I have known someone as friends for a few years away from Fab, and have just seen their photo/profile on here. Would it be right to approach and drop hints that we have another mutual interest or leave it and just remain friends |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"I have known someone as friends for a few years away from Fab, and have just seen their photo/profile on here. Would it be right to approach and drop hints that we have another mutual interest or leave it and just remain friends "
It really depends on the person and your personal situation. I always love saying hi to people I know in RL on here but then I’m open about our lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess that depends on your relationship with them and what you hope to get out of telling them you have a mutual interest. It could be fun to tell them you are on this site and see if he or she says “so am I”! You never know unless you drop the hint or come straight out and say it. |
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I've spotted a few real life friends on here.
2 of which was no problem, we've had a good laugh, and a little fun.
But another, I had to threaten I'd take action against, as he kept pestering me.
There's a few I instantly blocked after that situation as I didn't want to repeat it.
Guess it depends on your actual level of friendship how well you know each other & most importantly how much you trust each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was the friend you had spotted on here, I would rather you blocked me and acted like you'd never seen my profile. I prefer to keep my fab life and ordinary life separate. That's just my view but of course we're all different. |
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The question you have to ask us would you & would she?
It’s never happened to us but would find it really hard not to mention it. People say if you’re not sure if people are on here or even if you know you should add FAB to your vocabulary more often. Have a fab day, did you have a fab weekend etc etc.
It might at least get them to realise they know you know, even if they don’t want to talk about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have been spotted on here but i dont hide from close mates than i am in swing and fet.
usually they will mention a status or a image and then i know
but i rarely mention to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe drop them a message on here. Don't mention you know them elsewhere, if it's a no thanks or ignore then never mention it again. If it's a positive response then tell them you know them off fab and ask if they want to continue. If it's a no then drop it at once and never mention it again.
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