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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It seems to be hard for me to get the attention of anyone on this site, I tend to message people with unique messages not that copy and paste crap and try to engage with that's on there profile however I never ever much back? I gave up and came back recently just curious as to how to get you lovely people to get talking

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

cahoots

You might want to review your profile as people tend to check them before responding to messages.

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By *inglehotchickWoman  over a year ago

blackpool

I've been talking to this guy and have seen his gorgeous face. The only thing I can advise is lose the cock profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Stick with it, be friendly and momentum builds

You will do fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

change your age make it over 28

I did same I am 23 n had no success in the First 2 months but I after I changedmy age to 27 wooow I got lots of meets lots of offers I used to ask for veri now I say to the people I meet no verification please i got enough now I am fucking more bitchs than bengmen try this trick

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple  over a year ago

Stratford

Hmmm. Your profile confuses me (her here). It says you want to meet couples and females but your ‘looking for’ has females only listed in a very tight age range. Nothing wrong with having an age range by the way but you might want to do a search of folk in that age range locally to you who fit your requirements and have a think about it.

Getting chatting on line is slightly different to chatting face to face and may seem daunting but reading profiles all the way through to check you fit their requirements as well as yours is a great way to start. Opening the conversation making reference to something in their profile that attracted you is often a good ice breaker and don’t ask how they are or what they’re up to - it often results in an instant delete. Good luck

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple  over a year ago

Halifax

Deffo lose the avatar or add more pics op (not cock ones).

Miss

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By *revaunanceCouple  over a year ago

Exeter

First and foremost you should brighten your profile up with some more pics, preferably not of your cock.

As others have said, remove the cock pic from your avatar. Ask yourself do you really want your cock to be the first impression you make on anyone?

Unfortunately you have to accept that many people won't want to meet with you because of your age. It's not worth fretting about, just accept it and look for people who's preferences you do meet. If they meet yours too then your in a good starting position.

I'd also recommend that you ditch the legal nonsense. It means nothing whatsoever, and is completely unenforcable. As things stand 50% of your profile text is pointless.

With regards to your question on how to get people talking, do you use the chatroom? It's a way to open a conversation with people, that is fun and interactive. Pop your face on cam and see who shows some interest. You've posted a lot in the forum in the last 24 hours, so you've finally found this part of the site, which is a positive step too.

Offline, get yourself to a club or organised social.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing wrong with younger guys imo OP

1) Make profile a bit more quirky and what you like to do with others.

2) Lose the cock pic as profile picture, I love perving at the cock pics on profiles but to have my inbox full of cocks before opening a message is a put off!

3) Have some public images, doesn’t have to be your face.. keep them private if you want until you want to send to someone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Add more pics and lose the cock pic

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