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Had a great meet on Tuesday morning, received good verification and text inviting me to meet again BUT suddenly blocked and ignored! I am always polite and respectful, not one of mad, bad or sad brigade on here. I paid all the expenses for the meet and the ladies involved were very happy with my massage skills. You will tell me to get over it, fair enough, but a polite, 'sorry it didn't work for us', would have been better than such a rude ending. Gives the lifestyle and the site a bad name!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guess she didn't enjoy it that much or just didn't want to meet again for whatever reason. Some people don't want any contact after a meet, perhaps she felt you were pestering or something. You had a nice meet, just leave it at that and don't worry about the reasons for the block. You are here for the meet, not the verifications  |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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What was great for you may not have been the case for her. I will admit I have done this once and had good reason to do so. Sometimes it's easier to appear rude rather than upset someone with the truth  |
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By *art123Man
over a year ago
Stoke |
"Had a great meet on Tuesday morning, received good verification and text inviting me to meet again BUT suddenly blocked and ignored! I am always polite and respectful, not one of mad, bad or sad brigade on here. I paid all the expenses for the meet and the ladies involved were very happy with my massage skills. You will tell me to get over it, fair enough, but a polite, 'sorry it didn't work for us', would have been better than such a rude ending. Gives the lifestyle and the site a bad name!!
Any thoughts or similar experiences?"
Seems very strange and rude to me op but sadly you won’t get any sympathy from most on the forums...
Always expect the unexpected on fab. |
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I do agree but why give a good verification, invite me back, friend me and then pull the plug? I know she (they actually) both had 1 or more happy endings...? Such is life, I will hope for better luck next time.
Thanks for support everyone who expressed sympathy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was a good meet and you were discussing meeting again, then maybe the block happened by accident. That happened to us once. Don't know if it was an IT glitch or fat fingers but we got blocked by one of our regulars. I texted him and he confirmed we were on his block list and didn't know why. He unblocked us and refriended us. We also had people disapear from our friends list accidentally. Maybe you could text your friend and double check it wasn't a mistake?
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Thanks for this advice, I did text and ask why but have been ignored. Thanked them for the meet and bowed out graciously it's a pity they didn't.
Still I am clearly not alone in experiencing this sort of behavior. I suppose I am a bit cross because it feels like being 'discarded'. If it wasn't that great for them at least say, thanks but not again thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's awful but I agree with others it could have been accidental. It's just not nice for you especially if you had been chatting since and had a really good time. Either way don't let it dent your confidence though. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Fear not I will hang in there, but this lifestyle only works with respect and trust, perhaps I am old fashioned, I clearly am old (but still able!)."
THEY still have your number so...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a number of friends who never do seconds..
Fresh Meat rules.."
If people don't do seconds that's fine, as long as they don't lead someone to believe there might be a second course.
Mrs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would feel the same as you o.p if they said they wanted to meet you after your first meet it does seem strange! Were they a FF couple? If so maybe 1 sent the text without checking the other wanted to meet again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sad to say it looks to me like you were suckered.  They saved £80 on two massages and then ran off. By blocking you any veris exchanged don't show.
Why do it? Because they can? 
I do however hope i'm wrong ... |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Had a great meet on Tuesday morning, received good verification and text inviting me to meet again BUT suddenly blocked and ignored! I am always polite and respectful, not one of mad, bad or sad brigade on here. I paid all the expenses for the meet and the ladies involved were very happy with my massage skills. You will tell me to get over it, fair enough, but a polite, 'sorry it didn't work for us', would have been better than such a rude ending. Gives the lifestyle and the site a bad name!!
Any thoughts or similar experiences?"
It doesn't give the lifestyle and site a bad name at all.  |
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"Had a great meet on Tuesday morning, received good verification and text inviting me to meet again BUT suddenly blocked and ignored! I am always polite and respectful, not one of mad, bad or sad brigade on here. I paid all the expenses for the meet and the ladies involved were very happy with my massage skills. You will tell me to get over it, fair enough, but a polite, 'sorry it didn't work for us', would have been better than such a rude ending. Gives the lifestyle and the site a bad name!!
Any thoughts or similar experiences?"
Seems you had a great night tbh, as you've referenced 'ladies', so chalk it up to experience.
There's me thinking if one blocks you, their very disappears, maybe I'm wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a great meet on Tuesday morning, received good verification and text inviting me to meet again BUT suddenly blocked and ignored! I am always polite and respectful, not one of mad, bad or sad brigade on here. I paid all the expenses for the meet and the ladies involved were very happy with my massage skills. You will tell me to get over it, fair enough, but a polite, 'sorry it didn't work for us', would have been better than such a rude ending. Gives the lifestyle and the site a bad name!!
Any thoughts or similar experiences?"
Some people just want one off meets are do not wish to meet again. I don't think there is any necessity for anyone to justify their reasons for not wanting any further contact especially if everyone enjoyed themselves at the meet in question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's clear to me She didn't enjoy you or the sex you both had. She didn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you this so block you instead. She's made herself look bad by sparing your feelings. You really should get over it and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a great meet on Tuesday morning, received good verification and text inviting me to meet again BUT suddenly blocked and ignored! I am always polite and respectful, not one of mad, bad or sad brigade on here. I paid all the expenses for the meet and the ladies involved were very happy with my massage skills. You will tell me to get over it, fair enough, but a polite, 'sorry it didn't work for us', would have been better than such a rude ending. Gives the lifestyle and the site a bad name!!
Any thoughts or similar experiences? Some people just want one off meets are do not wish to meet again. I don't think there is any necessity for anyone to justify their reasons for not wanting any further contact especially if everyone enjoyed themselves at the meet in question. "
It was really stupid of her giving him a verification then blocking him. |
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"I have a number of friends who never do seconds..
Fresh Meat rules..
If people don't do seconds that's fine, as long as they don't lead someone to believe there might be a second course.
Mrs
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Okay, that was funny!
But going back to the OP, as unpleasant as the experience must have been, you did get a meet and a verification, that is "success", which you can build on. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I have a number of friends who never do seconds..
Fresh Meat rules..
If people don't do seconds that's fine, as long as they don't lead someone to believe there might be a second course.
Mrs
Okay, that was funny!
But going back to the OP, as unpleasant as the experience must have been, you did get a meet and a verification, that is "success", which you can build on. "
Actually, he didn't get a verification as they've blocked him. So now all he has is the memories... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a number of friends who never do seconds..
Fresh Meat rules..
If people don't do seconds that's fine, as long as they don't lead someone to believe there might be a second course.
Mrs
Okay, that was funny!
But going back to the OP, as unpleasant as the experience must have been, you did get a meet and a verification, that is "success", which you can build on.
Actually, he didn't get a verification as they've blocked him. So now all he has is the memories... "
are veris everything not to me they arent |
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"I have a number of friends who never do seconds..
Fresh Meat rules..
If people don't do seconds that's fine, as long as they don't lead someone to believe there might be a second course.
Mrs
Okay, that was funny!
But going back to the OP, as unpleasant as the experience must have been, you did get a meet and a verification, that is "success", which you can build on.
Actually, he didn't get a verification as they've blocked him. So now all he has is the memories... "
Oh, right, so you lose the verification once you get blocked? Oh, bummer, well roll on the good memories then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a number of friends who never do seconds..
Fresh Meat rules..
If people don't do seconds that's fine, as long as they don't lead someone to believe there might be a second course.
Mrs
Okay, that was funny!
But going back to the OP, as unpleasant as the experience must have been, you did get a meet and a verification, that is "success", which you can build on.
Actually, he didn't get a verification as they've blocked him. So now all he has is the memories... "
It will still show on his total meets, just not the text. Maybe they just said they would meet again to be kind. Obviously you're not their thing for regular. I once told a bloke that and he got upset, now I just block if I don't want a repeat. I mostly like one offs XXX |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I have a number of friends who never do seconds..
Fresh Meat rules..
If people don't do seconds that's fine, as long as they don't lead someone to believe there might be a second course.
Mrs
Okay, that was funny!
But going back to the OP, as unpleasant as the experience must have been, you did get a meet and a verification, that is "success", which you can build on.
Actually, he didn't get a verification as they've blocked him. So now all he has is the memories...
are veris everything not to me they arent "
That would be a topic for another thread! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a great meet?? Let a young new couple come to ours : we are very hospitable
They kept pestering us for their First verification then blocked us !!
Some really horrible and hurtful people on here!!
But we will not stoop to their level!! |
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