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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not as yet. I always think it's because the guys never know who is going to reply. Me or Tom.
We do get a lot of guys 'asking' Tom if I am playing, like I need his permission lol.
And single men saying that they are part of a couple, soon shift when I ask to speak to the lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair we get very polite messages from fellas most of the time. We get the odd one that has taken no effort like "very hot".
Always got time for a chat with someone who has made a bit of effort wether they are what we are looking for or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve only ever had single guy be rude and that was after we met him. He sent a message asking if he could meet again and bring 2 if his friends. I (male half) replied saying she’s not a whore for you to bring your mates around to get laid. He then went on to send abuses messages like I’m sick for allowing my partner to play with other guys and I must be shit in bed and that’s why she looks for other guys. It was laughable we reported him and blocked him. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
No, but before we blocked them we still got messages from those that thought they were special & should be the exception to the rule, We soon went from a polite "no thanks", to just deleting to eventually blocking all as it makes life easier.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do yous get abusive messages from men like single women? "
sometimes.. been told what sort of man lets his woman fuck about.
We have had from a woman. " she doesn't blame my man for fucking about with a partner looking like me"
We do get them but not that much |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
Yes we do, one particular nasty one last night that really put a downer on my birthday.
He sent a succession of messages and when I replied thank but no thank you we are not looking for Men at this moment in time I was every derogatory name under the sun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the insight.
My curiosity was pricked by a reply from a couple saying they weren't interested.
I replied :' no worries '
And they replied' thanks for not being an arsehole' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes we do, one particular nasty one last night that really put a downer on my birthday.
He sent a succession of messages and when I replied thank but no thank you we are not looking for Men at this moment in time I was every derogatory name under the sun. "
Hes not worth thinking about Dont let that or another tosser spoil your birthday x hope u had a good one   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had them, not lots bitba few over the years.
The latest was a few months ago from a guy whose message we had read but not responded to( we rarely respond to messages and cant even remember what it said)
The gist of his abusive message was that Mrs Bendy was fat as fuck and we should consider ourselves lucky that he even contemplated messaging us in the first place.
He is still on here and a huge part of me wants to name and shame but there is little point.
When someone is abusive there are a few people we mentuon it tonand tell them to be wary of that person and our consolation in this wad that a week after messaging us , he sent a perfectly pleasant message to a friend of ours, he didnt get a pleasant response back though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only abusive messages I tend to get are from single men who I have said "no thanks" to after their initial one line message with cock shot attached. When they get a "no thanks" they feel they need to tell me actually I am too ugly / fat / horrendous to ever interest them anyways  |
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Me and cheeks have separate profiles cheeky has had messages telling him to Kill himself !! Lol we just delete and block profile I swear some people are ranking their little cocks while they abuse you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do yous get abusive messages from men like single women? "
In the past, we had moments of finding a guy. So we changed our profile to state what we're looking for. Messages go from a few a day to some 50+
Their messages often -
1) Ignore what we wrote on the profile.
2) Get bombarded from the needy few over and over.
3) Start off polite and then make demands
4) Get many, "Fancy a fuck" messages.
5) Get rude replies to a question that we may ask.
So we simply no longer bother with guys. Had the odd good meet but the effort and no shows simply doesn't warrant the time and aggro. |
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The only one we've had was a guy who we responded to, as a 'maybe', as he ticked most of the right boxes for what we were looking for at the time. He then sent about 12 messages in the space of an hour (none of which were particularly interesting) and then got arsey and abusive when we didn't respond straight away. Bloooock.  |
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