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By *antsbelle OP Woman
over a year ago
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I currently chatting to a guy, who has a single profile and a joint profile with a lady who is part of a couple, he arranges all the meets for her, I have asked if I can chat to the lady but he says she is too busy and likes him to arrange meets on her behalf? As a single girl would you be suspicous? |
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He could be telling the truth, we have found people who prefer to let one person in the relationship to set up meets and such.
That said I think you should trust your gut, even when we met people in this way it was not ideal and the meet did not go beyond a social.
So basically a long way of saying "up to you" sorry wish we could be more help.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is the profile she is on verified? Is it verified for her recently?
I would be a bit suspicious, if I am honest. Could be an old profile and theyve since split, weve come across this a few times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% yes, my husband sometimes 'wingmans' me on our couple profile but I soon take over.
If this girls too busy to chat, how's she going to find the time to meet you?
I'd insist on FaceTimeing or at least a phone call. X |
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As above, it's hard to call him out for sure due to the muddied waters of cross profiles here.
Also, one is often more communicative and/or there could be only an attraction from one half etc.
I give everyone the benefit of doubt until I can flat out call bullshit..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gut feeling is it's a married man who thinks he's going to get his wife involved. She's never going to even find out she's part of a couple's profile unless he gets grassed up. |
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By *antsbelle OP Woman
over a year ago
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After more thought, I think it might be a guy posing as part of a couple, when in fact he is a single guy, he would find it more difficult attracting a single girl on a single guys profile, I have asked for phone call to verify! Best way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forget it. She doesn’t exist otherwise she would happily say hi to you on the phone.
Probably just a guy who doesn’t have a wife or gf and is just looking for wank fodder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On couple profile no verifcations "
I would steer clear, sounds iffy. If he arranges all meets why no veris? Even after a social most people would verify as a genuine couple. Sounds like a loner with a boner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I currently chatting to a guy, who has a single profile and a joint profile with a lady who is part of a couple, he arranges all the meets for her, I have asked if I can chat to the lady but he says she is too busy and likes him to arrange meets on her behalf? As a single girl would you be suspicous? "
It would depend on who you were planning on meeting ... him, her or them as a couple ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If things go according to script then you will arrange to meet as a couple but as a last minute situation something will come up and she won't be able to make it. You'll then be left with the awkward decision to cancel the meet or go along... |
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"On couple profile no verifcations
I would steer clear, sounds iffy. If he arranges all meets why no veris? Even after a social most people would verify as a genuine couple. Sounds like a loner with a boner. "
"loner with a boner." Brilliant lol!  |
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By *antsbelle OP Woman
over a year ago
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I agree, I did see he met a couple and the female didn't turn up at last minute, so I think he chancing his luck to be realistic, he does have another joint profile, I think he is just desperate to find another fuck buddy, I would rather go to a party where no strings or mind games lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree, I did see he met a couple and the female didn't turn up at last minute, so I think he chancing his luck to be realistic, he does have another joint profile, I think he is just desperate to find another fuck buddy, I would rather go to a party where no strings or mind games lol "
The female was never going to turn up! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"After more thought, I think it might be a guy posing as part of a couple, when in fact he is a single guy, he would find it more difficult attracting a single girl on a single guys profile, I have asked for phone call to verify! Best way "
phone call or cam x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently chatting to a guy, who has a single profile and a joint profile with a lady who is part of a couple, he arranges all the meets for her, I have asked if I can chat to the lady but he says she is too busy and likes him to arrange meets on her behalf? As a single girl would you be suspicous? "
yes if i was meeting yte couple i would be speaking to both people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would thinks she probably not even real, but he wishes she did. Easy for a single guy to message people has I guess a lot block single guys from messaging them. I the female do most of the chats and arrangements on here and help to do a phone chat after a few messages only way to be sure.  |
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