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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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I've had some very good experience meeting straight, bi curious and bi guys. Would anyone recommend any places where it's easy to meet and play with them? I'm an easy going laid back kind of bloke so would like a place where I'd feel comfortable. |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Why don’t you go to your local gay bar. Pink punters in Milton Keynes is a Fab gay club . You might even find some fab straight in there too   "
Milton Keynes? Gay bar? I'm desperate not suicidal lol Why would I go there when London is an hour away? |
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"I'm very keen to try Pink Punters myself, but I do believe it is a no play area just a social place.
Great night out there from what I hear. "
Pink Punters is a great night out. No play areas, I love it there though. Always a great night out. XX |
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"I've had some very good experience meeting straight, bi curious and bi guys. Would anyone recommend any places where it's easy to meet and play with them? I'm an easy going laid back kind of bloke so would like a place where I'd feel comfortable. "
You should try the bi night at Vanilla Alternative. XX |
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over a year ago
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"Agree, Northwich sauna (bit too far for you)! Is always a good place to meet guys.  "
Just be very careful about STDs in gay saunas - I know a health worker who deals in such things and says gay saunas are amongst the highest risk for these at the moment - please don't have a go just reminding people.
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"Agree, Northwich sauna (bit too far for you)! Is always a good place to meet guys.
Just be very careful about STDs in gay saunas - I know a health worker who deals in such things and says gay saunas are amongst the highest risk for these at the moment - please don't have a go just reminding people.
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Approx 8 years ago, my Wife went to the Doctor with a worrying rash, turned out to be nothing other than a shaving rash.
Notably the Doctor said it is unlikely to be anything serious unless you have slept with someone who is either Bi, Gay or Black from oversea's.
I was quite stunned at the last reason, although the others might speak for themselves.
I would guess that you could add "Fab Straight" (i.e bent as a nine bob note) to that list as they must be very high risk. |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are. |
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"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are. "
You got an answer and some advice ....
I was going to say for comfort your home, but looks like you don't accommodate. |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are.
You got an answer and some advice ....
I was going to say for comfort your home, but looks like you don't accommodate."
I want to get to know people before inviting them into my home. |
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"Why don’t you go to your local gay bar. Pink punters in Milton Keynes is a Fab gay club . You might even find some fab straight in there too
Milton Keynes? Gay bar? I'm desperate not suicidal lol Why would I go there when London is an hour away?"
Because it's fab. I'm off there soon. Very well established club  |
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"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are.
You got an answer and some advice ....
I was going to say for comfort your home, but looks like you don't accommodate.
I want to get to know people before inviting them into my home."
Normal social meeting places then. Cafes, pubs. Larger busier places in case they turn out to be indiscreet. |
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"Why don’t you go to your local gay bar. Pink punters in Milton Keynes is a Fab gay club . You might even find some fab straight in there too
Milton Keynes? Gay bar? I'm desperate not suicidal lol Why would I go there when London is an hour away?"
If you're an hour from from London, have a wonder down Old Compton Road, in the heart of soho, hub of the gay community pretty much. From the time I've spent there (through work), everyone is more than happy to help with anything  |
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"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are.
You got an answer and some advice ....
I was going to say for comfort your home, but looks like you don't accommodate.
I want to get to know people before inviting them into my home.
Normal social meeting places then. Cafes, pubs. Larger busier places in case they turn out to be indiscreet. "
Sorry just reread the OP. If you want to play as well I think gay saunas as suggested already |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are.
You got an answer and some advice ....
I was going to say for comfort your home, but looks like you don't accommodate.
I want to get to know people before inviting them into my home.
Normal social meeting places then. Cafes, pubs. Larger busier places in case they turn out to be indiscreet.
Sorry just reread the OP. If you want to play as well I think gay saunas as suggested already "
Don't mention gay saunas - the Daily Mail readers will start lecturing you lol |
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"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are.
You got an answer and some advice ....
I was going to say for comfort your home, but looks like you don't accommodate.
I want to get to know people before inviting them into my home.
Normal social meeting places then. Cafes, pubs. Larger busier places in case they turn out to be indiscreet.
Sorry just reread the OP. If you want to play as well I think gay saunas as suggested already
Don't mention gay saunas - the Daily Mail readers will start lecturing you lol "
I am a Daily Mail reader . Are you changing your thread to people's reading preferences now !!! |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are.
You got an answer and some advice ....
I was going to say for comfort your home, but looks like you don't accommodate.
I want to get to know people before inviting them into my home.
Normal social meeting places then. Cafes, pubs. Larger busier places in case they turn out to be indiscreet.
Sorry just reread the OP. If you want to play as well I think gay saunas as suggested already
Don't mention gay saunas - the Daily Mail readers will start lecturing you lol
I am a Daily Mail reader . Are you changing your thread to people's reading preferences now !!!"
No but I resent being told about all the disasters waiting round the corner for me |
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"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are.
You got an answer and some advice ....
I was going to say for comfort your home, but looks like you don't accommodate.
I want to get to know people before inviting them into my home.
Normal social meeting places then. Cafes, pubs. Larger busier places in case they turn out to be indiscreet.
Sorry just reread the OP. If you want to play as well I think gay saunas as suggested already
Don't mention gay saunas - the Daily Mail readers will start lecturing you lol
I am a Daily Mail reader . Are you changing your thread to people's reading preferences now !!!
No but I resent being told about all the disasters waiting round the corner for me "
But by virtue of the fact that you ask your original question would make us think you are inexperienced, so I think the advice given was someone trying to help you. |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are.
You got an answer and some advice ....
I was going to say for comfort your home, but looks like you don't accommodate.
I want to get to know people before inviting them into my home.
Normal social meeting places then. Cafes, pubs. Larger busier places in case they turn out to be indiscreet.
Sorry just reread the OP. If you want to play as well I think gay saunas as suggested already
Don't mention gay saunas - the Daily Mail readers will start lecturing you lol
I am a Daily Mail reader . Are you changing your thread to people's reading preferences now !!!
No but I resent being told about all the disasters waiting round the corner for me
But by virtue of the fact that you ask your original question would make us think you are inexperienced, so I think the advice given was someone trying to help you. "
I'm grateful for advice about where to go buy not who I should meet and the consequences of meeting the bi, the bi curious or black foreigners |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are. "
You've had several good suggestions of where to meet. Take the advice and ignore the rest. But ALL the guys you have met have been bi or gay. (Maybe some lying about being straight) ... but you have not had "fun" with a straight guy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree, Northwich sauna (bit too far for you)! Is always a good place to meet guys.
Just be very careful about STDs in gay saunas - I know a health worker who deals in such things and says gay saunas are amongst the highest risk for these at the moment - please don't have a go just reminding people.
Approx 8 years ago, my Wife went to the Doctor with a worrying rash, turned out to be nothing other than a shaving rash.
Notably the Doctor said it is unlikely to be anything serious unless you have slept with someone who is either Bi, Gay or Black from oversea's.
I was quite stunned at the last reason, although the others might speak for themselves.
I would guess that you could add "Fab Straight" (i.e bent as a nine bob note) to that list as they must be very high risk. "
Your doctor was just quoting factual statistics. Anyone who is a blood donor will see exactly the same in the donation consent forms....to the point they may refuse to take your blood as the real risk is too high. This isn't having a go...just medical facts. |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"This has turned from me asking a question of how I can meet straight, bicurious and bi guys into a lecture on having unprotected sex in gay saunas. I'm sure there's plenty of risky sexual contact going on in all sorts of places and it's up to the individual to act responsibly whatever their sexual orientation and wherever they are.
You've had several good suggestions of where to meet. Take the advice and ignore the rest. But ALL the guys you have met have been bi or gay. (Maybe some lying about being straight) ... but you have not had "fun" with a straight guy!"
What is 'straight' behaviours' can be argued about until the end of time and unless someone is in a long-term monogamous relationship or celibate then everyone is at risky. Given the name of this site I can't imagine that either the monogamous or the celibate are attracted to it in great numbers. |
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Perhaps look for bi and gay social meeting places or groups, if saunas aren't your thing. All places, straight, gay, bi have a 'no means no' rule, so you can make them as social or sexual as you wish. London obviously has the highest concentration of men up for various things, so I'd start there. |
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"Agree, Northwich sauna (bit too far for you)! Is always a good place to meet guys.
Just be very careful about STDs in gay saunas - I know a health worker who deals in such things and says gay saunas are amongst the highest risk for these at the moment - please don't have a go just reminding people.
Approx 8 years ago, my Wife went to the Doctor with a worrying rash, turned out to be nothing other than a shaving rash.
Notably the Doctor said it is unlikely to be anything serious unless you have slept with someone who is either Bi, Gay or Black from oversea's.
I was quite stunned at the last reason, although the others might speak for themselves.
I would guess that you could add "Fab Straight" (i.e bent as a nine bob note) to that list as they must be very high risk. "
Just remember people, your GP is as open to being misinformed as anyone else. |
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"Agree, Northwich sauna (bit too far for you)! Is always a good place to meet guys.
Just be very careful about STDs in gay saunas - I know a health worker who deals in such things and says gay saunas are amongst the highest risk for these at the moment - please don't have a go just reminding people.
Approx 8 years ago, my Wife went to the Doctor with a worrying rash, turned out to be nothing other than a shaving rash.
Notably the Doctor said it is unlikely to be anything serious unless you have slept with someone who is either Bi, Gay or Black from oversea's.
I was quite stunned at the last reason, although the others might speak for themselves.
I would guess that you could add "Fab Straight" (i.e bent as a nine bob note) to that list as they must be very high risk.
Your doctor was just quoting factual statistics. Anyone who is a blood donor will see exactly the same in the donation consent forms....to the point they may refuse to take your blood as the real risk is too high. This isn't having a go...just medical facts."
This is from the Health Service's own website on UK HIV stats
"Of those receiving HIV care in 2015, 41,945 (48%) were exposed through sex between a man and a woman, 41,016 (47%) were exposed through sex between men, 1,909 (2%) were exposed from injecting drug use, 1,383 (less than 2%) were exposed before or shortly after birth and 753 were exposed from blood/receiving blood products. This latter category only included people exposed outside of the UK, as this is no longer a route of transmission within the UK. There are also 1,763 cases which have not been categorised by one of these routes."
Most of the advice given in the 80s about risk groups was shit. The only good bit of advice was about condoms. Use them. |
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"Agree, Northwich sauna (bit too far for you)! Is always a good place to meet guys.
Just be very careful about STDs in gay saunas - I know a health worker who deals in such things and says gay saunas are amongst the highest risk for these at the moment - please don't have a go just reminding people.
Approx 8 years ago, my Wife went to the Doctor with a worrying rash, turned out to be nothing other than a shaving rash.
Notably the Doctor said it is unlikely to be anything serious unless you have slept with someone who is either Bi, Gay or Black from oversea's.
I was quite stunned at the last reason, although the others might speak for themselves.
I would guess that you could add "Fab Straight" (i.e bent as a nine bob note) to that list as they must be very high risk.
Your doctor was just quoting factual statistics. Anyone who is a blood donor will see exactly the same in the donation consent forms....to the point they may refuse to take your blood as the real risk is too high. This isn't having a go...just medical facts.This is from the Health Service's own website on UK HIV stats
"Of those receiving HIV care in 2015, 41,945 (48%) were exposed through sex between a man and a woman, 41,016 (47%) were exposed through sex between men, 1,909 (2%) were exposed from injecting drug use, 1,383 (less than 2%) were exposed before or shortly after birth and 753 were exposed from blood/receiving blood products. This latter category only included people exposed outside of the UK, as this is no longer a route of transmission within the UK. There are also 1,763 cases which have not been categorised by one of these routes."
Most of the advice given in the 80s about risk groups was shit. The only good bit of advice was about condoms. Use them."
The poster before was talking about STDs and you've just given stats on HIV ... doesn't make sense unless you are suggesting those stats follow for everything which I would doubt. |
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"I've had some very good experience meeting straight, bi curious and bi guys. Would anyone recommend any places where it's easy to meet and play with them? I'm an easy going laid back kind of bloke so would like a place where I'd feel comfortable. "
I would suggest the bi gay events at Eureka, always very social and you will have the oppertunity to meet and chat with guys before deciding if they are for you |
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Problem with saunas and only been to a couple and never done anything at one is that
A lot of guys think that they can just do what they want with you
I prefer the one on one experience more relaxed |
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"I've had some very good experience meeting straight, bi curious and bi guys. Would anyone recommend any places where it's easy to meet and play with them? I'm an easy going laid back kind of bloke so would like a place where I'd feel comfortable. "
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Full of straight, bi and bi curious guys. |
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