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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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Profile a bit lazy . What do you have to offer your potential meets and what would you like from them. You need to know if you will all be compatible. Would you really meet a 99year old?
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over a year ago
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"Profile a bit lazy . What do you have to offer your potential meets and what would you like from them. You need to know if you will all be compatible. Would you really meet a 99year old?
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Had a re-write any better? |
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"Profile a bit lazy . What do you have to offer your potential meets and what would you like from them. You need to know if you will all be compatible. Would you really meet a 99year old?
Had a re-write any better?"
can't see any difference...all the mistakes are still there, and it says very little that is relevant....maybe try writing one first, carefully..see how it reads to you when you write it out... |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Profile a bit lazy . What do you have to offer your potential meets and what would you like from them. You need to know if you will all be compatible. Would you really meet a 99year old?
Had a re-write any better?"
It is a bit better. Me being picky, but I wouldn't put ' make love', but something like ' have fun'. Can you not accommodate at all, can be a deal clincher with some people.  |
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"Profile a bit lazy . What do you have to offer your potential meets and what would you like from them. You need to know if you will all be compatible. Would you really meet a 99year old?
Had a re-write any better?
It is a bit better. Me being picky, but I wouldn't put ' make love', but something like ' have fun'. Can you not accommodate at all, can be a deal clincher with some people. "
Ok will change now and I know I wish I could accomdate but live with family so can't |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Profile a bit lazy . What do you have to offer your potential meets and what would you like from them. You need to know if you will all be compatible. Would you really meet a 99year old?
Had a re-write any better?
can't see any difference...all the mistakes are still there, and it says very little that is relevant....maybe try writing one first, carefully..see how it reads to you when you write it out..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your profile is 26 years old you must be the longest serving member here..... but seriously take the advice given mate....be yourself, but be outstanding..... you are in a very large pool of guys fishing for a scarce resource! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Profile a bit lazy . What do you have to offer your potential meets and what would you like from them. You need to know if you will all be compatible. Would you really meet a 99year old?
Had a re-write any better?
It is a bit better. Me being picky, but I wouldn't put ' make love', but something like ' have fun'. Can you not accommodate at all, can be a deal clincher with some people.
Ok will change now and I know I wish I could accomdate but live with family so can't "
No problem, may be worth popping that in your profile too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If your profile is 26 years old you must be the longest serving member here..... but seriously take the advice given mate....be yourself, but be outstanding..... you are in a very large pool of guys fishing for a scarce resource!"
I know mate it's like finding a needle in a haystack cheers for advice dude  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
Well done Cam for taking on board what people are suggesting. Yes, get some decent public pics on, jeans, smart shirt that sort of thing. People tend to look at pics first, before reading messages. Good luck. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I've asked the same question in another post so I apologies but I would like someone to explain the obsession with profiles in these forums."
You have to have a good profile to even hope for a meet. Some people are good at writing them and others struggle, so no harm in asking others, as long as they are happy to take that advice. Some of these people may be potentially good meets, but can't always get the profile right. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go "
It is an odd concept, isn't it? |
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"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
It is an odd concept, isn't it? "
Very odd, I mean who'd have thought you'd want to actually know if you'd be compatible with someone |
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"Well done Cam for taking on board what people are suggesting. Yes, get some decent public pics on, jeans, smart shirt that sort of thing. People tend to look at pics first, before reading messages. Good luck."
Thanks guys |
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"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
It is an odd concept, isn't it?
Very odd, I mean who'd have thought you'd want to actually know if you'd be compatible with someone "
And then get obsessed about it  |
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"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go "
Ok but I still find it strange.I was lucky to visit a very busy club party at the weekend full of sexy females males and couples ,in the social area conversations ranged from BDSM,MMF,FFM,threesomes and moresomes etc but I never heard profiles being discussed |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
It is an odd concept, isn't it?
Very odd, I mean who'd have thought you'd want to actually know if you'd be compatible with someone "
Why waste time, just don't bother with the profiles and get straight to the s******g! |
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"Well done Cam for taking on board what people are suggesting. Yes, get some decent public pics on, jeans, smart shirt that sort of thing. People tend to look at pics first, before reading messages. Good luck.
Thanks guys "
Tell us a bit more about what you can offer a meet |
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"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
Ok but I still find it strange.I was lucky to visit a very busy club party at the weekend full of sexy females males and couples ,in the social area conversations ranged from BDSM,MMF,FFM,threesomes and moresomes etc but I never heard profiles being discussed "
It's just a guess but maybe because a club is not the forum |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Well done Cam for taking on board what people are suggesting. Yes, get some decent public pics on, jeans, smart shirt that sort of thing. People tend to look at pics first, before reading messages. Good luck.
Thanks guys "
You're welcome, Cam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Need help guys with profile and actually getting some action on here "
Magic beans, they grow big, tall , big, beans, grow tall, big, grow beans, you see.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
Ok but I still find it strange.I was lucky to visit a very busy club party at the weekend full of sexy females males and couples ,in the social area conversations ranged from BDSM,MMF,FFM,threesomes and moresomes etc but I never heard profiles being discussed "
I suppose when you meet people you can see and suss out people for real, so you don't have to look at a profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Need help guys with profile and actually getting some action on here Magic beans, they grow big, tall , big, beans, grow tall, big, grow beans, you see.
No I don't...sorry  "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Need help guys with profile and actually getting some action on here Magic beans, they grow big, tall , big, beans, grow tall, big, grow beans, you see.
No I don't...sorry "
Magic beans y'all MAGIX BEENS |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Need help guys with profile and actually getting some action on here Magic beans, they grow big, tall , big, beans, grow tall, big, grow beans, you see.
No I don't...sorry Magic beans y'all MAGIX BEENS "
Nope...I know I'm old but you're going to have to explain in old people's lingo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well done Cam for taking on board what people are suggesting. Yes, get some decent public pics on, jeans, smart shirt that sort of thing. People tend to look at pics first, before reading messages. Good luck."
If you're ever in bham would love to thank you guys for the help   |
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"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
It is an odd concept, isn't it?
Very odd beceause surely you can't get to know someone by exchanging a few text messages
Very odd, I mean who'd have thought you'd want to actually know if you'd be compatible with someone
Why waste time, just don't bother with the profiles and get straight to the s******g! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Need help guys with profile and actually getting some action on here Magic beans, they grow big, tall , big, beans, grow tall, big, grow beans, you see.
No I don't...sorry Magic beans y'all MAGIX BEENS
Nope...I know I'm old but you're going to have to explain in old people's lingo "
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"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
Ok but I still find it strange.I was lucky to visit a very busy club party at the weekend full of sexy females males and couples ,in the social area conversations ranged from BDSM,MMF,FFM,threesomes and moresomes etc but I never heard profiles being discussed
I suppose when you meet people you can see and suss out people for real, so you don't have to look at a profile."
Yes exactly I think it must be difficult any other way |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Well done Cam for taking on board what people are suggesting. Yes, get some decent public pics on, jeans, smart shirt that sort of thing. People tend to look at pics first, before reading messages. Good luck.
If you're ever in bham would love to thank you guys for the help "
Hey..I like your style! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Need help guys with profile and actually getting some action on here Magic beans, they grow big, tall , big, beans, grow tall, big, grow beans, you see.
No I don't...sorry Magic beans y'all MAGIX BEENS
Nope...I know I'm old but you're going to have to explain in old people's lingo playing "
Ah..Bless you young man..enjoy your playing |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
Ok but I still find it strange.I was lucky to visit a very busy club party at the weekend full of sexy females males and couples ,in the social area conversations ranged from BDSM,MMF,FFM,threesomes and moresomes etc but I never heard profiles being discussed
I suppose when you meet people you can see and suss out people for real, so you don't have to look at a profile.
Yes exactly I think it must be difficult any other way"
Hmmm...profiles are a good starting point. So for instance, if someone wants to tie me up and spank me until my a*** is red raw, then I will pass over his profile, as that isn't for me |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
Ok but I still find it strange.I was lucky to visit a very busy club party at the weekend full of sexy females males and couples ,in the social area conversations ranged from BDSM,MMF,FFM,threesomes and moresomes etc but I never heard profiles being discussed
I suppose when you meet people you can see and suss out people for real, so you don't have to look at a profile.
Yes exactly I think it must be difficult any other way
Hmmm...profiles are a good starting point. So for instance, if someone wants to tie me up and spank me until my a*** is red raw, then I will pass over his profile, as that isn't for me "
Saves wasting time on these people |
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"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
It is an odd concept, isn't it?
Very odd beceause surely you can't get to know someone by exchanging a few text messages
Very odd, I mean who'd have thought you'd want to actually know if you'd be compatible with someone
Why waste time, just don't bother with the profiles and get straight to the s******g! "
Thats pretty much what happened on Friday after a bit of conversation of course but everyone seemed happy |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
It is an odd concept, isn't it?
Very odd beceause surely you can't get to know someone by exchanging a few text messages
Very odd, I mean who'd have thought you'd want to actually know if you'd be compatible with someone
Why waste time, just don't bother with the profiles and get straight to the s******g! Thats pretty much what happened on Friday after a bit of conversation of course but everyone seemed happy "
That's great |
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"I suppose when you meet people you can see and suss out people for real, so you don't have to look at a profile.
That sounds bonkers
Why exactly?
Think Kinky was being sarcastic "
I think you're absolutely right sorry Kinky |
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"I suppose when you meet people you can see and suss out people for real, so you don't have to look at a profile.
That sounds bonkers
Why exactly?
Think Kinky was being sarcastic
I think you're absolutely right sorry Kinky"
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"I've asked the same question in another post so I apologies but I would like someone to explain the obsession with profiles in these forums."
It's your shop window or advertisement.. Tupperware ladies hold parties so don't need a shop window they just need a hostess who gets the punters in! Simples !! Same with swinging! But more fun and no financial exchange! |
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"I've asked the same question in another post so I apologies but I would like someone to explain the obsession with profiles in these forums.
It's your shop window or advertisement.. Tupperware ladies hold parties so don't need a shop window they just need a hostess who gets the punters in! Simples !! Same with swinging! But more fun and no financial exchange! "
But some poor beggars spend hours on their profile hours sending messages and get nowhere surely swinging is about Social interaction not typing messages that rarely get read |
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"I've asked the same question in another post so I apologies but I would like someone to explain the obsession with profiles in these forums.
It's your shop window or advertisement.. Tupperware ladies hold parties so don't need a shop window they just need a hostess who gets the punters in! Simples !! Same with swinging! But more fun and no financial exchange!
But some poor beggars spend hours on their profile hours sending messages and get nowhere surely swinging is about Social interaction not typing messages that rarely get read"
Each to their own . What's right for one may not be right for another. Some people don't want club meets or parties ! |
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"the obsession with profiles in these forums.
Ok, well it's like this, us forumites like to have an idea about who we might meet. And to do that we look at profiles.
Crazy weird but there you go
Ok but I still find it strange.I was lucky to visit a very busy club party at the weekend full of sexy females males and couples ,in the social area conversations ranged from BDSM,MMF,FFM,threesomes and moresomes etc but I never heard profiles being discussed "
Think you've mentioned that several times now
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I suppose when you meet people you can see and suss out people for real, so you don't have to look at a profile."
Precisely.
Meeting people in a club is totaly different. You get to see the 'whole package' instantly
Finding someone online, I need to know something about them before I'd know if I wanted to actually meet them. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Non smoker" but one of two pictures showing you smoking? Doesn't indicate honesty.
You wont get much action on here. Sending someone a message doesn't entitle you to a free shag. Get out to a club and actually meet real swingers, gain some veris and then you might look like an honest guy that's worthy of a meet. |
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