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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you saw someone you knew on here that lives local who swings but dose not know you know thay do but you chatted to them on fab and had just added you as a friend and saw their face pic and recognised them would you say something or just stay private or delete and block them.? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if she dose recognise me do you think she say anything knowing I am Married I think she is Divorced."
Who knows? People's moral compass vary massively, but if you want to keep this a secret the onus is on you, don't expect others to lie for you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if she dose recognise me do you think she say anything knowing I am Married I think she is Divorced."
The danger is always there. I wouldn't chance it, but that's just my opinion. |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
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I contacted a lady ,she said she knew me and she said my name and friends who we both knew,said she liked me and my cock pics(which she asked for)then explained she just couldn't meet,it would be wrong??Then she blocked me,that was the end of that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this maybe a little low.
"I contacted a lady ,she said she knew me and she said my name and friends who we both knew,said she liked me and my cock pics(which she asked for)then explained she just couldn't meet,it would be wrong??Then she blocked me,that was the end of that "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think this maybe a little low.I contacted a lady ,she said she knew me and she said my name and friends who we both knew,said she liked me and my cock pics(which she asked for)then explained she just couldn't meet,it would be wrong??Then she blocked me,that was the end of that "
So, she blocked you but probably screenshot personal pics of you.
That would worry me.
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"If you saw someone you knew on here that lives local who swings but dose not know you know thay do but you chatted to them on fab and had just added you as a friend and saw their face pic and recognised them would you say something or just stay private or delete and block them.? "
It's happened, several times before I put public face pics up.
A couple of them were actually real life friends... And it's been fun!
Not been a problem, if I see someone I recognise & don't want to see my pics, I will block |
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"I think this maybe a little low.I contacted a lady ,she said she knew me and she said my name and friends who we both knew,said she liked me and my cock pics(which she asked for)then explained she just couldn't meet,it would be wrong??Then she blocked me,that was the end of that
So, she blocked you but probably screenshot personal pics of you.
That would worry me.
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That's the worst case scenario. She might have blocked so he couldn't contact her again.
When you take calculated risks the odds will work against you now and again. |
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Just recently saw my friends ex with his new partner on here, as soon as I saw their face pics it was a block.
Surprised as been on here for a few years now and although we have been wary of seeing people who may know us, this is the first time seeing someone who knows us.
Anna |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
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"I think this maybe a little low.I contacted a lady ,she said she knew me and she said my name and friends who we both knew,said she liked me and my cock pics(which she asked for)then explained she just couldn't meet,it would be wrong??Then she blocked me,that was the end of that
So, she blocked you but probably screenshot personal pics of you.
That would worry me.
It was a long time ago,had no come backs yet.
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
coventry..ish |
"I think this maybe a little low.I contacted a lady ,she said she knew me and she said my name and friends who we both knew,said she liked me and my cock pics(which she asked for)then explained she just couldn't meet,it would be wrong??Then she blocked me,that was the end of that
So, she blocked you but probably screenshot personal pics of you.
That would worry me.
That's the worst case scenario. She might have blocked so he couldn't contact her again.
When you take calculated risks the odds will work against you now and again."
This is true,I'm fine with it, absolutely no problem. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I block them immediately.
I met a guy years ago on here then met him via our professional worlds. We are friends on Fab. I messaged him to say I would be there but if course would keep everything professional. I just didnt look at him in the face and he was the same for me. I didnt want him to worry.
Just the site of his face and hearing his voice in particular turns me to jelly. How I stayed composed I do not know. He did take my breath away just seeing his face though.
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"If you see someone from fab why wouldn't you just say hello? We see all on here for a reason "
We aren't all here for the same reason though
Someone who's on here without their partners knowledge might be wary of being recognised by mutual friends for instance. I've seen threads where people say they would tell a friend if they saw their partner on here. |
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I received a message over a year ago (on a previously profile) from someone within my close social circle, I told him that he lived to far away, that I was looking for someone closer, and that was the end to it. Fast forward to a couple of weeks ago and he recognises my new profile as me. He didn’t say anything initially but we were chatting about our mutual hobby and the conversation started to get a bit risqué, I tried to shut it down but failed miserably. I confessed that I knew he was on here, that’s when he told me he knew I was too. We have had a few naughty conversations since, and it may go further if we can both get over the friends bit. |
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"So if she dose recognise me do you think she say anything knowing I am Married I think she is Divorced.
Who knows? People's moral compass vary massively, but if you want to keep this a secret the onus is on you, don't expect others to lie for you.
Ginger"
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A guy messaged me recently, attached a pic & I knew straight away that I knew him from somewhere. Few messages in & I realised he employed me 15 ish years ago, always thought he was kinda nice. He's calling round for a cuppa soon!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are all on here for the same reason so if some1 messaged me that I knew I would say yo bro what the fuk u doing here and continue to say I know you personally, it’s never gonna happen. Be upfront from the start and every1 knows where they stand. |
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"My ex manager found me yesterday on another site. It was very odd to chat about stuff at first but not uncomfortable.
Did you fancy him x"
No because I was very naive at the time when we worked together. This was back in the early 1990's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always a tough one. Block and ignore it I guess.
We bumped into a family member at a club once! That was, erm, interesting for a while afterwards, especially family get togethers. |
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Years ago i met a couple at a club then subsequently ended up working with the wife. We never said anything about it, and all was okay but then i spotted her on cam here and they deleted their account |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found a few people I know on here, one a very close friend. Another was a friends ex and her husband (who I know too), it's definitely an each to their own situation. I personally couldn't care less seeing someone I know on here, like someone previously said, we are all here for the same thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you saw someone you knew on here that lives local who swings but dose not know you know thay do but you chatted to them on fab and had just added you as a friend and saw their face pic and recognised them would you say something or just stay private or delete and block them.? "
Say nothing. They are there for the same reason your there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep discretion is key
I've seen a few people from on here who I've picked up at train stations...by that I mean with the the train lol
lucky no one spay attention to the driver these days not unless it's late that is! |
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"I contacted a lady ,she said she knew me and she said my name and friends who we both knew,said she liked me and my cock pics(which she asked for)then explained she just couldn't meet,it would be wrong??Then she blocked me,that was the end of that "
I wonder why she asked for your private pics .... then blocked you ......
That would scare me in case she used them elsewhere .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha I seen plenty people I know or more they know me on here...I dont give F
..k I single screenshot away if wanna I don't care aint embarrassed bein on here.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a couple on here I went too school with the guy but never said anything as I don’t feel as though I need too. We will never meet in a sexual way as they don’t want a single guy. So just let them get on with it but kinda hot knowing it’s them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes it can be too close to home and have a possible impact on social and work life, so I am careful. I know 2 people on here, but have not introduced myself to them. Discretion is important. However i have met a lady on another site, who knew all of my friends, but it felt awkward for both, so it has'nt gone further. Both very discrete about it. Having bi on my profile makes me more careful when close to home. It is not something that anyone at work or in my social life know about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is if you're on here without your wife's knowing then your at risk of been caught full stop. The person you are talking about seems like she's a little to close to home. I'd delete her tbh.
I met with a girl turns out she was my older sisters best mate and came to my house often as kids. She's now my girlfriend lol
I wouldn't want my fab life exposing but if it was than so be it! As long as my husbands happy that's all that matters for me.
Amanda x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a couple message me a few months ago. Just saying hi (Mrs first name). Honesty although we are all on here for the same reasons I didn't like it at all, if I'm recognised then it's polite at least for them to reveal who they are rather than a cryptic and frankly unsettling message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you saw someone you knew on here that lives local who swings but dose not know you know thay do but you chatted to them on fab and had just added you as a friend and saw their face pic and recognised them would you say something or just stay private or delete and block them.? "
We've come across peoples profiles who we know, we just block, but more importantly we don't mention anything to them that we know they are on here, even more importantly we don't mention it to anyone.
Live and let live.. ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you saw someone you knew on here that lives local who swings but dose not know you know thay do but you chatted to them on fab and had just added you as a friend and saw their face pic and recognised them would you say something or just stay private or delete and block them.?
We've come across peoples profiles who we know, we just block, but more importantly we don't mention anything to them that we know they are on here, even more importantly we don't mention it to anyone.
Live and let live.. ??"
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"If you saw someone you knew on here that lives local who swings but dose not know you know thay do but you chatted to them on fab and had just added you as a friend and saw their face pic and recognised them would you say something or just stay private or delete and block them.?
We've come across peoples profiles who we know, we just block, but more importantly we don't mention anything to them that we know they are on here, even more importantly we don't mention it to anyone.
Live and let live.. ??"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Discretion is always key for me FIRST RULE OF FAB: See anyone you know on fab stays on fab "
Fuck that, if I saw Kate Middleton on here I would be straight into the local rag.
Think of dem monies he he |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two people I know on here from outside of fab, one I currently work with (nice body, quite cute, huge cock OMG!) but not had the nerve to message him or mention it.
Another was an ex, recognised certain attributes and had to say hello lol
Then bumped into each other at a club months back and was reminded how mind blowing sex with him used to be |
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