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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for replying. Gained a lil weight and it's knocked my confidence "
Ah don't let a little weight knock your confidence, nothing wrong with a little something to hold on to, besides me personally I'm not that into sticks, I like a little meat on the bones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for replying. Gained a lil weight and it's knocked my confidence "
Just watch what you eat and do some exercise you will be back to yourself in no time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people will be bothered,some won't be. Ignore those who are bothered and have fun with those who aren't bothered."
Just make sure you have up to date photos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is what I worry about also not just because i have excess weight, mainly around my stomach area but also because of my many stretch marks which I know couldnt be helped.
Me personally it wouldnt bother me so long as the personality was there and we got along. L x |
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By *hatty GuyMan
over a year ago
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I'm not particularly attracted to skinny women but variety is the spice of life as they say! We mostly spend more time stressing about certain aspects of our appearance and other people couldn't care less, as long as you can work what u got ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does to me.
I don't find big men attractive in the slightest but I do prefer my women with a bit of meat on them."
6ft plus must be small for you then love!
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is what I worry about also not just because i have excess weight, mainly around my stomach area but also because of my many stretch marks which I know couldnt be helped.
Me personally it wouldnt bother me so long as the personality was there and we got along. L x "
You shouldn't worry love were all here to have fun sexual pleasure just enjoy yourself no bodys perfect and even if they were for a while! Its doesn't last so live love and don't worry give it a try have plenty of fun and be happy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people will be bothered,some won't be. Ignore those who are bothered and have fun with those who aren't bothered.
Just make sure you have up to date photos "
Some people are photogenic others a hotter in the flesh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does to me.
I don't find big men attractive in the slightest but I do prefer my women with a bit of meat on them.
6ft plus must be small for you then love!
Lol "
Slight difference between big and tall |
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For me size is not important, it's about the persons mind and how we get on.
No matter the size dress well, look well be happy, enjoy life.
If people are worried about you size they are not worth knowing. |
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"Thanks for replying. Gained a lil weight and it's knocked my confidence
Ah don't let a little weight knock your confidence, nothing wrong with a little something to hold on to, besides me personally I'm not that into sticks, I like a little meat on the bones"
I'm not into fat men I prefer a little less fat on the bones |
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We don't tend to be sexualy attracted to people who have body shapes obviously larger than our own. BBW etc.. But there are always exceptions if it's carried well. Just having a few extra pounds wouldn't put us off.
We're not 'gym fit' in terms of low body fat and toned muscles but we try and keep ourselves in shape as that's what we personally find works for us and is what we look for. That said, we'll happily chat and hang out with anyone regardless, it's just unlikely to go any further. |
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What irks us is double standard here in the way people describe size. WHY is it wrong to be slim? Almost all the posts above refer to slim people as 'skinny' or 'stick' or some other negative descriptor. Yet if someone was to describe a large person as fat, flabby, obese or one of the other negatives it would be pounced upon by all and sundry with a torch and pitchfork style mobbing.
Is it because the majority of people now are overweight and don't like themselves in the mirror so they have to spite those that have the body they're supposed have? If it's not that then why the animosity?
Strange it is that you never see slim people making public derogative remarks about those with 'a few extra pounds'
But it seems acceptable the other way around.
To answer the OP, no it's not an issue for us |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"What irks us is double standard here in the way people describe size. WHY is it wrong to be slim? Almost all the posts above refer to slim people as 'skinny' or 'stick' or some other negative descriptor. Yet if someone was to describe a large person as fat, flabby, obese or one of the other negatives it would be pounced upon by all and sundry with a torch and pitchfork style mobbing.
Is it because the majority of people now are overweight and don't like themselves in the mirror so they have to spite those that have the body they're supposed have? If it's not that then why the animosity?
Strange it is that you never see slim people making public derogative remarks about those with 'a few extra pounds'
But it seems acceptable the other way around.
To answer the OP, no it's not an issue for us"
^^^ I agree with this, I hate the word skinny, I am slim, not skinny by any means, I really don't know why derogatory terms are always used to describe my build, I would love to know why though |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I would not know what to do with a skinny woman
So that means I prefer curves all round?"
Really? You wouldn't know how to interact with a slim female? You speak as if we're a different species |
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"What irks us is double standard here in the way people describe size. WHY is it wrong to be slim? Almost all the posts above refer to slim people as 'skinny' or 'stick' or some other negative descriptor. Yet if someone was to describe a large person as fat, flabby, obese or one of the other negatives it would be pounced upon by all and sundry with a torch and pitchfork style mobbing.
Is it because the majority of people now are overweight and don't like themselves in the mirror so they have to spite those that have the body they're supposed have? If it's not that then why the animosity?
Strange it is that you never see slim people making public derogative remarks about those with 'a few extra pounds'
But it seems acceptable the other way around.
To answer the OP, no it's not an issue for us
^^^ I agree with this, I hate the word skinny, I am slim, not skinny by any means, I really don't know why derogatory terms are always used to describe my build, I would love to know why though "
We're gonna be brave here, it's perhaps jealousy.
If anyone would like to give an alternative reason then feel free to enlighten us. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"What irks us is double standard here in the way people describe size. WHY is it wrong to be slim? Almost all the posts above refer to slim people as 'skinny' or 'stick' or some other negative descriptor. Yet if someone was to describe a large person as fat, flabby, obese or one of the other negatives it would be pounced upon by all and sundry with a torch and pitchfork style mobbing.
Is it because the majority of people now are overweight and don't like themselves in the mirror so they have to spite those that have the body they're supposed have? If it's not that then why the animosity?
Strange it is that you never see slim people making public derogative remarks about those with 'a few extra pounds'
But it seems acceptable the other way around.
To answer the OP, no it's not an issue for us
^^^ I agree with this, I hate the word skinny, I am slim, not skinny by any means, I really don't know why derogatory terms are always used to describe my build, I would love to know why though
We're gonna be brave here, it's perhaps jealousy.
If anyone would like to give an alternative reason then feel free to enlighten us."
I'm personally not so sure, as a lot of men use the same derogatory terms as well, can some of the men explain why? |
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