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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well Hi everyone, finally decided it was about time to be brave enough to post after lurking about and reading everyone elses questions and advice! lol
So, we were wondering if anyone went to any clubs that have bi nights and what they were like. We are based in Lowestoft so we know we might have to travel a bit but we would love to be able to go and both have some fun one time.
Any advice would be gratefully recieved as we havent had the chance to get to a club yet and so will probable be very nervous!
Willow
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"That would be nice as it would save having to asking a female if they mind me playing with them "
Problem there is that not every female in a couple at a bi night is bi ... it might be the male half who is looking for bi fun, so you'd still have to ascertain if it's ok to play with the fem. You can never make assumptions - not every woman is up for it.
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"That would be nice as it would save having to asking a female if they mind me playing with them
Problem there is that not every female in a couple at a bi night is bi ... it might be the male half who is looking for bi fun, so you'd still have to ascertain if it's ok to play with the fem. You can never make assumptions - not every woman is up for it.
E x"
Very true, we had a great time at chams bi night,but it was largely with bi men, i never assumed the fem was also bi. |
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I attend bi nights as a single female looking to play with bi men... And they generally let me! My concern the first time i went was that i would spend the night turning down (and annoying) bi women. But i get more approaches on fridays from women than i do on bi night!  |
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"You can never make assumptions - not every woman is up for it."
And never assume about some of the guys! There seem to be a few (non bi) bi guys that attend, god knows why, must like a challenge!  |
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"You can never make assumptions - not every woman is up for it.
And never assume about some of the guys! There seem to be a few (non bi) bi guys that attend, god knows why, must like a challenge! "
I think they are hoping that, by giving a guy's cock a quick stroke, they'll be in with a chance of shagging said guy's missus. We can spot a fake a mile off though |
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First time we ever went to a club was a monday Bi night at chams.
It scared the living day light out of us, both!
We are both Bi, and had played by Bi before but never in a club.
But that Monday night we felt like the cattle at the meat market..The same guys followed us around, made contact and pestered again and again, would not understand no. Maybe we picked the wrong night!
Don't get us wrong, we seen somethings at Chams that night, ( jacuzzi, couples room, glory hole) that after going home and talking about we wanted to give it another try. We have been to chams on almost everyday of the week, fridays and sundays are our favourite, only cos we work most saturday's and have only been once. But we are both Bi and we doubt we will ever do a monday bi night there again.
Go figure that out
First impressions count in some way.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for all the replies
Yes Vanilla Alternative is a bit of a way, we are willing to travel but the trouble for us is getting babysitters especially for late at night or over night. Plus as we are both bi we wanted to go on a night we could both play.
It seems couples were both partners are bi are quite rare where we are 
Think we need to find more regular babysitters so we can travel, see some of the country and have some fun lol
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"That would be nice as it would save having to asking a female if they mind me playing with them
Problem there is that not every female in a couple at a bi night is bi ... it might be the male half who is looking for bi fun, so you'd still have to ascertain if it's ok to play with the fem. You can never make assumptions - not every woman is up for it.
E x"
Ah gotcha |
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"That would be nice as it would save having to asking a female if they mind me playing with them
Problem there is that not every female in a couple at a bi night is bi ... it might be the male half who is looking for bi fun, so you'd still have to ascertain if it's ok to play with the fem. You can never make assumptions - not every woman is up for it.
E x
Ah gotcha"
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(but a bit of a trek from Lowestoft)
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