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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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The only problem seems to be the distance you are away from me 
Tbh though I've looked at your profile. If I was in your area I'd consider contacting you although the bit written by 'Pink' might make me rethink. |
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"The only problem seems to be the distance you are away from me
Tbh though I've looked at your profile. If I was in your area I'd consider contacting you although the bit written by 'Pink' might make me rethink. "
Aww thank you Lady Lick, I'm flattered that you'd even consider contacting me.
Is it the fact that 'Pink' exists, or is referred to, or what she has written that might make you rethink? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The bit by pink smacks of ownership to me
Oh dear, that's not how it was meant to read at all. Would it be best removed?"
What’s it matter if it’s with Pink’s full knowledge and support? Definitely owned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The bit by pink smacks of ownership to me
Oh dear, that's not how it was meant to read at all. Would it be best removed?
What’s it matter if it’s with Pink’s full knowledge and support? Definitely owned "
Oops maybe I should read the whole profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The bit by pink smacks of ownership to me
Oh dear, that's not how it was meant to read at all. Would it be best removed?"
I think you need to decide exactly what you want and then figure out how to get it. Seems like you're not sure exactly what it is that you want at the moment? Maybe you do, but if that's the case maybe you need to spell that out?
If you want any female to be respectful of your relationship with pink, that cool but with her writing on your own profile you look whipped to me, and maybe others, which could be off putting. |
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"The bit by pink smacks of ownership to me
Oh dear, that's not how it was meant to read at all. Would it be best removed?
I think you need to decide exactly what you want and then figure out how to get it. Seems like you're not sure exactly what it is that you want at the moment? Maybe you do, but if that's the case maybe you need to spell that out?
If you want any female to be respectful of your relationship with pink, that cool but with her writing on your own profile you look whipped to me, and maybe others, which could be off putting."
Ok, i can see that. It was my idea for her to write on my profile as I thought it's more believable and genuine that way, rather than just saying that this is with her agreement and hoping that others believe me.
Do you think removing the bit written by Pink means the profile works better? |
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"I wouldn’t contact you because to me, your profile says you just want flirty chat.
Pink aside, my take on why you’re here is just chatting. Maybe I’ve misunderstood! "
Id like more than chatting, maybe i need to rewrite that bit. Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The bit by pink smacks of ownership to me
Oh dear, that's not how it was meant to read at all. Would it be best removed?
I think you need to decide exactly what you want and then figure out how to get it. Seems like you're not sure exactly what it is that you want at the moment? Maybe you do, but if that's the case maybe you need to spell that out?
If you want any female to be respectful of your relationship with pink, that cool but with her writing on your own profile you look whipped to me, and maybe others, which could be off putting.
Ok, i can see that. It was my idea for her to write on my profile as I thought it's more believable and genuine that way, rather than just saying that this is with her agreement and hoping that others believe me.
Do you think removing the bit written by Pink means the profile works better?"
For me, yes.
What you've written pretty tentative. I personally prefer more assertive. But hey, if that's not you then you shouldnt be any different.
For me, and I'm not a swinger, the fact you seem to be saying you want a connection jars with you having a girlfriend. |
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"The bit by pink smacks of ownership to me
Oh dear, that's not how it was meant to read at all. Would it be best removed?
I think you need to decide exactly what you want and then figure out how to get it. Seems like you're not sure exactly what it is that you want at the moment? Maybe you do, but if that's the case maybe you need to spell that out?
If you want any female to be respectful of your relationship with pink, that cool but with her writing on your own profile you look whipped to me, and maybe others, which could be off putting.
Ok, i can see that. It was my idea for her to write on my profile as I thought it's more believable and genuine that way, rather than just saying that this is with her agreement and hoping that others believe me.
Do you think removing the bit written by Pink means the profile works better?
For me, yes.
What you've written pretty tentative. I personally prefer more assertive. But hey, if that's not you then you shouldnt be any different.
For me, and I'm not a swinger, the fact you seem to be saying you want a connection jars with you having a girlfriend. "
Ok, thank you.
Im more assertive in real life than I am on here, quite possibly a bit of a chameleon, in so far as i respond differently depending on the situation. I guess this isn't coming over particularly well in the profile.
Yes, the connection thing is confusing. I just like a little more than 'only sex.' |
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"I would just take a break for now and come back when your mojo is back  ."
I agree, the swinging life is great when you are great, but it'll not fix your life if you're not so great... in fact you'll most likely just get annoyed by you're lack of success.
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"I would just take a break for now and come back when your mojo is back .
I agree, the swinging life is great when you are great, but it'll not fix your life if you're not so great... in fact you'll most likely just get annoyed by you're lack of success.
Cal"
Thanks. Lacking success isn't something that would affect me.... Its more about being more motivated to get to know people and be involved. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"I would just take a break for now and come back when your mojo is back .
Thanks, I might do that."
Look at why you’ve lost your mojo. Could be simply exhaustion, fatigue, depression, stress, Christmas, anaemia, etc. If it goes on too long see your GP.
Recently found out I’m anaemic hence the reason I’m so tired all the time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The bit by pink smacks of ownership to me
Oh dear, that's not how it was meant to read at all. Would it be best removed?"
No it doesnt its fine!! If ur in a relationship and have separate profiles theres nout wrong with your partner giving u a little in profile verification in my eyes. I dont think she has said anything that smacks of ownership at all x |
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"The bit by pink smacks of ownership to me
Oh dear, that's not how it was meant to read at all. Would it be best removed?
No it doesnt its fine!! If ur in a relationship and have separate profiles theres nout wrong with your partner giving u a little in profile verification in my eyes. I dont think she has said anything that smacks of ownership at all x"
Thank you, that's very much appreciated. |
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"Have a chat with your partner see what she says or hide your profile for a while until you feel more enthusiastic."
Thank you. We have chatted but not since I posted this thread; so will do that when she gets in. |
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