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So there's a woman (white curvy 5'1, big boobs cute bum and juicy pussy with nice lips) we've been speaking for nearly 2years now on fab. Never meet up before. But we keep in contact and flirt now and again on whatsapp. Last weekend she said if I am ever going to a party or club to call her so we could go together. I then received a text from her this afternoon saying she was extremely horny and wanted to fuck (she's done this before) I then booked hotel for the night trimed up my pubes and went to my emergency barber to look very presentable for the meet. Because you know first impressions and everything. She said forget the barber's I don't care I just wanna finally fuck you. So obviously when receiving this text I was in the chair looking good and fresh and replied it's done anyway where do you want me to pick you up. Messages after messages were just getting read. And I was extremely getting frustrated but also really horny. So I was polite with my messages but also assertive. Anyway got down to it. She's gone to the pub with her flatmate but hasn't said if she's still coming or not. That question for avioded. Shall I cut full ties with her now. It's been nearly 2 years and I haven't met. I understand for a single woman it is scary but by two years of dialogue you should feel a but comfortable with me right or even if I'm not for you let me know. What's your opinion guys
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She's taking the piss. I mean, I'm a bloody nightmare for not arranging meets with people I've chatted to for ages but if she lives close and let you go to all that trouble for nowt then I wouldn't bother again! |
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over a year ago
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"So there's a woman (white curvy 5'1, big boobs cute bum and juicy pussy with nice lips) we've been speaking for nearly 2years now on fab. Never meet up before. But we keep in contact and flirt now and again on whatsapp. Last weekend she said if I am ever going to a party or club to call her so we could go together. I then received a text from her this afternoon saying she was extremely horny and wanted to fuck (she's done this before) I then booked hotel for the night trimed up my pubes and went to my emergency barber to look very presentable for the meet. Because you know first impressions and everything. She said forget the barber's I don't care I just wanna finally fuck you. So obviously when receiving this text I was in the chair looking good and fresh and replied it's done anyway where do you want me to pick you up. Messages after messages were just getting read. And I was extremely getting frustrated but also really horny. So I was polite with my messages but also assertive. Anyway got down to it. She's gone to the pub with her flatmate but hasn't said if she's still coming or not. That question for avioded. Shall I cut full ties with her now. It's been nearly 2 years and I haven't met. I understand for a single woman it is scary but by two years of dialogue you should feel a but comfortable with me right or even if I'm not for you let me know. What's your opinion guys
Chef"
Total Catfish get rid x |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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Unfortunately OP I'd say she's been having you on. I think it's time to cut all ties , block and move on. Words are so easy but it's the actions that count. Her own action is lifting a glass to her mouth tonight. Hope you fine someone nice to take her place |
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It's appalling because I've seen her live on cam and we've exchanged pics. I honestly thought maybe it is the fear factor of meeting someone new. I've had it a lot where women don't feel comfortable. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"It's appalling because I've seen her live on cam and we've exchanged pics. I honestly thought maybe it is the fear factor of meeting someone new. I've had it a lot where women don't feel comfortable. "
Did you ever suggest going for a drink somewhere? |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"It's appalling because I've seen her live on cam and we've exchanged pics. I honestly thought maybe it is the fear factor of meeting someone new. I've had it a lot where women don't feel comfortable. "
Happens to us all. I've cammed someone, spent hours chatting, phone calls etc over a period of a few months.... meet planned and goes silent 
Honestly just block and forget her |
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"It's appalling because I've seen her live on cam and we've exchanged pics. I honestly thought maybe it is the fear factor of meeting someone new. I've had it a lot where women don't feel comfortable.
Did you ever suggest going for a drink somewhere?"
Yes lady luck I have. Id wish I were allowed to show you guys messages. I can be a bit assertive I'd admit that. But it's becoming abit much now. Like we've exchanged a lot. She has a interest in parties. I honestly feel that it is maybe the fear of meeting people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah sack her of fact now dude. 2 years is a piss take.
I met a guy 3 years ago and fucked him and we've kept in touch since with pics and videos and flirty chat but I've never agreed to meet him and not gone ahead with it. A few months ago I had a bad meet (didn't fancy the guy) and he'd paid for a hotel room so I messaged the other guy and he came instead. Couldn't waste the room.
But saying to meet and not going through with it is just bad manners, don't indulge her anymore. |
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"It's appalling because I've seen her live on cam and we've exchanged pics. I honestly thought maybe it is the fear factor of meeting someone new. I've had it a lot where women don't feel comfortable. "
You are so generous with your thoughts..
You deserve better, I get the impression she is using you..lets hope she reads this.
Move on Mr. |
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2 years and not met! - even if she's nervous she could have met for a social only. So, 1: she's taking the piss and 2: you sound desperate if you're holding out for so long. Have some dignity, cut ties and move on to someone who will respect you and wants to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Two years is an awful long time. You are very polite thinking she's nervous but really if she was that nervous she could meet you for a coffee first. I think she likes the attention you give her sadly just another time waster. I'd block and move on.
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"It's appalling because I've seen her live on cam and we've exchanged pics. I honestly thought maybe it is the fear factor of meeting someone new. I've had it a lot where women don't feel comfortable.
Did you ever suggest going for a drink somewhere?
Yes lady luck I have. Id wish I were allowed to show you guys messages. I can be a bit assertive I'd admit that. But it's becoming abit much now. Like we've exchanged a lot. She has a interest in parties. I honestly feel that it is maybe the fear of meeting people. "
If you feel that then continue as you are. What do you mean by assertive? Don't quote messages but just give an idea. |
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I see all the block messages but being the hopeless romantic is it possible that after these 2 years she actually has feelings for you greater than a night of fun which is why she is putting it off as she doesn't want to get hurt. I don't know her 'fab' past but if she is real 2 yrs is a long time to put in to a possible one night relationship. In which case you need to let her know exactly what you want! Just a thought!
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"So there's a woman (white curvy 5'1, big boobs cute bum and juicy pussy with nice lips) we've been speaking for nearly 2years now on fab. Never meet up before. But we keep in contact and flirt now and again on whatsapp. Last weekend she said if I am ever going to a party or club to call her so we could go together. I then received a text from her this afternoon saying she was extremely horny and wanted to fuck (she's done this before) I then booked hotel for the night trimed up my pubes and went to my emergency barber to look very presentable for the meet. Because you know first impressions and everything. She said forget the barber's I don't care I just wanna finally fuck you. So obviously when receiving this text I was in the chair looking good and fresh and replied it's done anyway where do you want me to pick you up. Messages after messages were just getting read. And I was extremely getting frustrated but also really horny. So I was polite with my messages but also assertive. Anyway got down to it. She's gone to the pub with her flatmate but hasn't said if she's still coming or not. That question for avioded. Shall I cut full ties with her now. It's been nearly 2 years and I haven't met. I understand for a single woman it is scary but by two years of dialogue you should feel a but comfortable with me right or even if I'm not for you let me know. What's your opinion guys
Chef"
Honestly, do you really need to ask? |
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"So there's a woman (white curvy 5'1, big boobs cute bum and juicy pussy with nice lips) we've been speaking for nearly 2years now on fab. Never meet up before. But we keep in contact and flirt now and again on whatsapp. Last weekend she said if I am ever going to a party or club to call her so we could go together. I then received a text from her this afternoon saying she was extremely horny and wanted to fuck (she's done this before) I then booked hotel for the night trimed up my pubes and went to my emergency barber to look very presentable for the meet. Because you know first impressions and everything. She said forget the barber's I don't care I just wanna finally fuck you. So obviously when receiving this text I was in the chair looking good and fresh and replied it's done anyway where do you want me to pick you up. Messages after messages were just getting read. And I was extremely getting frustrated but also really horny. So I was polite with my messages but also assertive. Anyway got down to it. She's gone to the pub with her flatmate but hasn't said if she's still coming or not. That question for avioded. Shall I cut full ties with her now. It's been nearly 2 years and I haven't met. I understand for a single woman it is scary but by two years of dialogue you should feel a but comfortable with me right or even if I'm not for you let me know. What's your opinion guys
Chef"
Get rid move on... |
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