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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I had my first fisting experience over the weekend, administered to me by a married couple who are experts in the genre. They had a sex harness, different kinds of lube for anal and vaginal and most importantly they had a gentle, persistent and masterful touch!.

I feel like they broke my fisting hymen tho lol, it's not unpleasant just had a bit of blood spotting on the night and this week I feel like I'm healing internally from having been penetrated so deeply.

My questions are is there anyone else here who's experienced light bleeding after their first time?, is it normal to be feeling myself heal and does anyone have any tips and tricks for giving fisting sessions to others in a safe way? (Please bare in mind I'm very tight anally and vaginally, never had kids which may also have something to do with it?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know for a fact I'm not the only one to have been fisted in these here sexually experimental parts!!!... If no one replies I'll take it no one noticed any bleeding first time round because they were too caught up in the moment! lol x

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

Hiya. Yes I have been and have done to. I didn’t have any bleeding but it’s very much down to who’s carrying out the act. It has to be done slowly and with lots of lube to slowly open up the sphincter once your past that size is no option as the anal cavity opens up quite big. Whoever was doing it on you obviously was pushing a bit too hard and quick and not giving time for you to relax and open up Key is take your time and make sure the person doing it do so at your pace xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have never been fisted but can imagine bleeding could be a possibility, and I have definitely felt myself needing to heal after being with someone too big! Hope you are ok OP!

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By *wisted2000Woman over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I’ve been fisted several times but never had any bleeding, everyone is different though, keep an eye on it and maybe pop to the docs if it continues, it could be something as simple as a slightly sharp nail

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By *ommenhimCouple over a year ago

wigan

"I had my first fisting experience over the weekend, administered to me by a married couple who are experts in the genre. They had a sex harness, different kinds of lube for anal and vaginal and most importantly they had a gentle, persistent and masterful touch!.

Hi domme regularly fists sub anally and during some sessions there is blood evident in the lube and on paper following but only a small amount .... the bruising sensation I find is very pretty normal considering the activity

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hiya. Yes I have been and have done to. I didn’t have any bleeding but it’s very much down to who’s carrying out the act. It has to be done slowly and with lots of lube to slowly open up the sphincter once your past that size is no option as the anal cavity opens up quite big. Whoever was doing it on you obviously was pushing a bit too hard and quick and not giving time for you to relax and open up Key is take your time and make sure the person doing it do so at your pace xx"

They were ever so gentle with me, I think it's because it was my first time... Also I didn't tell them I hadn't had it done before else they'd have gone even slower!.

It was vaginal fisting so it kinda feels normal re the spotting, was only a bit on the night and I told them so they didn't repeat things and gave me an extended time out lol.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

I have fisted several ladies and not one bled despite my hands being huge.

I have been fisted myself too, not a single drop of pink or red.

Fisting should not involve blood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for your replies guys

... Just making sure all's good... Wouldn't mind fisting myself after the hands on lesson they gave me lol.

For those of us with high orgasms tolerances it's a great way to breakthrough to the sexual plateau I mostly hit during sex. I'm chasing penetrative sex orgasms in company atm lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have fisted several ladies and not one bled despite my hands being huge.

I have been fisted myself too, not a single drop of pink or red.

Fisting should not involve blood. "

I think it'll depend on certain factors as I said I'm very tight in both holes so I tend to clench a lot however wide I've been opened x

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

I’ve enjoyed fisting with many ladies and never seen any blood - for those who’ve never done it realising it doesn’t involve force and is an intense experience and not a form or punishment is often a revelation

Spotting is quite common could’ve been something that just happened anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ve enjoyed fisting with many ladies and never seen any blood - for those who’ve never done it realising it doesn’t involve force and is an intense experience and not a form or punishment is often a revelation

Spotting is quite common could’ve been something that just happened anyway?"

S'defo the fisting, I've not been penetrated that deeply before, that was in Sat and I'm still mildly feeling the effects from it now lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please check it out with a GP. It could be a sign of issues with your cervix. Keep a careful eye out for any other post-coital spotting. When did you last have a smear?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Please check it out with a GP. It could be a sign of issues with your cervix. Keep a careful eye out for any other post-coital spotting. When did you last have a smear?"

I won't be going to a gp unless I get more bleeding which I have 't since

Had my third sexual health check three weeks ago and the results back today with an all clear.

Thanks for your concern tho xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please check it out with a GP. It could be a sign of issues with your cervix. Keep a careful eye out for any other post-coital spotting. When did you last have a smear?

I won't be going to a gp unless I get more bleeding which I have 't since

Had my third sexual health check three weeks ago and the results back today with an all clear.

Thanks for your concern tho xxx"

Ok. I would pm you but can't so I'll put it here: Post-coital bleeding can be a symptom of an underlying issue. If you, or other readers, experience post-coital bleeding, or mid-cycle bleeding, get it checked out asap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Please check it out with a GP. It could be a sign of issues with your cervix. Keep a careful eye out for any other post-coital spotting. When did you last have a smear?

I won't be going to a gp unless I get more bleeding which I have 't since

Had my third sexual health check three weeks ago and the results back today with an all clear.

Thanks for your concern tho xxx

I'm aware of that and thanks for the reminder. I'll check my filters as I thought people could still message if they want.

That's the reason I told them what was happening after I noticed it. I was bucking like a sexually possessed woman during the fisting, they almost made me orgasm so really if anyone was not controlling their movements it was me during it.

I'm very in tune with my body, I never rely on one source of info hence me posting here after talking to them as well as internet searches.

I appreciate your level of self care

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did the person doing the fisting wear any kind of latex glove? If they didn’t, it could well be a bleed from a sharp nail or the corner of the nail which would be very common and nothing to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" Did the person doing the fisting wear any kind of latex glove? If they didn’t, it could well be a bleed from a sharp nail or the corner of the nail which would be very common and nothing to worry about. "

They're really careful about their pre-preparations, they really couldn't have been any more gentle than they were... I think it was probably due to my body hitting my orgasm zone as I was uncontrollably bucking in their sex harness whilst I was enjoying the fisting lol... not many people hit that spot for me and I think it can be a bit off putting if you're witnessing it from the other side... so yeah maybe too deep though at that point I'm guessing they didn't really know what was going on apart from I was seemingly peaking.

In comparison I'm feeling less bashed up than if I'd been vigorously fucked by a guy with a 10"+ cock so there's at least that to be thankful for lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never been fisted....ain’t gonna happen! I have, however fisted several ladies (only one anally) Never caused any kind of bleeding tho. You don’t have a “fisting hymen”.... just the one and I’m assuming you weren’t a virgin so that should have already been gone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Never been fisted....ain’t gonna happen! I have, however fisted several ladies (only one anally) Never caused any kind of bleeding tho. You don’t have a “fisting hymen”.... just the one and I’m assuming you weren’t a virgin so that should have already been gone!"

I bloody did have a fisting hymen you fisting hymen deflator lol... I'm a fully vaginally fisted woman now and I won't bleed the next time it happens... I think you need anally fisting and we'll see if we break your anal hymen to see if what you say is truth or just plain subjective lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'd like to point out to some of the men on this thread administering fisting to women and stating they didn't bleed... a lot of women might not fess up to any bleeding happening on their first time if we're being realistic...

A lot of people would just keep it to themselves and go see a gp and lie about it saying they feel on a cucumber or something lol... don't assume someone isn't experiencing something because they've not let you know...

I've had more sex than a lot of people so I know what feels right to my body and what doesn't... this just feels like I'm healing from very vigorous penetration and I'm just making sure it's how I feel it is.... no need for anyone to panic x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. I bled slightly after but it went after a day. It didn't surprise me as I am quite tight generally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes. I bled slightly after but it went after a day. It didn't surprise me as I am quite tight generally. "

Thanks for confirming for me lovely xx, I've had 3 pm's off women, who are all tight vaginally say the same thing... I also found a poor soul who'd posted a question about it on google and see didn't fare as well s me in her replies as her chosen crowd of peeps were all very vanilla from what I can make out lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't bleed the first time I was fisted but I did when my FWB fisted me, it was due to a tear at the entrance of vagina plus he doesn't use lube. I have bleed quite a lot from being caught up inside with a fingernail through fingering, that made quite a lot of blood. Sounds like you got a tear maybe inside your vaginal passage. After fisting I have been uncomfortable for a couple of hours but nothing longer. If any discomfort persists then go and see a discreet nurse to check all is okay.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

"I'd like to point out to some of the men on this thread administering fisting to women and stating they didn't bleed... a lot of women might not fess up to any bleeding happening on their first time if we're being realistic...

Speaking as one of "the men on this thread administering fisting".....

I've also been fisted myself by a lady with large hands. Wonderful experience I had just a few weeks ago and not a drop of pink or red.

But more to the point, I was taught fisting techniques by a lady who loved receiving herself and have around 13 years experience in giving. I've fisted a lot of women, multiple times. In all cases these were romantic partners or very close friends. In all cases they would have told me if there was bleeding at any point after our session together...

Fisting should not result in any blood...regardless of the orifice being fisted. It's not normal, not to be expected and is a cause for concern. It means something internal has been damaged.

Now...if the bleeding has stopped that's great and probably no visit to the GP is necessary. But it does mean something was damaged which is not an intrinsic part of the fisting experience. It doesn't matter if it's your first or hundredth fisting. There should not be blood. And there's absolutely no guarantee you won't bleed next time because it's not typical of "first time fisting" to result in bleeding.

Again...I speak from 13 years experience in fisting women myself, 14 years in the swinging and party scene and having a lot of friends into giving or receiving fisting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Speaking as one of "the men on this thread administering fisting".....

I've also been fisted myself by a lady with large hands. Wonderful experience I had just a few weeks ago and not a drop of pink or red.

Fisting should not result in any blood...regardless of the orifice being fisted. It's not normal, not to be expected and is a cause for concern. It means something internal has been damaged.

Again...I speak from 13 years experience in fisting women myself, 14 years in the swinging and party scene and having a lot of friends into giving or receiving fisting. "

Dude no amount of expert experience gives you the ability to tell me what's happening with my own body...

I've had sex with more people than there are days in a year and do you know what that "expertise" gives me?!... It gives me the ability to be the expert of my own body... Nothing more and nothing less... It doesn't mean I now know everything there is to know about sex or the ability to be a vagina whisperer or know wtf is going on with anyone but myself...

Thanks for you input tho x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I didn't bleed the first time I was fisted but I did when my FWB fisted me, it was due to a tear at the entrance of vagina plus he doesn't use lube. I have bleed quite a lot from being caught up inside with a fingernail through fingering, that made quite a lot of blood. Sounds like you got a tear maybe inside your vaginal passage. After fisting I have been uncomfortable for a couple of hours but nothing longer. If any discomfort persists then go and see a discreet nurse to check all is okay. "

It's been awhile since I was f'ked that well... I'm feeling "better" each and every day so I'm just seeing it as an out of the ordinary occurrence... Feels weird to be 41 and feeling like I've been divirgenised if you know what I mean lol... Same kinda feelings I had after my first time, or the first 10" I had or the first fk all nighter lol... I imagined back then that I'd broken something physical lol

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

Speaking as one of "the men on this thread administering fisting".....

I've also been fisted myself by a lady with large hands. Wonderful experience I had just a few weeks ago and not a drop of pink or red.

Fisting should not result in any blood...regardless of the orifice being fisted. It's not normal, not to be expected and is a cause for concern. It means something internal has been damaged.

Again...I speak from 13 years experience in fisting women myself, 14 years in the swinging and party scene and having a lot of friends into giving or receiving fisting.

Dude no amount of expert experience gives you the ability to tell me what's happening with my own body...

Thanks for you input tho x"

You asked if it was normal to bleed after being fisted.

All the people here are telling you that it is not.

Insulting us really is not helpful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Speaking as one of "the men on this thread administering fisting".....

I've also been fisted myself by a lady with large hands. Wonderful experience I had just a few weeks ago and not a drop of pink or red.

Fisting should not result in any blood...regardless of the orifice being fisted. It's not normal, not to be expected and is a cause for concern. It means something internal has been damaged.

Again...I speak from 13 years experience in fisting women myself, 14 years in the swinging and party scene and having a lot of friends into giving or receiving fisting.

Dude no amount of expert experience gives you the ability to tell me what's happening with my own body...

Thanks for you input tho x

You asked if it was normal to bleed after being fisted.

All the people here are telling you that it is not.

Insulting us really is not helpful. "

Please tell me how I've insulted you?... because seriously if you consider what I said to you an insult then I don't think we're able to communicate.

You're speaking on behalf of your experience and not everyone's on this thread

I've had 5 people, men and woman contact me and tell me on tis thread and in pm's it's happened to them too... you mustn't have read all the replies?!.

If you can't read all the replies and take them on board as being valid then we don't really have anything more to talk about.

I can be insulting and imo I most definitely was not insulting to you... though I'm willing to let you explain what specifically you found insulting in my reply towards you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Speaking as one of "the men on this thread administering fisting".....

I've also been fisted myself by a lady with large hands. Wonderful experience I had just a few weeks ago and not a drop of pink or red.

Fisting should not result in any blood...regardless of the orifice being fisted. It's not normal, not to be expected and is a cause for concern. It means something internal has been damaged.

Again...I speak from 13 years experience in fisting women myself, 14 years in the swinging and party scene and having a lot of friends into giving or receiving fisting.

Dude no amount of expert experience gives you the ability to tell me what's happening with my own body...

Thanks for you input tho x

You asked if it was normal to bleed after being fisted.

All the people here are telling you that it is not.

Insulting us really is not helpful. "

Also I'm not asking if it's normal I'm asking if the same thing happened... I'm totally uninterested in "normal", I'm interested in subjective experiences... normal is overrated as we're all aware of, as we all wouldn't be on this site if we were concerned with being normal (imo obv)

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By *ommenhimCouple over a year ago

wigan

Speaking as one of "the men on this thread administering fisting".....

I've also been fisted myself by a lady with large hands. Wonderful experience I had just a few weeks ago and not a drop of pink or red.

Fisting should not result in any blood...regardless of the orifice being fisted. It's not normal, not to be expected and is a cause for concern. It means something internal has been damaged.

Again...I speak from 13 years experience in fisting women myself, 14 years in the swinging and party scene and having a lot of friends into giving or receiving fisting.

Dude no amount of expert experience gives you the ability to tell me what's happening with my own body...

Thanks for you input tho x

You asked if it was normal to bleed after being fisted.

All the people here are telling you that it is not.

Insulting us really is not helpful. "

All the people aren’t! On one side you are offering advice but there are others with views contrary to yours with similar experience!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I love being foisted but with plenty of time taken and lube used, never tried anal Fisting but love anal sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And if we didn't fancy fisting before. ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bleeding post sex no matter what should be checked on...

If it happens as a one off then normally little to worry about but more than that and as well as normal sexual health checks smears should be done.

Bleeding can happen as tears are easy.. only takes a tiny bit.. the ache from fisting normally is very temporary but bruising can last longer. ( like when fucked deep and hard..)

It's a very intense but pleasurable experience and for me makes me extra tight after.. and so sensitive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes. I bled slightly after but it went after a day. It didn't surprise me as I am quite tight generally.

You're very welcome. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's a lot of should not/ get yourself checked comments. If op is after such response surely she would be seeking gp advice.

And unless you are a gp, qualified expert who's to say it doesn't happen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And if we didn't fancy fisting before. .."

Lol

... don't let my story put you off... I'll be doing it again, hopefully with the same couple as i feel like I'm in good hands lol. I don't cum during penetrative sex in company, it's been years since that happened and they nearly gave me a full body orgasm... I was bucking around for ages lol... felt really bad telling them I hadn't despite how it looked.

I also didn't plan it, they were fisting each other so I just went for it...

next time it happens they'll go slower and use just as much lube lol xx (I'll take a nail file with me too lol)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's a lot of should not/ get yourself checked comments. If op is after such response surely she would be seeking gp advice.

And unless you are a gp, qualified expert who's to say it doesn't happen? "

I'm not going to a gp and saying "can you check my vagina please as I did fisting on the weekend and I still ache!"... lol... if anyone is going to think it's dangerous and shouldn't be allowed it's be a gp imo lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" Bleeding post sex no matter what should be checked on...

If it happens as a one off then normally little to worry about but more than that and as well as normal sexual health checks smears should be done.

Bleeding can happen as tears are easy.. only takes a tiny bit.. the ache from fisting normally is very temporary but bruising can last longer. ( like when fucked deep and hard..)

It's a very intense but pleasurable experience and for me makes me extra tight after.. and so sensitive "

I only had a bit of spotting on the night... and then I've felt my internals since to lesser and lesser degress lol... feels rather therapeutic tbh... think I've got an orgasm blockage that needs dealing with lol... though obviously I'm going to be gentle with myself lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all for your replies, i appreciate them x

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