ve spoke to a few beautiful guys, who turned out to be complete cock ends. Blocked after a few messages "
Well I start chatting to people get on well swap pics after a while still a few messages then arrange to meet and wow would you believe it blocked !!!! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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We swing to satisfy our fantasies - we are therefore far more interested in looks than personality, as long as prospective playmates are respectful.
As we play almost entirely in clubs and the sex is casual, personality isn't too important, though it can be a bonus and we have met some friends along the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pictures 1st
Personality 2nd
Obviously
If you’re not attracted to someone you won’t know their personality
If they’re fit but have an awful personality you’ll move on before any fucking gets near |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Dicklips help "
Dick lips? What’s that? |
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality. "
She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.
She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.
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Thank you! Made out to be a reyt shoe horn wasn’t I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.
Oh god no, I’ve spoke to a few beautiful guys, who turned out to be complete cock ends. Blocked after a few messages
Well I start chatting to people get on well swap pics after a while still a few messages then arrange to meet and wow would you believe it blocked !!!!"
Maybe you said something they didn’t like? Or they changed their minds? There’s no contracts here |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Fab is very visual centric. It really helps if the pictures come across as attractive as a starting point. You can get a hint of someone's personality by how their profiles are written, though it is in the messaging that comes after where you get a feel for how the person may be like.
If you please on both fronts, good odds for an eventual meet  |
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.
She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.
Thank you! Made out to be a reyt shoe horn wasn’t I? "
My pleasure, I think you mean "tried to be made out to be a shoe horn" most people can see what you actually said and meant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I like the face I see then I will chat...if the personality keeps me interested, great! If they are an arse then that is no good to me...a crappy attitude is a massive turn off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.
She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.
Thank you! Made out to be a reyt shoe horn wasn’t I?
My pleasure, I think you mean "tried to be made out to be a shoe horn" most people can see what you actually said and meant"
I’m not illiterate, I’m from Barnsley, that’s how we talk haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks are always the first thing that you see and if there good looking it attracts you but sometimes the most beautiful people can become ugly as soon as they open there mouth.
So for me it's looks with a amazing personality.
That's the full package x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On Fab we find it’s easier to start the process with the visual. If I like what I see then hopefully they will have a good personality too. Although it is possible to demonstrate a personality in a profile text or first message. However at a party I might find I fancy someone, I wouldn’t normally go for, on the basis that there is a connection of personalities. It’s easier to judge by personality in person.
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.
She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.
Thank you! Made out to be a reyt shoe horn wasn’t I?
My pleasure, I think you mean "tried to be made out to be a shoe horn" most people can see what you actually said and meant
I’m not illiterate, I’m from Barnsley, that’s how we talk haha "
Are you sure you're from Barnsley you haven't said anything northern yet
Ps what's a shoe horn I've not heard that term other than as a actual shoe horn  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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If I'm going to start chatting with someone I always ask for a face pic early on. Call that shallow if you like but it works both ways.
I'm not looking for a relationship just some nsa with people I find attractive. Although having said that they have to have something between their ears to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality.
She didn't say that so stop putting words into her mouth.
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Sorry if offended anyone. Am just asking advice and some help would be appreciated. Was just asking what you meant sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pictures.
Call me shallow if you like "
No not shallow at all. As i have found out everyone is different and their own individual take to meeting people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the vast majority are attracted visually. After all what draws you in to look at a profile?
Then I read the profile, see if we have any common interests or ideas, if I am within the age I am looking for possibly send a message that is relevant. Only through messaging do you get to know someone's personality.
Occasionally someone may have something on a thread or more likely there status that may cause me to look at their profile. That's probably part of their personality.
A girl I chat to on here once told me that fab for her is fantasy, so when she looks for someone to fulfill her ideas of fab he will be her fantasy figure. Everything lines up, looks, personality, intelligence etc. She is very selective who matches her fantasy. But she does get to fulfill them. I've probably not described it as well as she did to me, but it made perfect sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pictures.
Call me shallow if you like
No not shallow at all. As i have found out everyone is different and their own individual take to meeting people "
I start with looks and hope he’s nice when I meet him. If he’s super hot but a bit of a knob I’ll proba still sleep with him but it won’t be a long session. |
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Dicklips help
Dick lips? What’s that?
Does anyone know?
It’ll be something disgusting 
I thought it was a typo and he meant duck! Either way not a nice comment  "
Ah ...erm ... it was funny and complimentary in my head .. DSL ..
No offence or misogyny intended |
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"Personality always helps, but attractiveness comes first.
I’m not looking for a husband, I’m looking for a sexy friend
Ok so as long as they look good they could have little or no personality. "
Isn't that a bit of a black or white way of thinking?
If a guy looks great it's all for nothing if he's dull as ditchwater as well. |
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We found a guy the missus really fancied, but as things went on it became obvious he had no personality. He was really dull.
We never bothered meeting because she went off him.
It's worth remembering the brain is a sexual organ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pictures are what draws, but if they have the personality range of a old sponge then it's trying....that's if you ever get the chance to put yours across in the first place. |
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"I was wondering what people most go for. My pictures aren't the greatest I know but my personality is better. Surely you have to have a bit of personality over looks.
Thoughts??"
On here pics first , physical attraction comes first for me as not looking to marry you just a lil naughty fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering what people most go for. My pictures aren't the greatest I know but my personality is better. Surely you have to have a bit of personality over looks.
Thoughts??"
attraction first then personality dictates whether it goes further  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I can be drawn to either. However, if personality was the first thing to attract me then the pictures I got later have never disappointed me. I'm not saying that won't ever happen, just that it hasn't yet. If pictures attracted me first but the personality wasn't compatible then I have let contact dwindle and moved on.
It would make fab life far easier if I could just pick someone I like the look of and could tolerate temporarily but unfortunately I have to properly like someone to want to bump uglies. |
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"The first thing anyone checks is visual. In any walk or way of life. "
Not always, mate of mine married a girl who he met by initially exchanging emails purely for work reasons(she worked for a supplier) then the odd chat(still work) this led to joking then ages later a meet etc
She's a hotty and my mates mr average joe, in a night club I doubt she'd have talked to him
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
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"Pictures.
Call me shallow if you like
No not shallow at all. As i have found out everyone is different and their own individual take to meeting people
I start with looks and hope he’s nice when I meet him. If he’s super hot but a bit of a knob I’ll proba still sleep with him but it won’t be a long session. "
Like your style, me too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering what people most go for. My pictures aren't the greatest I know but my personality is better. Surely you have to have a bit of personality over looks.
Thoughts??"
Personality every time, but on here pics are important too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both. Wouldn't it be nice if the guys on here bed Bo Derek or the girls bed George Clooney. So, best to meet what you find comfortable with. We've found that those who tend to be average to less than average bodies/looks tend to give the best fun in the bedroom.
We like great personalities, then check the body out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both. Wouldn't it be nice if the guys on here bed Bo Derek or the girls bed George Clooney. So, best to meet what you find comfortable with. We've found that those who tend to be average to less than average bodies/looks tend to give the best fun in the bedroom.
We like great personalities, then check the body out."
Always personality for us, as long as the body isn’t too bad!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both for me to be honest but if I had to compromise one over the other it would be personality. A good natured woman with a gsoh goes a long way in my book. |
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"Both for me to be honest but if I had to compromise one over the other it would be personality. A good natured woman with a gsoh goes a long way in my book."
this. Same for me. Even if a woman is stunningly beautiful, it ain't happening for me if she has the personality of a house brick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first thing you notice is there pics and if there good looking or not but even the most stunning looking people can become ugly if they have a bad personality x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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attraction for me starts with the mind way before the body. Nothing better when you meet someone you just gel with. A really really gorgeous man is nice to look at sure but if theres nothing below the surface Id be bored |
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