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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"
I had a message a while back from a guy who insisted he was 57. His pictures were taken inside his residential home and it was obvious he was in his 70's
Seems thinking with their other brain is a lifelong condition. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?
I had a message a while back from a guy who insisted he was 57. His pictures were taken inside his residential home and it was obvious he was in his 70's
Seems thinking with their other brain is a lifelong condition."
Maybe he was trying to hook you up with his [younger] carer 
- Mrs. J - |
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By *edMan
over a year ago
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"
I don't lie about my age...
I don't even like when I hear the dreaded question, "does my bum look big in this..."
maybe this is why I'm still single?? |
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By *revor1940Man
over a year ago
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I lie by a few weeks to not put my genuine birthday on the site, I have actually said I am a bit older than my real age. The overall result is a belief I cant perform and exclusion by many. Better than pretending something else. |
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One thing we have never got our heads around will meet 18 to 99 years old we had a mail years ago from a man telling us he was 50 we arranged a meet think the zimmer frame gave it away as we sat in pub car park was totally shocked!!!when he arrived hence did not get out of the car |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 33 look older  but dont bother me age tbh as long as i like the look of you and get on who cares but dont lie thats just stupid tbh youll look different couple of years maybe but alot older or younger dont see the point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How is age so relevant? There are 30 years old that look worn out and 50 years old that could model.
Looks mean nothing if you dont pay as well attention to personality and attitude.
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On a previous profile I met 2 guys who confessed to being 10 years older than their profile ages. The 1st of them could almost pass for his fake age but the other, lord knows how he thought he was going to get away with it. Both were told to toddle off again, I do not like being lied to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes looks don’t matter a lot when it comes to me but uploading 5 years ago pics. And we meet in a car park,it’s a unforgiven sin. Be happy with your age,someone will like you for who you are. I was pissed off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a good point, im 44, probably look 44 lol, ive always loved older women, 40,60 ish, as ladies seem to age better!, dont see the point in lying, age ,height, etc, whats the point?, telling someone you are a seven foot mass of rippling muscled sex god, ...they will notice that youve been fibbing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a good point, im 44, probably look 44 lol, ive always loved older women, 40,60 ish, as ladies seem to age better!, dont see the point in lying, age ,height, etc, whats the point?, telling someone you are a seven foot mass of rippling muscled sex god, ...they will notice that youve been fibbing
Mate you are So right just be honest then save the disappointment and the _ed faces if you actually me "
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I had someone message me the other day . Fab age said 35 ... on his profile he said he was 44. He couldn't get his head around why I wasn't interested in chatting to him !! Errr because you're a liar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How is age so relevant? There are 30 years old that look worn out and 50 years old that could model.
Looks mean nothing if you dont pay as well attention to personality and attitude.
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Pffffft oh my days...
"Worn out" you know   |
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"I'm fast approaching the big five-oh. I know that will exclude me from contacting a whole swathe of ladies....but I guess I'll just have to suck it up!"
Me next May but thankfully we meet in clubs no probs but if on here get swerved lol Fi x |
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By *azielMan
over a year ago
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Most guys lie because they think it'll help them meets. Alot of older guys think women want younger men. I've been tempted to I have to admit. I found a woman who sounded great and I thought we'd hit it off but her profile aid no younger than 30. I didn't in the end but it's a shame cos I think we'd have a great time. Not worth lying in my eyes as your obviously gonna get found out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I wonde_ed how long it would take for someone to take another opportunity to bash guys, mainly single ones, in a forum post.
Women lie about their age too !!!!
If you meet someone and enjoy their company is age really a major issue?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"
I never lie about my age. Didn't stop people thinking I lying though. Apparently I don't look anywhere near 38 to a lot of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"
I agree I know a guy her who says he's 42 when he's 50. |
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over a year ago
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So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.
Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!
We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!
70 is the new 50.
It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.
Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing! |
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.
Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!
We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!
70 is the new 50.
It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.
Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"
It isn't ageism or prejudice and when choosing casual sex partners the age of the body might well come in to it.
This is about people lying about their age however, not about not wanting to meet people who are truthful about it. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.
Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!
We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!
70 is the new 50.
It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.
Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"
I think you must have meant preferences there, not prejudices, people are allowed them, I have my age preferences the way they are for very good reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you can report them but it may be difficult to prove. They lie to get meets obviously, it's the aching balls you see, they force them to lie. XXX"
sorry thats good |
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.
Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!
We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!
70 is the new 50.
It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.
Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"
Not that you are biased or anything |
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.
Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!
We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!
70 is the new 50.
It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.
Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"
I don’t want to meet a guy old enough to be my father, simple as that. So I will be prejudiced, tough shit if you don’t like it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't see the point to be honest. There are lots of other people that seem to like older. Us oldies have so much experience and imaginations honed from years of sexy fun
I'd shag me if I was a 20 something LOL
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.
Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!
We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!
70 is the new 50.
It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.
Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!
I don’t want to meet a guy old enough to be my father, simple as that. So I will be prejudiced, tough shit if you don’t like it!!! "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie;
Married
Bisexual
Age
Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out
How do you catch a bisexual out? "
no idea but would be interested to find out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie;
Married
Bisexual
Age
Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out
If on fab guys
How do you catch a bisexual out? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"similar to putting sexyily dressed pics up that are 3 years old ??
im sure our bodies change a bit but we dont notice to a degree
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But alot delete profiles stay off for a while and come back different name and same pics that are years old . |
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"
There's one guy on here that's been the same age since I was 18. I know his real age but sadly there will be a lot who are mislead. Did report the profile but it gets remade weekly so no point |
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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago
Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and |
"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"
It isnt just men women do it too! We see ot all the time it pisses us right off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Broken Missgives and Sweet
Has a bisexual man, I get dozens of invites to meet from "straight married men" ergo, it follows that they are already living a lie - equally those men who attended the organised odd mixed M/F session as being "straight" but end up touching another man etc, are at the very least Bi cur .......
The same applies to females , I think ???
But that's based on my views as a Bi sexual man - nowt else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why they do it?
You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end....."
totally agreed |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why they do it?
You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end....."
this happened to me...the guy turned out to be 78  |
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"Lying people get caught out at some stage ie;
Married
Bisexual
Age
Lets be honest, if you meet eventually, someone will catch you out
If on fab guys
How do you catch a bisexual out? "
when the profile states straight then they display a graphic verification from a male or tv |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am what I am a Bi male, who through my antics of sexual group meetings over the years with my first wife 9who was/is Bi), ended up in close company to other men, one thing led to another
So its on my profile - I have a separate profile on the sister site and yet - I still get abusive messages if ever I dare message someone on here that are not by - I cant help it if they not set their "filters" correctly can I
Mini rant over .......sorry |
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"Don't understand why they do it?
You are who you are if people don't want to meet you that's ok. If you lie you only get found out in the end.....this happened to me...the guy turned out to be 78 "
Strewth! seeing as your max age is 45; This has got to be the porky of the decade! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Alot of women on here lie about bum sizes and boob sizes but you don't see men ranting
When I first joined fab I set my age on my profile to 25 but I was actually 20 and didnt really take the website seriously as i thought it was just one of those silly dating sites.
My first meet was unexpected and really took me by surprise (omg this site actually works )
Anyway as time went by I adjusted my profile to show my actual age and people actually wrote to me asking why I never got older |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"
I imagine for the same reasons women do.
You can report them for anything you like..... admin will decide if they want to act upon it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?"
Wow I can only say us single men are missing out on a stunning lady  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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A few things have jumped out at me from posts on here.
1. The older guys saying "Give us a chance, experience yada yada" So why are you not looking for females nearer your own age? Or do you?
2. Ladies saying the have no intention of meeting men old enough to be their dad, while having age preferences set low enough to be shagging their son
Strange ole world innit.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A few things have jumped out at me from posts on here.
1. The older guys saying "Give us a chance, experience yada yada" So why are you not looking for females nearer your own age? Or do you?
2. Ladies saying the have no intention of meeting men old enough to be their dad, while having age preferences set low enough to be shagging their son
Strange ole world innit.
S"
don't forget to mention the mingers out there with standards You would expect of super models!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alot of women on here lie about bum sizes and boob sizes but you don't see men ranting
When I first joined fab I set my age on my profile to 25 but I was actually 20 and didnt really take the website seriously as i thought it was just one of those silly dating sites.
Some Very good points
Most people don't take this site seriously enough because there's to many fakes and not enough women on here to balance out the ratios plus its ok for women to cheat lie and steal but as soon as a guy get caught with his pants down its game over unfortunately can't keep everyone happy to best just to go with the flow. Tv acting like real women real women looking like cds wtf.
My first meet was unexpected and really took me by surprise (omg this site actually works )
Anyway as time went by I adjusted my profile to show my actual age and people actually wrote to me asking why I never got older "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a guy close to me who has two profiles, with an age difference of 10 years, apart from that, they are totally identical, even the profile name has just a digit change. |
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?
I don't lie about my age...
I don't even like when I hear the dreaded question, "does my bum look big in this..."
maybe this is why I'm still single??"
Nowadays however plenty of women WANT their bum to look big in what they're wearing ha, so it's far easier to just be honest than play a guessing game of what they would prefer.
To answer the OP, I've found more women lie about their age than men, but then again I've had more actual chats or meets with women than men so I'd have simply come across more of them. For the OP I'd guess the opposite is true.
Most men who message me sometimes ask if I fancy having an mfm with a lady as they feel their chances would be improved by "doubling up" so to speak, or far more often they simply want to suck my appendage with "nothing in return." |
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over a year ago
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The age lying is annoying, but so are the lies on size, height and cock length.
Men that describe themselves as 'curvy' or 'rugby player' and end up as morbidly obese as myself. I can't meet fellow fatties, having sex is like a game of weebles. It just doesn't work!
Then there's those who say they are 6 foot and you meet and they're 5'7"
A guy who bragged his cock was 8 inches and when we met, my 6 inch sub from subway was far larger. Wouldn't mind, but I'm happy with a 5 inch cock, so why lie? Where do these men measure from? Their anus?
I wouldn't dream of saying I was curvy, gym fit, 5'10, 27 with neat and trim labia. If someone messages me, first thing I ask is if they're aware I'm a very ample lady and disabled.
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"The age lying is annoying, but so are the lies on size, height and cock length.
Men that describe themselves as 'curvy' or 'rugby player' and end up as morbidly obese as myself. I can't meet fellow fatties, having sex is like a game of weebles. It just doesn't work!
Then there's those who say they are 6 foot and you meet and they're 5'7"
A guy who bragged his cock was 8 inches and when we met, my 6 inch sub from subway was far larger. Wouldn't mind, but I'm happy with a 5 inch cock, so why lie? Where do these men measure from? Their anus?
I wouldn't dream of saying I was curvy, gym fit, 5'10, 27 with neat and trim labia. If someone messages me, first thing I ask is if they're aware I'm a very ample lady and disabled.
#Baffled"
Imagine the disappointment on the person(s) I met if I lied like some of the people on here? I'd be devastated. |
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over a year ago
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I turned 35 last month. That is my real age. Don't see the point in using false information to trick people into meeting. That goes for height and other things people lie about on their profiles.
Honesty is the best policy.
I know I know...
I am not as young as I was when I joined Fab in 2015, but the following comes to mind:
Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don't mind it don't matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?
Lol how much older are they ? Like decades ? "
I met a guy who claimed to be 46. I told him he looked 10 years older. He was shocked but i was spot on. He still claims to be 46 on his profile though. |
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"I had someone message me the other day . Fab age said 35 ... on his profile he said he was 44. He couldn't get his head around why I wasn't interested in chatting to him !! Errr because you're a liar "
To be fair that's an obvious foiling the filters as he then elaborates. It's not the same as tricking you to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.
Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!
We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!
70 is the new 50.
It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.
Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"
Prejudices my arse. I'm happily ageist. I don't want anyone old enough to be a parent or young enough to be a child.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.
Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!
We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!
70 is the new 50.
It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.
Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"
And  at not wanting older than 70. Not ageist either i see |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what's wrong with being 70 or more? Too many women immediately rule out men over a certain age. It's blatant ageism.
Age = experience and wisdom. And we can 'perform'!
We have more to talk about and most of us know how to manage a good relationship. We are not 'past it' and we don't all have 'carers'!
70 is the new 50.
It's not about age of the body, it's about the spirit inside.
Get rid of your prejudices, you don't know what you're missing!"
Preferences not prejudices you choose not to meet anyone older than you so why can’t other people choose?? I know what I’m looking for and it’s certainly not people the same age as my parents! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely difficult to prove but its dishonest thus making it fake in my opinion as purely a deceptive and inaccurate profile. Report for sure.
I see no need for people to lie. Take me for example, I am young at the age of twenty one so naturally I come across a lot of profiles I like and the minimum age is 25, would I deceive someone despite being able to pull it off? No, of course I wouldn’t. There’s just no need for it, more so a lot of women have their filters set a certain way but are not strict on it, they have it to restrict age groups that tend to be an issue for them. But anyone who does have an interest me can always mail me if they need to so nothing lost through lying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm honest on my profile about my age but when you look at most upper age limit they cut off at 45 to 48 so there loads I can't message as I'm 50 but I refuse to lie about my age aching balls or not lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the bit when you're honest about your age and you still don't get believed lol
I'm not taking my birth certificate to a meet to prove my age for less that ideal genetics and lifestyle choices
Guess it's about having recent and accurate photos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I turned 35 last month. That is my real age. Don't see the point in using false information to trick people into meeting. That goes for height and other things people lie about on their profiles.
Honesty is the best policy.
I know I know...
I am not as young as I was when I joined Fab in 2015, but the following comes to mind:
Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don't mind it don't matter."
In terms of appealing to the highest number of people, 35 is probably bang on the best age to be as many have their upper age limit and many as their lower age limit at that number due to it being halfway between 30 and 40.
Which means you are "suitable" for both of these wishlists. That being said I haven't noticed much difference in my appeal to others between being 35 and 39 really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men lie about their age?! Can you report sometime who is a lot older than they say on their profile?
Same reason women lie about their age  "
vanity and hope they appeal to younger people |
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