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Am i not attractive?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been on this site for ages now and cant seem to meet any one(females) i'm starting my openers with "hey how are you" etc but no one seems to reply? If any one is interested or can help me i would love to have your assistance x |
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over a year ago
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"Been on this site for ages now and cant seem to meet any one(females) i'm starting my openers with "hey how are you" etc but no one seems to reply? If any one is interested or can help me i would love to have your assistance x"
The problem that you have is that if you contact anyone on here the first thing they will look at is your profile.
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"Been on this site for ages now and cant seem to meet any one(females) i'm starting my openers with "hey how are you" etc but no one seems to reply? If any one is interested or can help me i would love to have your assistance x"
Says you’ve only been on 4 weeks that’s not a long time at all |
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"I'm assuming this is a wind up as you've been on here for 4 weeks, have no profile and start messages with hey how are you."
was going to say that, also seems to us as a little arrogant 'Come find out' ewww |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my messages start along to similar lines to yours so I just ignore those.
Then I get a few that start with something interesting, so I then peek at their profile
If the profile is attractive to me I may then open the message. |
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Your only 26. Alot of people on the site have kids that age.
Your user name is a bit strange as for a younger guy I would have expected that name from an older gentleman.
Get yourself to any local social events. These are great ice breakers. |
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Single men typically find it more difficult to get meets than women or couples.
Your profile looks ok to me if a bit sparse and you're a good looking guy.
You can change your name if you're a site supporter. It's unlikely that anyone will message you to find out more so it will help if you put a little more information.
Clubs and organised socials are a good way to meet people and joining in the forums in a friendly way will get you known.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I for one, don’t see a big cock or a big tongue on a profile and instantly go weak at the knees.
I see a handsome face and/or a hot body, I go weak at the knees.
You’re good looking. That’s a far better asset than your tongue x |
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"4 weeks is not "ages" my dear. Calm down. Try writing a proper message rather than "how are you"."
 such a boring opening with no thought too it, like throwing a net out and seeing what you catch. Yawn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are attractive, you can see it in your chin and your eyes. Take off the glasses and headphones picture. Keep the sleeping one, I'm into sleeping guys 
You're 6 foot, can accommodate, profile text is nice and normal now. Only thing I'd do is put a picture of your penis up, standing side on to the camera, hands free and penis hanging free.
But to answer your question, you are attractive. |
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Your doing the right thing by changing your profile.
Sounds to me, its more what you believed this site to be when you joined.
The majority want to make connections and enjoy sexual encounters of various types, but most guys think it's just a site full of over horny women, who fuck anyone at anytime.
Reality check.....it's not for 99%.
If you had that kinder attitude, it comes across subconsciously and in the profile choices you first make (daddydom123, wtf?)
If your looking for quick, one night shit stands, better off at local night club.
Looking for sexual adventure and getting the most out of meeting like minded people, your in the right place.
You might make some good friends, even meet the women of your dreams.
Possibly enjoy sexual liaisons you have only seen on sexectra! 
Or find out your fantasies can be better in reality.
Clubs, M&G, Socials are by far the best way to start.
Chatting on the forums is good too, be yourself there.
And lastly, be patient, 4 weeks is nothing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been on this site for ages now and cant seem to meet any one(females) i'm starting my openers with "hey how are you" etc but no one seems to reply? If any one is interested or can help me i would love to have your assistance x"
Try being a little more unique with your first message.. maybe pic something out from the persons bio to prove that you’ve read it. That’s always something that encourages me to respond. And be patient! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't really like messages saying things like 'how are you?'. Just don't know how to respond to it. I suppose we should politely say 'fine thanks'. But that all seems a bit of a naff conversation, especially between strangers on the internet.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Answering the first question no you're not unattractive, and your vital stats tick a lot of boxes for us. It's a good start.
But...a message that is purely Hey, how are you/ what you doing/Had a good weekend? are not great conversation starters on here. We would ignore them because typically you end up with a load of one line messages and it's like pulling teeth. If you bulk up your profile and tall a little more about what you want and offer, and being that sort of thing into your messages imho you may get a better response. T |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The first message is a difficult one. As a guy on here, you will only get a reply to a minority so you dont want to spend ages writing a long one as you will probably be ignored anyway. But just saying "Hey how are you" is boring. I suggest write a bit about yourself introducing who you are (copy and paste if necessary) and then something about why you like the ladies profile. I would guess with your new improved profile you will do very well on here eventually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“Hey how are you” or “you ok” or “what ya up to” messages are the type we tend to ignore. We’ve even put the answers in our profile to those type of questions which would show to us that the sender has not even bothered to read it. Your best question to start with is something relevant to the profile you are sending to. This shows you’ve read their text and interested in what they have to offer.
Yes you are young compared to many on here but it’s not a major issue for some . If you were 19 or so then yes. |
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