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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago
the street of failed artists Liverpool |
"I am a TS/TV virgin never been with a woman who has a penis basically. Looking for some tips and pointers on what to say. Thanks."
How about talking to us like you would any other human being. Just a thought |
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Think the OP maybe referring to how he should be referring to a TV/TS. Ie as a woman not a man, even crossdressers when dressed you would refer/talk to them as a woman but when they arent dressed its "Alright Gary Mate".  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do a little research first and decide which you’re interested in.
A tv is much more likely to be willing to involve their penis than a pre op trans girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a TS/TV virgin never been with a woman who has a penis basically. Looking for some tips and pointers on what to say. Thanks."
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Just be yourself ... Avoid any that claim to be offended and have profiles with long winded lists of demands, Does and donts... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think the OP maybe referring to how he should be referring to a TV/TS. Ie as a woman not a man, even crossdressers when dressed you would refer/talk to them as a woman but when they arent dressed its "Alright Gary Mate". "
Not every dresser wants to be talked to as a woman....
My advice would be -
Read their profile (i know, who would have thought of that ?) See if they fit into your frame of mind for a meet, and then message them politely in a medium length message (not asking abiut the weather or how their day is going) show an interest in them, make it obvious you have taken the time to read their profile and then take it from there.
There are a lot of tv/crossdressers that are very highly strung, and think they are a prize you have to compete for. My advice would be to ignore them and find one that is fun. |
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"I am a TS/TV virgin never been with a woman who has a penis basically. Looking for some tips and pointers on what to say. Thanks.
How about talking to us like you would any other human being. Just a thought "
exactly |
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"Think the OP maybe referring to how he should be referring to a TV/TS. Ie as a woman not a man, even crossdressers when dressed you would refer/talk to them as a woman but when they arent dressed its "Alright Gary Mate".
Not every dresser wants to be talked to as a woman....
My advice would be -
Read their profile (i know, who would have thought of that ?) See if they fit into your frame of mind for a meet, and then message them politely in a medium length message (not asking abiut the weather or how their day is going) show an interest in them, make it obvious you have taken the time to read their profile and then take it from there.
There are a lot of tv/crossdressers that are very highly strung, and think they are a prize you have to compete for. My advice would be to ignore them and find one that is fun."
That maybe so.....? But over the last 17 - 18 Years that I have known CDs/TVs/TSs.... most do insist that you refer to them as women. Our best man (and maid of honour lol) at our wedding was/is a TV. Only my personal experience tbh... but at the end of the day OP... if I'm doubt ask that person outright in a respectful polite way.
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"Start the conversation by talking about something you both have in common; an example is "Hi, you have penis. Me too!""
Love it 
I would say treat us as you would a Woman,but if whoever you’re with wants to chat about Bloke stuff ...bonus |
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Without adding labels to men or women or anyone ...... you do as you’ve probably been talking to people for a very long time!!!
Not different ..... just some people you have things in common and others you won’t. There is no magical answer! |
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I've only met one T-girl here. Basically she messaged me over a year ago asking about a club I was attending that night and we got chatting....happened by coincidence to meet a few times since at another club.
I was simply polite, addressed her as a lady and we happened to get on quite well. I may have asked how she prefers to be addressed, but to be honest I don't remember. If you're not sure, ask the name they wish you to use. |
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"I've only met one T-girl here. Basically she messaged me over a year ago asking about a club I was attending that night and we got chatting....happened by coincidence to meet a few times since at another club.
I was simply polite, addressed her as a lady and we happened to get on quite well. I may have asked how she prefers to be addressed, but to be honest I don't remember. If you're not sure, ask the name they wish you to use. "
What he said, just talk to us like you would anyone and if you're unsure, ask. No one will be offended by a simple question |
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"I am a TS/TV virgin never been with a woman who has a penis basically. Looking for some tips and pointers on what to say. Thanks."
Just relax and go for it. You will have some amazing experiences. |
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