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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do the women of fab think of the younger generation on here? I get....mixed responses ??"
I’m a young lad and in general I think we get looked upon as rude layabouts that do nothing but moan about how unfair life is and think we know best (ps: we don’t actually know anything) other than that a lot of people on this site don’t like us because they have kids either around our age or older than us...which makes it harder to make friends and/or play partners or just connect with people in general. |
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I like the younger generation as a group. They take risks that I wouldn't, they're fresh, exciting and enthusiastic . I think it's worth listening to their views because it can give you alternatives you hadn't considered or possibly didn't even know about. I'm only too well aware of how narrow very elderly people's outlook can become if they don't mix with younger ones.
Individually they have good and bad points obviously but any group that consists of older people only becomes staid and boring you need a broad mix.
Sexually though it's not my thing.
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"I like the younger generation as a group. They take risks that I wouldn't, they're fresh, exciting and enthusiastic . I think it's worth listening to their views because it can give you alternatives you hadn't considered or possibly didn't even know about. I'm only too well aware of how narrow very elderly people's outlook can become if they don't mix with younger ones.
Individually they have good and bad points obviously but any group that consists of older people only becomes staid and boring you need a broad mix.
Sexually though it's not my thing.
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We agree with most of this, except the last bit. Everyone has different taste for playmates. We totally agree the mix is beneficial and rather essential in clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like the younger generation as a group. They take risks that I wouldn't, they're fresh, exciting and enthusiastic . I think it's worth listening to their views because it can give you alternatives you hadn't considered or possibly didn't even know about. I'm only too well aware of how narrow very elderly people's outlook can become if they don't mix with younger ones.
Individually they have good and bad points obviously but any group that consists of older people only becomes staid and boring you need a broad mix.
Sexually though it's not my thing.
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Agree with everything apart from not liking them sexually  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do the women of fab think of the younger generation on here? I get....mixed responses ??
I’m a young lad and in general I think we get looked upon as rude layabouts that do nothing but moan about how unfair life is and think we know best (ps: we don’t actually know anything) other than that a lot of people on this site don’t like us because they have kids either around our age or older than us...which makes it harder to make friends and/or play partners or just connect with people in general."
Ok we’re not much older but We never search for under 25s Your profile wouldn’t put me off though it seems your not a typical young lad
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of them are gorgeous and great to look at. However, the ones I have come across on here seem to think they are god gift to women and that they deserve sex on a plate.
Very little respect for a woman who is single and on a site like this and a lot of them presume it is acceptable to call me things like "slut" ect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a voice of the younger generation I'd say that its the same as with any demographic. Some are sound and some are time wasters, as can be the same with men from 30s to forties or more.
There is a lot of us being painted with the same brush and that is unfortunate but all we can do is preserve in this wild world.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My initial perception of swinging (before I learned about it more) was probably influenced by grainy VHS tapes of the genre featuring very ordinary, middle-aged Germans having sex in their living rooms. I would think it was weird how couples would even consider swapping; I thought it was immoral, etc. Nowadays my perception is completely different, driven by the fact that this lifestyle has young, liberal people with hot bodies, dressed in fine underwear, with a propensity to show off and broaden their sexual experiences within the safety and comfort of a loving relationship. If the younger generation didn’t get involved in this lifestyle quite frankly I wouldn’t be in it.
Having said all that, where does that leave you as a 19 year old single guy? For me it’s less about your age than it is your status. Single men here have it incredibly hard, especially when they outnumber women and couples by some significant distance. |
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"I don't mind younger guys as long as there is a level of maturity there. "
That's where the problem lies, they are not on the same plain mentally.
We have been there, tried it, wont be going there again. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mind younger guys as long as there is a level of maturity there.
That's where the problem lies, they are not on the same plain mentally.
We have been there, tried it, wont be going there again.
Mr"
I feel quite lucky then. The two young guys I've met have met every expectation, and not in a bad way  |
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"I don't mind younger guys as long as there is a level of maturity there.
That's where the problem lies, they are not on the same plain mentally.
We have been there, tried it, wont be going there again.
Mr
I feel quite lucky then. The two young guys I've met have met every expectation, and not in a bad way "
In fairness he kept at us for about 6 months and was surprisingly mature when we met him but then forgot what discretion means so blew it for himself.
We then upped our age range too.
So sorry guys you have one of your fellow men to blame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind younger guys as long as there is a level of maturity there.
That's where the problem lies, they are not on the same plain mentally.
We have been there, tried it, wont be going there again.
Mr
I feel quite lucky then. The two young guys I've met have met every expectation, and not in a bad way
In fairness he kept at us for about 6 months and was surprisingly mature when we met him but then forgot what discretion means so blew it for himself.
We then upped our age range too.
So sorry guys you have one of your fellow men to blame."
Gahh what an eejit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do the women of fab think of the younger generation on here? I get....mixed responses ??
They all think EXACTLY the same thing."
I dont know what thats supposed to suggest but i wouldnt say we all think EXACTLY the same. Thats a bit unfair  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry all you young ones.....you should be out there looking for a vanilla relationship not a swinging site .....there should be a minimum age for swinging.....well that's just my opinion  "
There is on here already, 18 |
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"Sorry all you young ones.....you should be out there looking for a vanilla relationship not a swinging site .....there should be a minimum age for swinging.....well that's just my opinion "
Have to say we agree with you.
You can’t really be a swinger if you haven’t actually had a proper relationship.
Think it would mess you up relationship wise otherwise, much like porn has.
I would say late 20’s as a minimum.
Just my thoughts on it.
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"What do the women of fab think of the younger generation on here? I get....mixed responses ??
They all think EXACTLY the same thing.
I dont know what thats supposed to suggest but i wouldnt say we all think EXACTLY the same. Thats a bit unfair "
It was sarcasm. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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In a club I will play with a guy of pretty much any age as long as I find him attractive, clean and respectful. My advice to any young person, male or female, would be go to a club if you want to sample the swinging scene. Learn how to interact in person, and show you are willing to put in some effort, rather than just hiding behind a keyboard at home in the hope that someone might contact you. |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"What do the women of fab think of the younger generation on here? I get....mixed responses ??
I also get mixed responses :/"
It's almost like... not all women have the same tastes and preferences? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With the growth in social media i feel as though they have lost their individuality..always wary of being judged by their peers...they all seem to have the same personality traits.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With the growth in social media i feel as though they have lost their individuality..always wary of being judged by their peers...they all seem to have the same personality traits.."
All this peers and peer group stuff. We didn’t have any of that when I was young.
We just grew up. Played out and moaned a lot |
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"What do the women of fab think of the younger generation on here? I get....mixed responses ??
I also get mixed responses :/
It's almost like... not all women have the same tastes and preferences?"
Wait. What? That can’t be true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do the women of fab think of the younger generation on here? I get....mixed responses ??
I also get mixed responses :/
It's almost like... not all women have the same tastes and preferences?
Wait. What? That can’t be true. "
Nope women aren’t individuals with preferences, they are just robotic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry all you young ones.....you should be out there looking for a vanilla relationship not a swinging site .....there should be a minimum age for swinging.....well that's just my opinion "
I think swinging does work best with a mature outlook, but wouldn't have a minimum age for swinging, provided the swinger is an adult of course!
One person at a certain age may be more emotionally mature than another of the same age.
The number of people I come across in their 40s,50s,60s etc who all say "I only wish I'd got into it when I was younger and not been stuck rigid by convention" or such like is huge... |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry all you young ones.....you should be out there looking for a vanilla relationship not a swinging site .....there should be a minimum age for swinging.....well that's just my opinion "
I've been 'swinging' since I was legally allowed to have sex with whoever I wanted. And I've never had a 'vanilla' relationship because I discovered early liked kink and sleeping with multiple people.
I'm glad I've never had a 'vanilla' relationship. I think it would have made me miserable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do the women of fab think of the younger generation on here? I get....mixed responses ??
I also get mixed responses :/
It's almost like... not all women have the same tastes and preferences?
Wait. What? That can’t be true.
Nope women aren’t individuals with preferences, they are just robotic! "
And this right here hit the nail on the head... the younger generation has this expectation that we elder ones must like them all. |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"What do the women of fab think of the younger generation on here? I get....mixed responses ??
I also get mixed responses :/
It's almost like... not all women have the same tastes and preferences?
Wait. What? That can’t be true.
Nope women aren’t individuals with preferences, they are just robotic!
And this right here hit the nail on the head... the younger generation has this expectation that we elder ones must like them all. "
Guess I don't count as younger generation then, since I'm the one that said women all have different tastes and preferences. |
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