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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not going to comment on your profile as it is of no interest to me.
But for advice, I would suggest reading all the other threads asking the same thing. There are usually several every day. Take the advice posted on those and use it for yourself. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
**HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**
This section is especially for you singles and couples that feel the urge to pm me and ask for advice etc, now you don't have to it's all here for you!
1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.
2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on.
3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.
4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time.
5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.
6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones.
7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!).
8. Act on said advice.
9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places.
10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab! |
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Not my type but...
Your profile is OK. You have a good selection of pictures. You have written a basic description of what you are looking for.
The red flag (for some) is can't accommodate and only playing during the day.
People may jump to the conclusion that you are married and cheating.
You do not owe anyone an explanation of your situation, but it may help.
Also, even with an OK profile, you are competing against many men for
A smaller amount of women.
Patience, good luck and happy fabbing |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I'd lose the two newest pics to be honest
How come? Us women love an alien eyed naked man with a heart for a cock 
The whole demon possession look is not for me, just a preference "
Prejudiced against demons? I thought swingers were supposed to be more open minded!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been a member for almost 2 years and it’s bloody hard work getting your first meet and that magic verification. Once you get that it gets a bit easier. Two weeks is nothing though, the first time I joined I deleted my account after about 2 months as I didn’t even get a nibble. Even now, I won’t get any sort of reply for ages but then get a couple unexpectedly. When you send a message, mention things you’ve seen in their profile, this proves you’ve read it! Also, always send a face pic with your FIRST message, make it a natural one with a smile, no scowling trying to look sexy! Always address your mail using their names, don’t be crude. Keep it polite, maybe mention one of their photos, the clothes they wear. Good luck, but remember the guys out number the girls by a massive ratio on Fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here for about 2 weeks and not having much luck yet so anytime advice on my profile please would be grateful"
its not really a good advert for yourself to say you're not successful so restart the thread and say I'm having so much success here but how do I pull women I really fancy |
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"I've been here for about 2 weeks and not having much luck yet so anytime advice on my profile please would be gratefulits not really a good advert for yourself to say you're not successful so restart the thread and say I'm having so much success here but how do I pull women I really fancy "
But that would be a lie and also I like most men don't need to really fancy the women to have sex, just need to be turned on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been here for about 2 weeks and not having much luck yet so anytime advice on my profile please would be gratefulits not really a good advert for yourself to say you're not successful so restart the thread and say I'm having so much success here but how do I pull women I really fancy
But that would be a lie and also I like most men don't need to really fancy the women to have sex, just need to be turned on. "
well that comment, teamed with your status, will do you no favours! |
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"I've been here for about 2 weeks and not having much luck yet so anytime advice on my profile please would be gratefulits not really a good advert for yourself to say you're not successful so restart the thread and say I'm having so much success here but how do I pull women I really fancy
But that would be a lie and also I like most men don't need to really fancy the women to have sex, just need to be turned on. "
Oh dear... Waits for someone to point out that this isn't instashag and your on the wrong site |
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"I've been here for about 2 weeks and not having much luck yet so anytime advice on my profile please would be gratefulits not really a good advert for yourself to say you're not successful so restart the thread and say I'm having so much success here but how do I pull women I really fancy
But that would be a lie and also I like most men don't need to really fancy the women to have sex, just need to be turned on.
well that comment, teamed with your status, will do you no favours!"
Oh not doing very well am I. What I mean is that it's not just physical attraction that's important to me. I like to get on well and have something in common. I like big girls as much as slim girls as long as we click. Maybe I am just digging a bigger hole for myself here lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing against you OP, but I can't think of a bigger turn off than someone who writes "horny for a fuck" or something to that effect as their status.
I'd try viewing the site as one big job interview; your pictures, description and messages to others should be done in that kind of guise. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Nothing against you OP, but I can't think of a bigger turn off than someone who writes "horny for a fuck" or something to that effect as their status.
I'd try viewing the site as one big job interview; your pictures, description and messages to others should be done in that kind of guise. "
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