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Greedy Girls Events - You're experiences

By *ouple36DD OP Couple over a year ago

Manchester

So we are off to our first greedy girls party next week and my mind is racing with anticipation and a few nerves

Wondering...will I get undressed or will guys come over and start taking off my clothes, will I expect to inundated with too many guys and have to select a couple? That's just the start of my questions.

Interested in advice from your experiences...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The standard swinger rules should ALWAYS apply. There should always, be a “ask before touch” unless you state otherwise to everyone involved.

As with all things in the swinging world, YOU have all the power, so if you want them ripping your clothes, or want to select a few, it’s your choice.

But I have seen at these events, guys will come up and chat and be polite for a chance to have fun.

You may have a lot come up to talk to you, but it won’t be a free for all, where they just rip off your clothes and drag you to the bed.

It will be fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I went to a club where they had a greedy girl avent. it was a bit scary at first. my husband picked the guys. i just sat on a big round bed just in a bra thong and stockings and had men all over me. it was like a gang bang there were about 15 guys. i got fucked a few times and cum all over me i enjoyed it. now ive done a few greedy girl nights.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Greedy girls events have the same rules as on a normal club night; no touching, ask or be invited to join play, no following couples around and be respectful.

You'll find them to be just as sociable as a normal club nights

Remember you are in control and play with people you want to and who you are comfortable with

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By *roggMan over a year ago

haverfordwest

Even in sex clubs that offer greedy girl meets no still means no and decent guys will always respect your desires and needs

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By *estmidscoupleCouple over a year ago

West Midlands

We’ve done a few, guys almost all respectful and we felt very comfortable, always done them in clubs or porn cinemas , I always watch for Slim, meaning I keep a close eye on wha5 guys are doing, for instance we had one try to heavy handedly shove fingers up her ass so had to have a word on that. But go and enjoy OP hope it’s brill for you

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By *ubgirl66Couple over a year ago

dunfermline

I went alone to a greedy girl event it was through the day at cjs in Glasgow I went with my partner. There was guys coming in in there lunch break I was just in my underwear ( stockings , bra and panties ) . My partner invited them over to play with me there was about 20 guys played with me a few fuked me some came over me covered me in cum. I had a great time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have someone with you that you trust and let them know what you are looking for and what you are not looking for.

Hope it goes with a bang

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By *icndaveCouple over a year ago

Mansfield

If you've never done it before, I wouldn't go thinking that you'll be having a massive gangbang. Go along and see what happens, what others are doing and if it feels right. Have a bit of a play together to start with, there will be men watching, invite 1 or 2 or more to join in and take it from there.

There are some guys go thinking they've paid, so they can do as they please - keep your eye out for them - but mostly the guys are clean and respectful.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

Its easy to get fucked by guys who you don't want to get fucked by. So watch out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I went to a club where they had a greedy girl avent. it was a bit scary at first. my husband picked the guys. i just sat on a big round bed just in a bra thong and stockings and had men all over me. it was like a gang bang there were about 15 guys. i got fucked a few times and cum all over me i enjoyed it. now ive done a few greedy girl nights. "
Sharon we love your profile would you like to meet us for some fun? PM if interested x

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By *innerdateMan over a year ago

Leigh

Sharon you sound and look like a lovely sensible lady if you want to meet up for a social and maybe attend a club I'd really enjoy that, I do like a sensible sociable chat and flirt x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are off to our first greedy girls party next week and my mind is racing with anticipation and a few nerves

Interested in advice from your experiences...

Remember your in charge.... nothing happens that you don't want.

We have always found the events to be great fun and the guys respectful. In fact normally we have had to invite the guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are off to our first greedy girls party next week and my mind is racing with anticipation and a few nerves

Interested in advice from your experiences...

We run GG events.. make sure the host rules through rules and make sure someone there has yr back sweetie x free to message me if u want to chat about it xx

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By *eggysallyTV/TS over a year ago

manchester

To be ravished by hot men makes my ass twitch. However they would have to be hung , ripped , good looking & energetic.

I'm hoping santa brings me them dream boys this xmas. If not i am going to seriously question the bearded fella's actual existence x x

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By *ouple36DD OP Couple over a year ago

Manchester

"If you've never done it before, I wouldn't go thinking that you'll be having a massive gangbang. Go along and see what happens, what others are doing and if it feels right. Have a bit of a play together to start with, there will be men watching, invite 1 or 2 or more to join in and take it from there.

There are some guys go thinking they've paid, so they can do as they please - keep your eye out for them - but mostly the guys are clean and respectful. "

Sounds like a good approach. Thanks

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By *ouple36DD OP Couple over a year ago

Manchester

"Its easy to get fucked by guys who you don't want to get fucked by. So watch out!"

Noted. Thanks

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By *ouple36DD OP Couple over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks for all your advice, it is appreciated. I'll report back after the party and let you know how it went.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still on our wish list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I went once and didn't play as was full of men who i wouldn't play with .I wasnt impressed

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By *ringles0510Woman over a year ago

Central Borders

Had a few amazing sessions, where the guys were all really nice and respectful and stayed in touch with some of them. So got hooked for a while.

Struggling a bit now though. Last few times I felt like I was a convenience, not a person. Not really a confidence booster. So I'm taking a break from it now.

Will probably get back to it at some point, but for now 2sums and 3sums for me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It really depends what you want to get out of the night and what you are in it for really. We have had nights whereby it was truly a take on all comers type of greedy night, it’s not that she can’t say no but she was there and wanting to have as many as possible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any decent men will respect the agreed rules. Any that don't usually are asked to leave.

Go with the knowledge that you are in control and have as much fun as you want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are some guys go thinking they've paid, so they can do as they please - keep your eye out for them - but mostly the guys are clean and respectful.

Sounds like a good approach. Thanks "

Can I clean up after all?

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By *ouple36DD OP Couple over a year ago

Manchester

Just reporting back.. the organisers took greedy girl to the extreme and invited way to many single guys and there were only a handful of girls only 2 of which were playing so there was a crowd of guys just waiting around the bed for their turn.

We started talking to this really nice young guy who I fancied. Paul started undressing me and took my bra off and the 3 of us made our way to one of the smaller beds - away from the crowd and had a very sexy threesome.

So wasn't quite a greedy girl night for me but happy as we had out first club MMF threesome with a lovely guy we might see again.

Thanks for all your responses x

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Just reporting back.. the organisers took greedy girl to the extreme and invited way to many single guys and there were only a handful of girls only 2 of which were playing so there was a crowd of guys just waiting around the bed for their turn.

So wasn't quite a greedy girl night for me but happy as we had out first club MMF threesome with a lovely guy we might see again.

Thanks for all your responses x "

Would you do it again though? Not the 3some bit; I mean the greedy girl thing.

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

So wasn't quite a greedy girl night for me but happy as we had out first club MMF threesome with a lovely guy we might see again.

Thanks for all your responses x "
. A lot of organiser think that every girl that comes is a greedy girl.There are as some who just want to much for one girl 5 guys could be ok for another may 10 guys so always too many guys.Would you go again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must admit that I have always been curious about such events but from what others are saying it sounds like it wouldn't be wise to go on my own

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By *ouple36DD OP Couple over a year ago

Manchester

So wasn't quite a greedy girl night for me but happy as we had out first club MMF threesome with a lovely guy we might see again.

Thanks for all your responses x . A lot of organiser think that every girl that comes is a greedy girl.There are as some who just want to much for one girl 5 guys could be ok for another may 10 guys so always too many guys.Would you go again."

Might do but would probably opt for a house party type of arrangement where the numbers are limited.

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

So wasn't quite a greedy girl night for me but happy as we had out first club MMF threesome with a lovely guy we might see again.

Might do but would probably opt for a house party type of arrangement where the numbers are limited. "
. A home arrangement is a good idea for say 5-6 guys maximum if you are thinking of 10 or more get 1or 2 guys to act as a sort of security.You never know if something is going to happen confrontation wise.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

So wasn't quite a greedy girl night for me but happy as we had out first club MMF threesome with a lovely guy we might see again.

Might do but would probably opt for a house party type of arrangement where the numbers are limited. "

Speaking of house parties, I wouldn't hold my breath on that one either. Unless its a "proper" organic one where "friends" are invited.

Anything which follows the lines of ladies; free, couples; free+x amount, guys; free +x + y amount always has too many guys. The organisers cannot help themselves.

Despite all the goodwill in the world, they simply cannot keep the guy numbers down because of simple economics. Just four guys in there is enough to pay for the electric and water. You see where I am going.

On the other hand, one could argue no gun is held to anyone's head. You choose to go or not to go.

I heard it said that it even turns out cheaper than a normal night out with your mates.

Before the discussion gets out of hand, we are talking of GG PARTIES and whether its fun. All of that is underlined by male numbers who gather at windows and doors and hallways in the hope of catching a glimpse or going in the fun.

Who let's the single guys in?

Why do they do it?

Do they care about the greedy girls, the guys, money, etc?

Do the greedy girls care about the fun, guys,organisers, etc?

Would the greedy girls continue to be greedy if the number of guys increased, decreased, stayed the same?

Would the organisers continue if the number of single guys dropped to acceptable levels?

Would the greedy girls continue to be greedy if they had to pay same as the single guys to make up for the shortfall should the single guy numbers fall?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tend to find too many guys and not a lot of girls makes for a disappointing night at times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am I wrong? It seems to me that, when a club sells a 100 entries to men who expect to fuck greedy girls, they are in fact simply pimping those women out as free whores? Personally, I rather have a private meet where the men don't have to pay for sex, or the chance of sex anyway ... but clubs seem so popular on Fab i guess i am in the minority...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am I wrong? It seems to me that, when a club sells a 100 entries to men who expect to fuck greedy girls, they are in fact simply pimping those women out as free whores? Personally, I rather have a private meet where the men don't have to pay for sex, or the chance of sex anyway ... but clubs seem so popular on Fab i guess i am in the minority...

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and the girls tend to fuck who they find attractive and so many guys leave with full sacks and emptier pockets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting viewpoint - but if the women are choosing to be there, surely they are not being pimped?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting viewpoint - but if the women are choosing to be there, surely they are not being pimped? "

Choosing? Well i guess not but then again not ALL sex workers dont want to do it either. The OP at least was not greedy that night... so the men there would have been dissapointed i expect.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

How dare you raise such a viewpoint? Didn't you know everyone had a choice?

Didn't you know everyone could cite with their feet?

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

How dare you raise such a viewpoint? Didn't you know everyone had a choice?

Didn't you know everyone could cite with their feet?"

*vote* with their feet.

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

Interesting viewpoint - but if the women are choosing to be there, surely they are not being pimped?

Choosing? Well i guess not but then again not ALL sex workers dont want to do it either. The OP at least was not greedy that night... so the men there would have been dissapointed i expect.

You are being way too harsh. As with every night at a Club you can say no, you can choose who you fancy being with or not, whether you play or not. This is a Swingers site where we make our own choices, you are not coming across as very liberal, nor does it sound like you’ve even been to a club, let alone a GG night! It is a daft name, people go wanting a variety of experiences, some just go because there will be more choice of single guys than normal, some because they want several encounters, some because they want multiple guys - but none need judging

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By *iversong321Woman over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Interesting viewpoint - but if the women are choosing to be there, surely they are not being pimped? "

I've been to greedy girl events and not fucked anyone. My choice and if it disappoints the fellas not my problem. I go to find a few hot males to play with. If I dont fancy any my knickers stay on. Clubs pimping women out? Nah ladies can make their own minds up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are off to our first greedy girls party next week and my mind is racing with anticipation and a few nerves

Interested in advice from your experiences...

"
grab a ticket and queue up?

just the impression I get haha!

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By *uicy72Woman over a year ago

North Colchester

I’ve only been to 1 greedy girls event and it was very respectful!

We only played together! It was our 1st time we were a little shy and we have not attended this sort of event before.

We both wasn’t attracted to any of the others !

No one tried to make myself or friend do anything we didn’t want to

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple over a year ago

Old Hill

Greedy girl events can be fantastic or disappointing. Prefer to go into a club or meeting and find lots of guys rather than too few.

Like any group activity you need people to work together, often its a case of hoping that everything clicks on the night.

As the greedy girl I try and go with the flow if it feels good. If you have a script in your head as to what is going to happen you are going to end up frustrated or upset.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How dare you raise such a viewpoint? Didn't you know everyone had a choice?

Didn't you know everyone could cite with their feet?

*vote* with their feet.

How dare I???

. OMG!! If I had known you were a Forum moderator I would definately have asked your permission before I posted.... I apologise sincerely for my inexcusable error.

BTW I never said anyone lacked freedom of choice, men or women. Simply clubs make a tidy sum selling the suggestion that there may be an amateur greedy girl inside willing to have sex with them.

One of the reasons I like Fab is because they do not charge you to join so it seems genuinely amateur but i accept my viewpoint may not match many others.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

How dare you raise such a viewpoint? Didn't you know everyone had a choice?

Didn't you know everyone could cite with their feet?

*vote* with their feet.

How dare I???

. OMG!! If I had known you were a Forum moderator I would definately have asked your permission before I posted.... I apologise sincerely for my inexcusable error.

BTW I never said anyone lacked freedom of choice, men or women. Simply clubs make a tidy sum selling the suggestion that there may be an amateur greedy girl inside willing to have sex with them.

One of the reasons I like Fab is because they do not charge you to join so it seems genuinely amateur but i accept my viewpoint may not match many others.

I reckon it all went over your head then, didn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How dare you raise such a viewpoint? Didn't you know everyone had a choice?

Didn't you know everyone could cite with their feet?

*vote* with their feet.

How dare I???

. OMG!! If I had known you were a Forum moderator I would definately have asked your permission before I posted.... I apologise sincerely for my inexcusable error.

BTW I never said anyone lacked freedom of choice, men or women. Simply clubs make a tidy sum selling the suggestion that there may be an amateur greedy girl inside willing to have sex with them.

One of the reasons I like Fab is because they do not charge you to join so it seems genuinely amateur but i accept my viewpoint may not match many others.

I reckon it all went over your head then, didn't it?"

Were you being sarcastic then???

If you were it does not show in your text..

If you were not then nothing went over my head.

Which was it?

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I will invite you to read my other posts in this thread. I am sure you can make the connection.

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By *rnortholtMan over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Interesting viewpoint - but if the women are choosing to be there, surely they are not being pimped? "

You know yourself how few guys you find appealing. I think some of these events sound like places are, if not pimping out women who go, then using them as bait to get men to pay for entry.

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By *urious and openmindedCouple over a year ago

under the sea

"I must admit that I have always been curious about such events but from what others are saying it sounds like it wouldn't be wise to go on my own"

There's 1 in Yarmouth soon

Vey tempted to give it a look and see what it's about

Like they say there's no pressure to satisfy every1

Just those who get u all tingly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting viewpoint - but if the women are choosing to be there, surely they are not being pimped?

You know yourself how few guys you find appealing. I think some of these events sound like places are, if not pimping out women who go, then using them as bait to get men to pay for entry."

Couldn't the same be said of any club night? I still have an issue with the word "pimping" though as the women are not being paid and are going of their own free will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The very first time I went to Kestrels I met a couple and we were talking. It turned out that the wife had slept with 13 men that day so far. One was even before she had gone to the club. She had a very large appetite. I have over the years been at events and seen women play with multiple men.

It is a constant complaint on Fab how difficult it is to set up a and have a successful gangbang. Therefore for women who have a desire and a need for a lot, a greedy girl event seems the best of matching desires and the best use of everybodies' time. It being given that nothing is guaranteed.

There are individual events that seem to be money making schemes where men are charged excessively and the arrangements are shady. But when held in a regular club at regular prices. I can't see there is an issue. Although I suspect some people cannot believe that some women like a lot of sex without the standard 'connection'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will invite you to read my other posts in this thread. I am sure you can make the connection. "

You mean the 32nd post on this topic? Sorry i lose the will to live after the 30th usually. Didnt read it. Too long and rambling.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Had some good times at these types of events. Every one was polite and friendly. No douche bag behaviour. Woman is definitely the boss. .

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By *ussylickerextreamMan over a year ago

Banbury

I would think some single women would feel safer in a club

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By *uicy72Woman over a year ago

North Colchester

"I would think some single women would feel safer in a club"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would be good if someone organisd a no play social in London for people who where looking for greedy girls and gang bangs.

Then people could contact the people they like for some fun.

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By *ucy LewdWoman over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

"It would be good if someone organisd a no play social in London for people who where looking for greedy girls and gang bangs.

Then people could contact the people they like for some fun."

Why don't you do that? All it would take was a meeting place and some promotion, perhaps the hire of a room in a bar if you knew you were going to get the numbers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The very first time I went to Kestrels I met a couple and we were talking. It turned out that the wife had slept with 13 men that day so far. One was even before she had gone to the club. She had a very large appetite. I have over the years been at events and seen women play with multiple men.

The success of greedy girl events at clubs like Abfabs confirms what you say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we are off to our first greedy girls party next week and my mind is racing with anticipation and a few nerves

Interested in advice from your experiences...

"
Ive done some great greedy girl events at amours and townhouse.

Most people are respectful in swinging relax and enjoy.

Im looking for good northwest event now.

Anyone having a gangbang ?

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

I attend GG events at Atlantis, Stoke-On-Trent area. They are that popular that they now run two a month. It's fun and safe for women. No pressure if you want several men at once, have a few one at a time over the course of the evening, or just want to mingle and chat on that occasion, but it's always a fun event. Majority of the guys are really respectful and pleasant.

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By *nmgCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

Really good post.... We're considering going to these nights, but just don't know what to expect. We certainly don't want K to be pounced on by hoards of guys, more thinking of the bukkake side of things.

Feel a bit more comfortable with the situation now!!

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