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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having a rant! Fancied a guy off another site, have his number, though not forth coming about details, but I plodded on. tried to meet at local Starbucks, he said he was there but outside and left at 11:03 when we were due to meet at 11. Anyway, meant to meet this Thursday am, nothing and now won't answer me. What am I to think apart from a waster? Just wasted time only thankfully |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks as if it's a small minded idiot who gets off on leading nice and genuine people up the garden path. I would report the profile to site administration, block and move on. If I may say, what an idiot would want to mess you about, you look fantastic. Keep the faith in here, for every 10 nice people, there is one pratt who spoils it.xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Total time waster clearly had no intention of meeting and made a stupid excuse to make out he was there what a DIV keep going not all men are complete idiots on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it depends on whether you have the time to waste op? If you aren't doing anything anyway, at the very least you have a coffee, breaking up your day.
It does sound as if he is wasting your time though, so expect nothing. That way you can't be disappointed. Again.
I do give people the benefit of the doubt if they cancel and try to rearrange. I've never actually been 'stood up', but think if I was, there would be no second chance. |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
Maybe he decided he wasn't keen on Starbucks? Seems reasonable to me
Seriously, I hope he gets booted. It's hard enough for single guys here without prats like this letting the side down. |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"Having a rant! Fancied a guy off another site, have his number, though not forth coming about details, but I plodded on. tried to meet at local Starbucks, he said he was there but outside and left at 11:03 when we were due to meet at 11. Anyway, meant to meet this Thursday am, nothing and now won't answer me. What am I to think apart from a waster? Just wasted time only thankfully"
drop him, you are better then that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a rant! Fancied a guy off another site, have his number, though not forth coming about details, but I plodded on. tried to meet at local Starbucks, he said he was there but outside and left at 11:03 when we were due to meet at 11. Anyway, meant to meet this Thursday am, nothing and now won't answer me. What am I to think apart from a waster? Just wasted time only thankfully"
I'd delete his number and forget him. On a side note, I love catfish the tv program....max just has something . Just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a rant! Fancied a guy off another site, have his number, though not forth coming about details, but I plodded on. tried to meet at local Starbucks, he said he was there but outside and left at 11:03 when we were due to meet at 11. Anyway, meant to meet this Thursday am, nothing and now won't answer me. What am I to think apart from a waster? Just wasted time only thankfully
I'd delete his number and forget him. On a side note, I love catfish the tv program....max just has something . Just saying"
Max is a dish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange thought maybe....
But why cone on one site to have a rant about the behaviour of a person on another site...
Unless they are on here too.. "
I know the op said it was a rant, but I thought she was also asking for advice, which is what I took it as. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Just another idiot on these sites giving guys a bad name. If you ever fancy lowering your age range a bit let me know"
They are giving themselves a bad name, no one else. Lack of success cannot be blamed on everyone else. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Strange thought maybe....
But why cone on one site to have a rant about the behaviour of a person on another site...
Unless they are on here too.. "
Agreed. There have been a few of these posts lately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a rant! Fancied a guy off another site, have his number, though not forth coming about details, but I plodded on. tried to meet at local Starbucks, he said he was there but outside and left at 11:03 when we were due to meet at 11. Anyway, meant to meet this Thursday am, nothing and now won't answer me. What am I to think apart from a waster? Just wasted time only thankfully"
I wanna be fantasist and there's a lot of them around so I wouldn't take it personally I would say delete block and move on.. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"Thank you all, I'm off for a coffee in any case, ya boo sucks to Catfish!
Appreciate you listening to my rant! "
Hey hun... Sounds like he is a bit shy, maybe new and/or inexperienced.
Not to scare you needlessly but just be mindful that some people get kicks out of staying in the shadows. I had a guy virtually stalk me once after a failed meet in a public place - but I think he was watching me...he seems to get a power-kick out of it? Always a good idea to be alert and look over your shoulders... |
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It's funny when you catch some people out think I caught someone out recently when they said let's meet and I took them up on the offer they suddenly went quiet, had a nagging doubt something wasn't right in first place tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a rant! Fancied a guy off another site, have his number, though not forth coming about details, but I plodded on. tried to meet at local Starbucks, he said he was there but outside and left at 11:03 when we were due to meet at 11. Anyway, meant to meet this Thursday am, nothing and now won't answer me. What am I to think apart from a waster? Just wasted time only thankfully"
Tell them to turn on "Who's near" then you can show them you are there and you can check if they are laughing about it 20 miles away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OMFG! The guy sent me a text this evening - bollocks, bollocks, bollocks, Really sorry (accompanied by a picture of his prick).
Not good enough!
least I can now close as I know he's alive though emotionally dead!
Told him to fuck off! thank you all for your support |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"OMFG! The guy sent me a text this evening - bollocks, bollocks, bollocks, Really sorry (accompanied by a picture of his prick).
Not good enough!
least I can now close as I know he's alive though emotionally dead!
Told him to fuck off! thank you all for your support"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So his friend died, not a close or best friend, showed me some FB message re flowers and arrangements. I was worried sick, I know I'm being selfish, but over 2 weeks to contact me.
Dunno what to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a rant! Fancied a guy off another site, have his number, though not forth coming about details, but I plodded on. tried to meet at local Starbucks, he said he was there but outside and left at 11:03 when we were due to meet at 11. Anyway, meant to meet this Thursday am, nothing and now won't answer me. What am I to think apart from a waster? Just wasted time only thankfully"
Catfish is someone who is using someone elses photos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So his friend died, not a close or best friend, showed me some FB message re flowers and arrangements. I was worried sick, I know I'm being selfish, but over 2 weeks to contact me.
Dunno what to do"
anyone can show photos and stuff. follow your gut |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So his friend died, not a close or best friend, showed me some FB message re flowers and arrangements. I was worried sick, I know I'm being selfish, but over 2 weeks to contact me.
Dunno what to do"
The idiot could of texted you and told you about his friend. |
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"So his friend died, not a close or best friend, showed me some FB message re flowers and arrangements. I was worried sick, I know I'm being selfish, but over 2 weeks to contact me.
Dunno what to do"
I'm sure your gut is telling you to move on.
I'd offer my services but, you just knocked us out of the FA cup yesterday so I'm grumpy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So his friend died, not a close or best friend, showed me some FB message re flowers and arrangements. I was worried sick, I know I'm being selfish, but over 2 weeks to contact me.
Dunno what to do"
He sent you a cock pic 2 days ago. If it was me I'd tell him to fuck off. |
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I lost a friend (motorcycle accident) when I was 18 really close to him as well, that night due to go on a date. This was before mobile phones, Facebook and the various other ways to communicate you have these days. I still managed to contact the Girl I was due to meet and let her know why I couldn’t meet her.
Also I didn’t send her a cock picture later pass him by terrible excuse |
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