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Sure this has been asked before...
We tend to soft swap mostly so this hasn't been an issue until now, but the boundaries are getting dropped as we go clubbing in Gran Canaria
Cautious of hygiene, so not keen on a bloke cumming inside of her as chance a condom could fail (last time we swapped using a condom we had a pregnancy scare which has made us a tad paranoid!)
She has an aversion to cum, she hates the stuff so BJ, facial, tit shot etc are a no from her 
So, how do we politely handle this with another couple, or maybe in a group situation?
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By *tudog1Man
over a year ago
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I would suggest you are completely up front about it and just cum straight out (no pun intended) and let whoever you are with know. Chances are they'll be wondering where to shoot it later if not anyway. So if all know right from the start it avoids any awkward situations later. I have been asked to withdraw before ejaculating whilst wearing a condom and had absolutely no issue with this as the Lady wishes should always be respected.  |
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"Sure this has been asked before...
We tend to soft swap mostly so this hasn't been an issue until now, but the boundaries are getting dropped as we go clubbing in Gran Canaria
Cautious of hygiene, so not keen on a bloke cumming inside of her as chance a condom could fail (last time we swapped using a condom we had a pregnancy scare which has made us a tad paranoid!)
She has an aversion to cum, she hates the stuff so BJ, facial, tit shot etc are a no from her
So, how do we politely handle this with another couple, or maybe in a group situation?
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just out of curiosity where do u cum then and is she not on any contraceptives either as a secondary percaution just trying to work out which would be best solution for u |
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"Sure this has been asked before...
We tend to soft swap mostly so this hasn't been an issue until now, but the boundaries are getting dropped as we go clubbing in Gran Canaria
Cautious of hygiene, so not keen on a bloke cumming inside of her as chance a condom could fail (last time we swapped using a condom we had a pregnancy scare which has made us a tad paranoid!)
She has an aversion to cum, she hates the stuff so BJ, facial, tit shot etc are a no from her
So, how do we politely handle this with another couple, or maybe in a group situation?
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Simple , just supply a suitable receptacle for the guy in the couple you meet . Could be a sock , or a bowl of some sort ?
I do think it would be only fair to tell him first of your wife's aversion to cum though , just in case he gets carried away and misses the receptacle of choice .
Failing that , you could always ask the guy to leave the room at the point of orgasm ?
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"I would suggest you are completely up front about it and just cum straight out (no pun intended) and let whoever you are with know. Chances are they'll be wondering where to shoot it later if not anyway. So if all know right from the start it avoids any awkward situations later. I have been asked to withdraw before ejaculating whilst wearing a condom and had absolutely no issue with this as the Lady wishes should always be respected. "
Absolutely this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't come in the condom inside you, can't come on you! Jesus it's getting complicated, maybe tell whoever you are playing with all of this and get the guy to come on his wife instead, personally I love it sprayed all over me and then rubbing it in body to body with the other lady mmmm
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I knew a lady that following her hysterectomy developed an allergy to cum. Her solution was condoms and a gentle reminder that I was to deal with things myself later. |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"how do we politely handle this with another couple, or maybe in a group situation?
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Agree with those who've said to make it part of the quick 'expectations chat' you have before the play.
Me? I've no such aversions so leave it up the guy/s which bit of skin is best to leave it on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have met a few couples where the lady really doesn't like cum...
So I happily take both loads for her happy cali.. happy other lady. Happy guys x
This is definitely the best solution  "
its fun... and takes the pressure off the other lady. .. although my preference is a lady that likes to share but this scenario is my 2nd favourite x |
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Ive used technique of taking his cock in my hand, with asking to know when hes nearing, then finish with my hand and near/as he cums, put the other lightly on top of his cock, cupped over the tip, catching his cum but also gently wrapped round the top n shaft, can give a different sensation..
Some guys love it. For those who dont.,..well, no mess so still fun for both! |
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If I am correct OP the missus is going to use condoms but no other protection and is worried that the condom will fail shortly before or when the lucky fella cums (be that in a ashtray or up the holiday apartments drapes).
What about during and she gets pregnant from the sperm in his precum? Perhaps it would be safer if she doesn't swap at all? |
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