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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys,
I'm wanting to introduce my gf to the world of swinging. Had played alone before but want to do it as a couple now. Any advice on how to approach the situation?
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys,
I'm wanting to introduce my gf to the world of swinging. Had played alone before but want to do it as a couple now. Any advice on how to approach the situation?
Thanks "
Discuss fantasy is always a good start |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Think the OP is asking for help and advice. You are anwsering a question with a question."
Well, if she knows then it can be suggested that they have a chat about setting up a couples profile.
If she doesn't know then mentioning he already has a profile may not be such a great idea... But maybe he could talk to her and see if she has any fantasies that may include introducing other people to their sex life. |
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"Think the OP is asking for help and advice. You are anwsering a question with a question.
Well, if she knows then it can be suggested that they have a chat about setting up a couples profile.
If she doesn't know then mentioning he already has a profile may not be such a great idea... But maybe he could talk to her and see if she has any fantasies that may include introducing other people to their sex life."
Precisely what I would have said if the OP had responded |
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Establish good sexual commmunication first because if you do eventually swing as a couple that's vital for success.
Once you've achieved that and you're secure with each other suggesting swinging and discussing it shouldn't be too much of a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the decision is yours, really.
Just remember that in ‘the real world’ most people expect their partner to be monogamous.
Be open about past experiences. The fact that you only joined the site 6 weeks ago suggests you are not content having a monogamous relationship with this gf - so be honest.
She will either run away, or show a level of curiosity.
Just be subtle in your approach and don’t freak her out. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Last two posts contain sensible practical advice...Well done."
So what would your advice be for the OP then? My advice would be to talk open and honestly with her, see if she has any fantasies or ideas. |
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