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Ladies how did you get into swinging.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My first gf cheated on me. Read it on her diary and it turned me on so much knowing another man had fucked her. I was her first.
I've been the other guy and the bull for other couples. I've never met a woman though who would be up for swinging and fucking other men. Closest I've come is one ex who liked the fantasy but never tried it in reality.
I really want my next partner to be into swinging. So lady's reading this, can I ask how you got into it? Was it your idea or someone else's? Any advice on how to find someone so I can change my profile to a couple one? |
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Because I’m a nosey fucker haha
I had split with my husband after a lifetime together was charting to some random on Pof I think and he was on here and swinging
I had to check it out and the rest as they say is history ... 4 years on still here lol  |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
I was meeting lying twats on dating sites making false promises about a future when all they wanted was a shag. The lying and disappointment was soul destroying and being used that way for sex was quite damaging mentally, however i still had needs.
A friend suggested going to a club for having that need met in a controlled and safer environment. I took the plunge and it was awesome. Through that I met people who were on fab and joined up. Never looked back.
6-7 years on I've still met some lying twats, but on the whole it's more honest here, and I've met some amazing people and life long friends. |
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"Because I’m a nosey fucker haha
I had split with my husband after a lifetime together was charting to some random on Pof I think and he was on here and swinging
I had to check it out and the rest as they say is history ... 4 years on still here lol "
Haha!
Same here, only it was Badoo!!
Then split with him & stayed here on my own! |
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"Because I’m a nosey fucker haha
I had split with my husband after a lifetime together was charting to some random on Pof I think and he was on here and swinging
I had to check it out and the rest as they say is history ... 4 years on still here lol
Haha!
Same here, only it was Badoo!!
Then split with him & stayed here on my own!"
I was completely clueless to the world of internet dating / nsa sex ... my eyes were opened pmsl  |
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Haha!
Same here, only it was Badoo!!
Then split with him & stayed here on my own!
I was completely clueless to the world of internet dating / nsa sex ... my eyes were opened pmsl "
LMBFAO!
Oh I met some right weirdos on those dating apps!
Thank God, I found this place  |
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Haha!
Same here, only it was Badoo!!
Then split with him & stayed here on my own!
I was completely clueless to the world of internet dating / nsa sex ... my eyes were opened pmsl
LMBFAO!
Oh I met some right weirdos on those dating apps!
Thank God, I found this place "
Hell yeah ! Thing is there may be some of the same guys on here as on the dating apps but at lest there’s no flowery bullshit .. here it’s ‘yes we are both looking for a naughty night’ where the dating apps are ‘ I’m really hoping you will have sex with me but let’s make out we are looking for love’
Cynical - yes
Truth - of course
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a fwb who knew about this site. After we ended I stayed on here, had some great times over the past couple of years, but I am looking for a new fwb to have some adventures with.
Form an orderly queue... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few years ago we split both went out and obviously got involved in one night stands, she told me about hers etc which turned me on we started going out and I told her to act like she was single seeing guys with her was great so we decided to try swinging and never looked back |
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I was single and my friend signed me up to POF and it wasn't really for me. I got speaking to a guy on POF and he told me about Fab and said I would like it. I signed up and here I am few years later and even found my hubby through this site. Thank you Sheffield guy lol! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because I’m a nosey fucker haha
I had split with my husband after a lifetime together was charting to some random on Pof I think and he was on here and swinging
I had to check it out and the rest as they say is history ... 4 years on still here lol "
Did that once after my ex and I hadn't had sex in months. Complained after 7 months and was told that I was being too needy for her. Didn't want to split up my family at the time so went online chatting to meet my needs. Wouldn't have done it if she was prepared to show even a tiny bit of affection at the time.
Not saying your ex did that. Just saying what I did. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Few years ago we split both went out and obviously got involved in one night stands, she told me about hers etc which turned me on we started going out and I told her to act like she was single seeing guys with her was great so we decided to try swinging and never looked back"
I love that feeling when your ex is going out and you know they are likely to pull. It's a bit of a sick feeling, nervous but really turned on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Few years ago we split both went out and obviously got involved in one night stands, she told me about hers etc which turned me on we started going out and I told her to act like she was single seeing guys with her was great so we decided to try swinging and never looked back
I love that feeling when your ex is going out and you know they are likely to pull. It's a bit of a sick feeling, nervous but really turned on. "
 definitely mate especially when you see her getting greedy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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definitely mate especially when you see her getting greedy "
When I first started dating my wife she was chatting to another man and wanted to meet him before we went further. Hadn't even kissed her. She met him on a night out and fucked her... Turned me on knowing that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Few years ago we split both went out and obviously got involved in one night stands, she told me about hers etc which turned me on we started going out and I told her to act like she was single seeing guys with her was great so we decided to try swinging and never looked back
I love that feeling when your ex is going out and you know they are likely to pull. It's a bit of a sick feeling, nervous but really turned on.
definitely mate especially when you see her getting greedy "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been into group sex for as long as I can remember... just my preferred way other than with my partner. "
Thanks for sharing. But the way, beautiful face pic on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex 18 odd years ago suggested it and I thought why not. We went to a swingers event in a house nr Brentwood. I was so nervous we had to stop at a pub on the way there for a G&T. Had a great night and have dipped back in and out ever since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was meeting lying twats on dating sites making false promises about a future when all they wanted was a shag. The lying and disappointment was soul destroying and being used that way for sex was quite damaging mentally, however i still had needs.
A friend suggested going to a club for having that need met in a controlled and safer environment. I took the plunge and it was awesome. Through that I met people who were on fab and joined up. Never looked back.
6-7 years on I've still met some lying twats, but on the whole it's more honest here, and I've met some amazing people and life long friends."
This is so true. At least we all know why we are here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A mate was meeting a guy she'd met on here, asked me along for company/safety in case he didn't show etc.
Got d*unk, ended up joining them for the night, rest is history!  |
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By *ighnboxCouple
over a year ago
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30 years here and when first started there was NO INTERNET lol it was all via readers wives Escort and Fiesta mag back then ....A lot lot easier now
First time was from posting pics in readers wives for a bit of extra cash when 20 years old with no intention of meeting any one.
BUT when receiving all the fan mail and reading it was a HUGE turn on so after a chat decided to give it a go ...
Still at it 30 years later and LOVE it as much as the first time |
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