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"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? " Because he is slighly bend bi curious and not straight.. ...or maybe fab straight.. | |||
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"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? Because he is slighly bend bi curious and not straight.. ...or maybe fab straight.." | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " +1 | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " This well said | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " Says it better than I did. | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " nail on the head | |||
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"So he can see how real men perform." | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " My husband would say very much the same to this. | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " couldn't agree more... | |||
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"I'm just lazy " Best answer yet | |||
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"Why do people like watching porn? It's like that, only much better " Great Analogy.... | |||
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"We both love to see the other having a great time Hence same room only for us ... " this! | |||
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"Why do people like watching porn? It's like that, only much better " For us the whole dynamic is so much more than this. | |||
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"Why do people like watching porn? It's like that, only much better For us the whole dynamic is so much more than this. " Comes under the 'only much better' section | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. Says it better than I did. " And saved me a lot of typing. | |||
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"The ache in my balls in the lead up to a meet is difficult to describe but utterly addictive. Seeing Laura comfortable and turned on with another guy, and loosing herself with him is such a mental overload there is jealousy, pride, happiness and loads of other emotions all happening at once. In many ways the flirting beforehand and the coming together of me and her afterwards are actually better than seeing the actual sex that takes place between Laura and the guy. It is a very complicated dynamic but if it works for you then you have a wonderful thing together. " totally agree same for me | |||
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"It's not naughty it's only religion that deems it so - it's just exciting and auxilarating. Just enjoy. " Oh it is naughty and thats part of why it's fun. Nothing to do with religion (although I see where your coming from) and more to do with just not whats regarded as normal. Feeling jealous is natural and nothing to do with religion, but it also, if handled in the right way adds to the fun and feelings of this is naughty. It's a whole mish mash of feelings and you do kind of tote up all your feelings before deciding if its for you. | |||
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"I need a guy who doesn't mind watching me get fucked by other guys ?????? " They are here | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " This is TOTALLY it! | |||
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"I do to it’s so good watching Rachael getting fucked by another man,it’s the excitement after arranging the meet helping to pick the outfit then taking her,watching as she takes off her Knickers to expose her cunt then as she orgasms with his penis then the sight of her well used gaping cunt perfect Taking her home exposing her cunt and tasting it and telling me how much she enjoyed herself while I clean her cunt !!!!!! Ps even better when Rachael goes on her own while sending the odd pic or video while I’m at home Hope that helps ........." ... where do i apply? | |||
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"The same reason I love watching Si with other ladies,, its erotic and such a turn on x storm x " yes me too. I love watching him experiencing pleasure. Come to realise it's the centre of all my fantasies rather than me getting pleasured | |||
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"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? " Why do you let other men fuck you while hubby watches? | |||
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"The ache in my balls in the lead up to a meet is difficult to describe but utterly addictive. Seeing Laura comfortable and turned on with another guy, and loosing herself with him is such a mental overload there is jealousy, pride, happiness and loads of other emotions all happening at once. In many ways the flirting beforehand and the coming together of me and her afterwards are actually better than seeing the actual sex that takes place between Laura and the guy. It is a very complicated dynamic but if it works for you then you have a wonderful thing together. " | |||
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"Because he is slighly bend bi curious and not straight.. ...or maybe fab straight.." Sounds like a crock of **** You ever watched porn? I take it there was a male in that having sex with a woman... makes you bi also does it??? OP..... My fb enjoys watching me with another man/men as he says he enjoys seeing me in a state of heightened pleasure, much the same way as when he is going down on me, he finds that a massive turn on seeing/hearing how much I’m enjoying it. | |||
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"Flames here, Compersion is one of those internet words that ticks the box for me. It's seeing her pleasured, unleashing her horny self... It's watching a real life porn film and my wife is the star... I get to see things I wouldn't normally... So many things We are a hotwife couple... As an aside - Definitely NOT humiliation, or submissiveness etc - Cuck is not our thing and they are miles apart. And yeah - I am Bi - But I was Bi before I realised I was in to Hotwifing that's for sure.... " Completely my hubby is very dominant and doesn't like to be seen a cuck or have anything to do with being humiliated. | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " sums it up not cuck or bi or anything else just fun | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " completly agree | |||
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"It's like watching your favourite porn only better as you join in " | |||
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"I need a guy who doesn't mind watching me get fucked by other guys ?????? " some ones fishing | |||
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" OP..... My fb enjoys watching me with another man/men as he says he enjoys seeing me in a state of heightened pleasure, much the same way as when he is going down on me, he finds that a massive turn on seeing/hearing how much I’m enjoying it. " | |||
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"Because it created an evolutionary advantage for his ancestors and therefore it is an inherited trait. " How wrong can a person be? | |||
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"We both love to see the other having a great time Hence same room only for us ... " Exactly this. | |||
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"It's like watching your favourite porn only better as you join in " That's how my husband has described it in the past. | |||
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"Question is do you women enjoy fucking other men while your hubby watches? Does it turn you on? Do you solely do it to please your husbands?" Can open, worms everywhere. ... | |||
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"Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him " Worms, worms I tell you.... | |||
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"Turns del on immensely to see me fucked by others...and we have the most amazing sex after and his orgasms are more intense " Exactly how we are! | |||
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"Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him " WTF !!!! Del | |||
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"Why do people like watching porn? It's like that, only much better Great Analogy.... " Perfect | |||
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"I need a guy who doesn't mind watching me get fucked by other guys ?????? " Lol why wouldn't he want too see that..woooo | |||
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"Turns del on immensely to see me fucked by others...and we have the most amazing sex after and his orgasms are more intense Exactly how we are! " | |||
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"So he can see how real men perform." Wow! You’re a charmer! | |||
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"Never had the opportunity when I was in a relationship, but if I am in one again I will definitely offer it to my partner. Not because I would like to see her fucked, per se, but because I would love to give her something that is a rare experience for anyone: the feeling of being pleasured by multiple partners at the same time, with the men focused on pleasing her over and over again. So to me, I guess it would depend on the meet. I wouldn't personally just bring in another guy to 'nail her and leave' - though I don't begrudge those who do exactly that. I would bring in another man and say, "let's make her head explode with orgasms", making her feel sexy and beautiful. If you love someone, how can you not wish that for them? " You should be a master... | |||
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"W says its like watching his favourite porn star live " Love this! | |||
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"W says its like watching his favourite porn star live Love this! " Indeed x | |||
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"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? " Imagine if you will that there is a porn star you find very attractive, and you're regularly searching her name for new scenes..... Now, imagine you have the pleasure of sleeping next to her every night, and knowing that all the naughty stuff you love seeing a woman do is something you get to watch in person. My other half is easily my favourite porn star these days, and I rarely use porn in general now. Not that it was ever excessive, but it was regular. Haha | |||
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"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? Imagine if you will that there is a porn star you find very attractive, and you're regularly searching her name for new scenes..... Now, imagine you have the pleasure of sleeping next to her every night, and knowing that all the naughty stuff you love seeing a woman do is something you get to watch in person. My other half is easily my favourite porn star these days, and I rarely use porn in general now. Not that it was ever excessive, but it was regular. Haha" Too true. Porn all of a sudden seemed very tame once i'd watched the missus playing playing with others. Also, knowing that my filthy fantasies involving her have a strong chance of actually happening is an extra turn on that porn simply cannot compete with. Mr | |||
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"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else I love idea watching others play Very naughty " For me, I've come to terms with the best that I may not be best lay, may not have the best physique, and may not have the biggest dick of all of the guys she may sleep with. Anyone who tells you there isn't an ounce of worry on this is either lying or I just don't understand them. But you have to look at it like this. If she sleeps with another guy with a an amazing body, a gorgeous face, a huge penis, who can make her cum in a way you can't and and makes more money than you, then there's a reason beyond the physical that you two are together. if she can still tell you you make her happy and You're who she wants to be with after all that, then you should feel amazing, and not inadequate. | |||
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"Ok that's easy, but you need to bear with me. First, I think sexual pleasure is fundamental in humans, irrespective of love. It's just that sexual pleasure is complicated by love and lots of other things, most of which are the result of "morality". I can ignore all of those caveats and offer my wife pure sexual pleasure. I won't feel jealous. I won't go nuts. I don't want her to feel guilty. So, because of this, I think that it is a fantastic gift that I can give the woman I love; enjoy being fucked. Give in to it. I can allow you. It's a gift most men couldn't give you. Of course she tells me no one is like me blah blah, but that's not the point. I'm like her favourite meal, maybe a roast dinner. I don't cease being her roast dinner just because she occasionally has a curry or take away or a pasta. And why shouldn't she have all those other lovely meals? I want everything for her, the best of everything, and that includes sexual pleasure. So I want her to understand she can enjoy all those things, guilt free, and it doesn't affect or detract from us. So number one, it's a gift for the woman I love. Every woman should be able to enjoy a long cock or thick cock or huge cock or someone who is awesome with their cock no matter the size. Enjoy their fingers, their tongue. I want her to have it all. Second, she is the sexiest thing in the world for me. So what is hotter than seeing the sexiest thing in the world in ecstasy? It's the best porn ever. When I am making love to her or fucking her, I'm too close to see all the detail, see how beautiful she is in those moments. With someone else I can sit back and enjoy every bit of her beauty. Third, she is far too moral and loyal, hung up on all this man-made morality! She feels guilt, shame, embarrassment, etc. She wants to tell me that I am the best ever. That's just crazy. She might think I'm good in bed, but there is no way I am the best in the world. It's like trying to convince yourself that you are the best golfer or painter or football player. I might be good, but some are much better! She feels guilty if a man feels too good, makes her feel too much ecstasy, as if it is a betrayal. I want her to have it all. And the mere fact that for her to enjoy herself, that her physical feelings have to be so strong that they totally over-ride her natural instincts, that is also incredibly hot. She doesn't want to enjoy this, but he or his cock is so good that she cannot help it. It's about openness. I want her to be honest with me, tell me all her fantasies, ignore how guilty she may feel for having them, dismiss that entirely. Then I can allow her to have them, explore them, enjoy them. Also, she's fuc£ing amazing. So sexy. her pussy is one of the seven wonders of the world. So when I am in her, I just think "every man should be able to feel this, just once!" I feel a bit smug too - because I have this every night. Also, she doesn't think she is hot. And she doesn't believe me - I'm her husband so I have to say that. So when another man finds her hot, it makes her feel good about herself, makes her feel the way I want her to feel about herself. So that's it really. Mostly selfless and because I love her. And that's why if we don't reciprocate I couldn't care less. I enjoy all this just too much to be worried about my own pleasure. Not that I don't mind joining in...(:" Very, very well put. The key line to me is, "I want everything for her, the best of everything, and that includes sexual pleasure." This is love. | |||
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"Ok that's easy, but you need to bear with me. First, I think sexual pleasure is fundamental in humans, irrespective of love. It's just that sexual pleasure is complicated by love and lots of other things, most of which are the result of "morality". I can ignore all of those caveats and offer my wife pure sexual pleasure. I won't feel jealous. I won't go nuts. I don't want her to feel guilty. So, because of this, I think that it is a fantastic gift that I can give the woman I love; enjoy being fucked. Give in to it. I can allow you. It's a gift most men couldn't give you. Of course she tells me no one is like me blah blah, but that's not the point. I'm like her favourite meal, maybe a roast dinner. I don't cease being her roast dinner just because she occasionally has a curry or take away or a pasta. And why shouldn't she have all those other lovely meals? I want everything for her, the best of everything, and that includes sexual pleasure. So I want her to understand she can enjoy all those things, guilt free, and it doesn't affect or detract from us. So number one, it's a gift for the woman I love. Every woman should be able to enjoy a long cock or thick cock or huge cock or someone who is awesome with their cock no matter the size. Enjoy their fingers, their tongue. I want her to have it all. Second, she is the sexiest thing in the world for me. So what is hotter than seeing the sexiest thing in the world in ecstasy? It's the best porn ever. When I am making love to her or fucking her, I'm too close to see all the detail, see how beautiful she is in those moments. With someone else I can sit back and enjoy every bit of her beauty. Third, she is far too moral and loyal, hung up on all this man-made morality! She feels guilt, shame, embarrassment, etc. She wants to tell me that I am the best ever. That's just crazy. She might think I'm good in bed, but there is no way I am the best in the world. It's like trying to convince yourself that you are the best golfer or painter or football player. I might be good, but some are much better! She feels guilty if a man feels too good, makes her feel too much ecstasy, as if it is a betrayal. I want her to have it all. And the mere fact that for her to enjoy herself, that her physical feelings have to be so strong that they totally over-ride her natural instincts, that is also incredibly hot. She doesn't want to enjoy this, but he or his cock is so good that she cannot help it. It's about openness. I want her to be honest with me, tell me all her fantasies, ignore how guilty she may feel for having them, dismiss that entirely. Then I can allow her to have them, explore them, enjoy them. Also, she's fuc£ing amazing. So sexy. her pussy is one of the seven wonders of the world. So when I am in her, I just think "every man should be able to feel this, just once!" I feel a bit smug too - because I have this every night. Also, she doesn't think she is hot. And she doesn't believe me - I'm her husband so I have to say that. So when another man finds her hot, it makes her feel good about herself, makes her feel the way I want her to feel about herself. So that's it really. Mostly selfless and because I love her. And that's why if we don't reciprocate I couldn't care less. I enjoy all this just too much to be worried about my own pleasure. Not that I don't mind joining in...(:" Excellent, well said !!! | |||
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"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? " Some guys just get pleasure from seeing their partners enjoy them selves.. I know if I'm with a woman part of my enjoyment is knowing she is getting pleasure so it's the same just up a level or two | |||
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"Its the naughty aspects of it all. The pleasure of a very horny lady being played with/enjoyed relentlessly. Then left in a spent quivering mess on the bed, but with that naughty smile on her face afterwards. " sounds like my hotel room. | |||
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"Agree, it is very addictive, lol and also since we both love it. Long may it stay so." Its very addictive as a single guy - hard to keep away from a lovely hotwife! | |||
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"It is the most erotic turn on I have ever experienced, Watching another man penetrate my lovely wife, and now we only meet black guys because the experience of seeing black skin against my very pale white wife is something you can't believe. Beware if you try this...it's addictive " Agreed. The beauty of the contrast of black on white is incomparable. And the fact that it is usually a BBC. That she is writhing on is just a bonus! | |||
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"It is the most erotic turn on I have ever experienced, Watching another man penetrate my lovely wife, and now we only meet black guys because the experience of seeing black skin against my very pale white wife is something you can't believe. Beware if you try this...it's addictive Agreed. The beauty of the contrast of black on white is incomparable. And the fact that it is usually a BBC. That she is writhing on is just a bonus!" | |||
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"The ache in my balls in the lead up to a meet is difficult to describe but utterly addictive. Seeing Laura comfortable and turned on with another guy, and loosing herself with him is such a mental overload there is jealousy, pride, happiness and loads of other emotions all happening at once. In many ways the flirting beforehand and the coming together of me and her afterwards are actually better than seeing the actual sex that takes place between Laura and the guy. It is a very complicated dynamic but if it works for you then you have a wonderful thing together. " Agree ..but also seems so natural watch look on strangers face when he knows his pulled & damp patch on his boxers of pre cum then when he empties his load inside her ...afterwards when his gone & be alone with my wife the smell of anougher man on her make sure she dsnt shower till next day ...but historically other cultures have shared their wives for thousands of yrs the ancient Romans the Celts Persians | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " | |||
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"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else I love idea watching others play Very naughty " It's this mentality that's a bit annoying tbh, 'having better with somebody else' is just nonsense. It's not about that at all and often the sex between the couple is very good in the first place, it's 'an addition' to their sex life. Pretty sure I'm like most of the guys on his thread and that it's a real buzz seeing your other half in such a way that most men never, ever will see, it's like (for me anyway) like an outer body experience and seeing how we have sex but from the third person perspective, seeing her in this way is impossible when it's just us. Also the things you didn't realise she does is also great to see. I never realised she smiles every time someone cums, like she's done a good job, or when she curls her toes at certain times, or how her back muscles contract, yes they do, lol, and there's so, so much more. | |||
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"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else I love idea watching others play Very naughty It's this mentality that's a bit annoying tbh, 'having better with somebody else' is just nonsense. It's not about that at all and often the sex between the couple is very good in the first place, it's 'an addition' to their sex life. Pretty sure I'm like most of the guys on his thread and that it's a real buzz seeing your other half in such a way that most men never, ever will see, it's like (for me anyway) like an outer body experience and seeing how we have sex but from the third person perspective, seeing her in this way is impossible when it's just us. Also the things you didn't realise she does is also great to see. I never realised she smiles every time someone cums, like she's done a good job, or when she curls her toes at certain times, or how her back muscles contract, yes they do, lol, and there's so, so much more. " Absolutely! Out of body experience is the way to describe it. As for better with someone else - we’ll sex isn’t purely physical. I feel completely confident that no matter how good a guy makes Cleo feel, it’s never better than with me. Or, it’s not a threat. I am so secure in her that this is not a threat. At all. If it were we wouldn’t do it. So before you can even think about it, you need to be in that secure place. If you’re not, you’re not ready. And the only assurance I have that it isn’t a threat, is what she tells me. I believe her. I trust her. So don’t think I feel inadequate and want to see someone who “properly” fucks her. It is something I don’t like about cuck porn - it’s all focused on her having something special she can’t with her partner. I mean I could be deluded, but it’s a nice delusion. (: | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. This well said" Quite possibly the best analysis I've read. | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " Have to agree, completely hit yhe nail on the head, petfectly put. | |||
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"I've asked my husband why he loves watching me get fucked by other guys, and he can't explain other than say he just loves it. Can other wife watchers explain why they love it? " Because it goes back to childhood and sharing your most prized possession with another male gives you a buzz inside... knowing that you've shared it, how good it is..but it's still yours to take back.. | |||
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"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else I love idea watching others play Very naughty It's this mentality that's a bit annoying tbh, 'having better with somebody else' is just nonsense. It's not about that at all and often the sex between the couple is very good in the first place, it's 'an addition' to their sex life. Pretty sure I'm like most of the guys on his thread and that it's a real buzz seeing your other half in such a way that most men never, ever will see, it's like (for me anyway) like an outer body experience and seeing how we have sex but from the third person perspective, seeing her in this way is impossible when it's just us. Also the things you didn't realise she does is also great to see. I never realised she smiles every time someone cums, like she's done a good job, or when she curls her toes at certain times, or how her back muscles contract, yes they do, lol, and there's so, so much more. Absolutely! Out of body experience is the way to describe it. As for better with someone else - we’ll sex isn’t purely physical. I feel completely confident that no matter how good a guy makes Cleo feel, it’s never better than with me. Or, it’s not a threat. I am so secure in her that this is not a threat. At all. If it were we wouldn’t do it. So before you can even think about it, you need to be in that secure place. If you’re not, you’re not ready. And the only assurance I have that it isn’t a threat, is what she tells me. I believe her. I trust her. So don’t think I feel inadequate and want to see someone who “properly” fucks her. It is something I don’t like about cuck porn - it’s all focused on her having something special she can’t with her partner. I mean I could be deluded, but it’s a nice delusion. (:" Speaking my language, Sir. | |||
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"I like the idea of it , but don't you like been the one who fucks your wife the best Or are you happy to accept she's having better with somebody else I love idea watching others play Very naughty It's this mentality that's a bit annoying tbh, 'having better with somebody else' is just nonsense. It's not about that at all and often the sex between the couple is very good in the first place, it's 'an addition' to their sex life. Pretty sure I'm like most of the guys on his thread and that it's a real buzz seeing your other half in such a way that most men never, ever will see, it's like (for me anyway) like an outer body experience and seeing how we have sex but from the third person perspective, seeing her in this way is impossible when it's just us. Also the things you didn't realise she does is also great to see. I never realised she smiles every time someone cums, like she's done a good job, or when she curls her toes at certain times, or how her back muscles contract, yes they do, lol, and there's so, so much more. Absolutely! Out of body experience is the way to describe it. As for better with someone else - we’ll sex isn’t purely physical. I feel completely confident that no matter how good a guy makes Cleo feel, it’s never better than with me. Or, it’s not a threat. I am so secure in her that this is not a threat. At all. If it were we wouldn’t do it. So before you can even think about it, you need to be in that secure place. If you’re not, you’re not ready. And the only assurance I have that it isn’t a threat, is what she tells me. I believe her. I trust her. So don’t think I feel inadequate and want to see someone who “properly” fucks her. It is something I don’t like about cuck porn - it’s all focused on her having something special she can’t with her partner. I mean I could be deluded, but it’s a nice delusion. (: Speaking my language, Sir. " | |||
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"Question is do you women enjoy fucking other men while your hubby watches? Does it turn you on? Do you solely do it to please your husbands?" Can't speak for others but I love it and reading this thread has worked a treat Madame Boo | |||
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"I love it, find it incredibly horny. I don't think Mrs Beem believes me though! " Absolutely right lol | |||
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"I love watching my wife for many reasons.On a basic level, I just love to see her happy. I love to feel the freedom and lack of inhibitions it brings. I love the satisfaction of seeing her be at her absolute most primal. I love how close it brings us in everyday life, sharing our most intimate selves with each other. I also think that being married doesn't give you the right to say what your partner can or can't do, so working together to allow other to be the most open and honest you can be will only strengthen a relationship Oh and also because it's hot as fuck and I love to watch real life porn starring my all time favourite porn star " | |||
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"I love watching my wife for many reasons.On a basic level, I just love to see her happy. I love to feel the freedom and lack of inhibitions it brings. I love the satisfaction of seeing her be at her absolute most primal. I love how close it brings us in everyday life, sharing our most intimate selves with each other. I also think that being married doesn't give you the right to say what your partner can or can't do, so working together to allow other to be the most open and honest you can be will only strengthen a relationship Oh and also because it's hot as fuck and I love to watch real life porn starring my all time favourite porn star " You stole this out of my head!! (: | |||
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"Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him " Spare a thought for those who have to read your drivel and learn how to use punctuation marks | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. " | |||
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"I love watching my wife for many reasons.On a basic level, I just love to see her happy. I love to feel the freedom and lack of inhibitions it brings. I love the satisfaction of seeing her be at her absolute most primal. I love how close it brings us in everyday life, sharing our most intimate selves with each other. I also think that being married doesn't give you the right to say what your partner can or can't do, so working together to allow other to be the most open and honest you can be will only strengthen a relationship Oh and also because it's hot as fuck and I love to watch real life porn starring my all time favourite porn star " hit the nail on the head | |||
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"I love watching my wife for many reasons.On a basic level, I just love to see her happy. I love to feel the freedom and lack of inhibitions it brings. I love the satisfaction of seeing her be at her absolute most primal. I love how close it brings us in everyday life, sharing our most intimate selves with each other. I also think that being married doesn't give you the right to say what your partner can or can't do, so working together to allow other to be the most open and honest you can be will only strengthen a relationship Oh and also because it's hot as fuck and I love to watch real life porn starring my all time favourite porn star " And that's just one of the many reasons I absolutely love you completely, and fancy the pants off you too! V x | |||
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"As the hubby it's the most erotic thing ever so hot and for us the attraction is that it's so so naughty. I would say it only works if your in a happy loving relationship, where having naughty fun is just that fun, and nothing to do with real life other than seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate. From seeing the build up, the little expressions you msy miss when together. It simply brings a whole new prespective to things. As for being Bi I would say no. For me it's a little bit of being submissive to my wife, and a loving gift allowing her to have fun knowing afterwards she is loved just the same. The more you love your partner the more erotic the whole thing is, and the more naughty it all is. I could chat all night about the little specifics, seeing another hand on my wife's knee seeing her look lustful, seeing her kiss another and that's before the real fun. Unless your of low self esteem and the jealous type what's not to like. This is TOTALLY it! " "Seeing the person you love have fun is the ultimate". Very well said! | |||
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"Ok that's easy, but you need to bear with me. First, I think sexual pleasure is fundamental in humans, irrespective of love. It's just that sexual pleasure is complicated by love and lots of other things, most of which are the result of "morality". I can ignore all of those caveats and offer my wife pure sexual pleasure. I won't feel jealous. I won't go nuts. I don't want her to feel guilty. So, because of this, I think that it is a fantastic gift that I can give the woman I love; enjoy being fucked. Give in to it. I can allow you. It's a gift most men couldn't give you. Of course she tells me no one is like me blah blah, but that's not the point. I'm like her favourite meal, maybe a roast dinner. I don't cease being her roast dinner just because she occasionally has a curry or take away or a pasta. And why shouldn't she have all those other lovely meals? I want everything for her, the best of everything, and that includes sexual pleasure. So I want her to understand she can enjoy all those things, guilt free, and it doesn't affect or detract from us. So number one, it's a gift for the woman I love. Every woman should be able to enjoy a long cock or thick cock or huge cock or someone who is awesome with their cock no matter the size. Enjoy their fingers, their tongue. I want her to have it all. Second, she is the sexiest thing in the world for me. So what is hotter than seeing the sexiest thing in the world in ecstasy? It's the best porn ever. When I am making love to her or fucking her, I'm too close to see all the detail, see how beautiful she is in those moments. With someone else I can sit back and enjoy every bit of her beauty. Third, she is far too moral and loyal, hung up on all this man-made morality! She feels guilt, shame, embarrassment, etc. She wants to tell me that I am the best ever. That's just crazy. She might think I'm good in bed, but there is no way I am the best in the world. It's like trying to convince yourself that you are the best golfer or painter or football player. I might be good, but some are much better! She feels guilty if a man feels too good, makes her feel too much ecstasy, as if it is a betrayal. I want her to have it all. And the mere fact that for her to enjoy herself, that her physical feelings have to be so strong that they totally over-ride her natural instincts, that is also incredibly hot. She doesn't want to enjoy this, but he or his cock is so good that she cannot help it. It's about openness. I want her to be honest with me, tell me all her fantasies, ignore how guilty she may feel for having them, dismiss that entirely. Then I can allow her to have them, explore them, enjoy them. Also, she's fuc£ing amazing. So sexy. her pussy is one of the seven wonders of the world. So when I am in her, I just think "every man should be able to feel this, just once!" I feel a bit smug too - because I have this every night. Also, she doesn't think she is hot. And she doesn't believe me - I'm her husband so I have to say that. So when another man finds her hot, it makes her feel good about herself, makes her feel the way I want her to feel about herself. So that's it really. Mostly selfless and because I love her. And that's why if we don't reciprocate I couldn't care less. I enjoy all this just too much to be worried about my own pleasure. Not that I don't mind joining in...(:" Explained really really well. Thanks. There have been lots of great messages on this thread, so thanks to everyone who has messaged. We have both read every one. We feel normal now, lucky even, not freaks! Thanks again to everyone who responded. XXxXX | |||
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"Plain obvious really that he cant satisfy you properly thats why he lets others or he just a complete flop in that department be truthful how many you fucked then better than him Spare a thought for those who have to read your drivel and learn how to use punctuation marks " Very well said OptimusD. | |||
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