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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me  |
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me "
They maybe having a break,ill or too busy to meet. What do you suggest - they leave the site and lose their verifications/site supporter status? Why is it bizarre? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me
They maybe having a break,ill or too busy to meet. What do you suggest - they leave the site and lose their verifications/site supporter status? Why is it bizarre?"
No I can understand having a break but some of them have just joined ... |
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me
They maybe having a break,ill or too busy to meet. What do you suggest - they leave the site and lose their verifications/site supporter status? Why is it bizarre?
No I can understand having a break but some of them have just joined ..."
Message them and ask. I think it's more bizarre to be concerned about how others run their profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's a few profiles where their only verification is a hidden profile. The hidden profile is definitely fake and the open one may be too "
Yeah am finding that out slowly. So many fake profiles on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it means that they can make the initial contact?
I'm guessing they looked and didn't fancy meeting you and being hidden means you can't question them for not contacting you. "
You can still send them a messege though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are numerous reasons why people hide their profiles.
Does it really matter? There are plenty of profiles which are on display, in fact we do believe there are thousands. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a few profiles where their only verification is a hidden profile. The hidden profile is definitely fake and the open one may be too "
That's odd to assume that a hidden profile is fake. People hide profiles for many reasons, doesn't mean they are fake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me
They maybe having a break,ill or too busy to meet. What do you suggest - they leave the site and lose their verifications/site supporter status? Why is it bizarre?
No I can understand having a break but some of them have just joined ..."
If their profiles are hidden how do you know they just joined |
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me "
We think this should be banned.
If you have to hide completely so leaving us with nothing to go on they why bother.
Just so you can have a perv without the others knowing.....sad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with hidden profiles but I don’t think they should be allowed to message or view other profiles "
 I agree. I think the ability to send and receive messages should be disabled when you hide your profile although I think they should still be able to view a profile as some might like to browse without being pestered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me
We think this should be banned.
If you have to hide completely so leaving us with nothing to go on they why bother.
Just so you can have a perv without the others knowing.....sad "
You can perv in stealth mode without being hidden. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me "
Real life crap going on. And not looking for meets at the mo. |
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me
We think this should be banned.
If you have to hide completely so leaving us with nothing to go on they why bother.
Just so you can have a perv without the others knowing.....sad
You can perv in stealth mode without being hidden."
Exactly, end of conspiracy theory  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m new (returning) and only unhidden my profile for tonight.
I would rather be hidden and left to my own devices to seek suitors myself, then being bombarded by 1000 messages from ‘heavycumer2017’ and ‘jonnybigcock69’ every day
100% real  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m new (returning) and only unhidden my profile for tonight.
I would rather be hidden and left to my own devices to seek suitors myself, then being bombarded by 1000 messages from ‘heavycumer2017’ and ‘jonnybigcock69’ every day
100% real "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My solo profile is hidden and I’m 100% genuine, mainly because I get hundreds of messages and sometimes it’s easier to start conversations myself oh and my boss at work is forever looking at my profile. J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My solo profile is hidden and I’m 100% genuine, mainly because I get hundreds of messages and sometimes it’s easier to start conversations myself oh and my boss at work is forever looking at my profile. J x "
Haha, does he know its you??! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My solo profile is hidden and I’m 100% genuine, mainly because I get hundreds of messages and sometimes it’s easier to start conversations myself oh and my boss at work is forever looking at my profile. J x
Haha, does he know its you??!"
Oh he does, as does his wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not real  obviously because I’m hidden.
I’m hidden because I’m sick of the crap that comes with being unhidden. Too many fake couples (men) and I get angry and then get a slapped wrist
So I’ve hidden myself to stop the crap for a day if that’s ok with you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me "
There's nowt queer as folk.
Many things people do or don't do on these sites are puzzling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just here for the forums atm. Sometimes I'll hide my profile just to stop the new views "
Awww and I was hoping to get to meet u before I go hidden  |
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"There's a few profiles where their only verification is a hidden profile. The hidden profile is definitely fake and the open one may be too
That's odd to assume that a hidden profile is fake. People hide profiles for many reasons, doesn't mean they are fake. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me
They maybe having a break,ill or too busy to meet. What do you suggest - they leave the site and lose their verifications/site supporter status? Why is it bizarre?
No I can understand having a break but some of them have just joined ..."
Admin will hide potentially fake profiles until they pic verify as it registers certain details;) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just here for the forums atm. Sometimes I'll hide my profile just to stop the new views
Awww and I was hoping to get to meet u before I go hidden "
Ahhh to slow  |
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me
They maybe having a break,ill or too busy to meet. What do you suggest - they leave the site and lose their verifications/site supporter status? Why is it bizarre?
No I can understand having a break but some of them have just joined ...
Admin will hide potentially fake profiles until they pic verify as it registers certain details;) "
No, Admin can temporarily suspend a profile they don't hide them, it is the account holder that can hide their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just here for the forums atm. Sometimes I'll hide my profile just to stop the new views
Awww and I was hoping to get to meet u before I go hidden
Ahhh to slow "
I'll go sit over there and ponder why I was to slow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me "
Gives u a break from lots of messages so u don't feel rude not answering ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a ramdom friend request from a guy the other day wrnt to check out his profile and it was hidden ..i think sometimes people join and then get get nervous about it and hide until they are brave enough to male initial contact..umfortunatley we didnt accept as i dont like random requests hopefully he will come back when hes brave againx |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with hidden profiles but I don’t think they should be allowed to message or view other profiles "
Absolutely. Just now had a view from a hidden profile, so immrdiately blocked them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me "
I agree. Like today someone viewed me ,sent a friend request. ( and here's me getting excited ) only to find out ,when I view the profile ,that it's been hidden ! What the hell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me I agree. Like today someone viewed me ,sent a friend request. ( and here's me getting excited ) only to find out ,when I view the profile ,that it's been hidden ! What the hell "
Message them and ask. They may have genuinely forgotten to unhide. Some on here, like me, hide now and again. They may have just forgotten to change it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an easy answer OP - it's so we can browse in peace and not be bombarded with mail! I like to look (and yack) in the forum, but as soon as my profile is visible, it is non-stop mail - and it gets tiresome after a while. It's no more sinister than that
Vixen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m new (returning) and only unhidden my profile for tonight.
I would rather be hidden and left to my own devices to seek suitors myself, then being bombarded by 1000 messages from ‘heavycumer2017’ and ‘jonnybigcock69’ every day
100% real
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My couples profile (KinkySlinky) is hidden as my partner doesn't want to swing at present. We haven't deleted it in case he changes his mind in the future. We have 200 verifications and it would be a shame for all those people to lose our verifications if we deleted it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me I agree. Like today someone viewed me ,sent a friend request. ( and here's me getting excited ) only to find out ,when I view the profile ,that it's been hidden ! What the hell
Message them and ask. They may have genuinely forgotten to unhide. Some on here, like me, hide now and again. They may have just forgotten to change it. "
*I should've read the bit in the middle* I did message the profile , and there's been no response as of yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me I agree. Like today someone viewed me ,sent a friend request. ( and here's me getting excited ) only to find out ,when I view the profile ,that it's been hidden ! What the hell
Message them and ask. They may have genuinely forgotten to unhide. Some on here, like me, hide now and again. They may have just forgotten to change it. *I should've read the bit in the middle* I did message the profile , and there's been no response as of yet "
Oh well, don't stress about it hun. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me "
We joined & stayed hidden for about a month, just wanted to see what it was that was going on, check the locals out, read club reviews & got our profile sorted so we were happy with it.
But we didn't message anyone until we were unhidden & we never have answered faceless profiles even of they send private pics. We now have these along with newbies blocked as we can't be arsed with all the messers & fly by nights.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me
They maybe having a break,ill or too busy to meet. What do you suggest - they leave the site and lose their verifications/site supporter status? Why is it bizarre?
No I can understand having a break but some of them have just joined ...
If their profiles are hidden how do you know they just joined"
exactly...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with hidden profiles but I don’t think they should be allowed to message or view other profiles
Absolutely. Just now had a view from a hidden profile, so immrdiately blocked them. "
People in stealth mode can look and you wouldn't know they have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point on being on here if your profile is hidden. Have had a few people look at me but when i go to look at them it's hidden. Sounds bizarre to me I agree. Like today someone viewed me ,sent a friend request. ( and here's me getting excited ) only to find out ,when I view the profile ,that it's been hidden ! What the hell
Message them and ask. They may have genuinely forgotten to unhide. Some on here, like me, hide now and again. They may have just forgotten to change it. *I should've read the bit in the middle* I did message the profile , and there's been no response as of yet
Oh well, don't stress about it hun."
I won't . However,I did receive a reply from this fab user ,containing a Kiss as a message ,and six photos attached. |
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