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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??"
Good question, I'd say if it's with a regular cyber partner then YES.
What ever attention you give to a cyber partner detracts from what you give to your actual partner.
I think I could forgive a partner a 'one night fumble' I really would never forgive an 'attachement' to another of any kind.
If it's with different cyber partners every time I'd say it's like serial shagging. The cyberist is getting something from it and it doesn's ADD or SAVE a relationship in any way.
To be fair if it's regular ... check out the relationship. I do know people who have split over it. |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??"
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays. |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays."
Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter??  |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.
Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter?? "
Aren't the stars lovely n twinkly |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.
Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter??
Aren't the stars lovely n twinkly "
its cloudy here, cant see the stars  |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.
Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter?? "
He's a peanut farmer. |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.
Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter??
He's a peanut farmer."
JUST a peanut farmer ? ?? |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays."
Does that mean you think its just a bit of fun and nothing to worry about?? |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.
Does that mean you think its just a bit of fun and nothing to worry about??"
I would say if you partner knows it is just a bit of fun. The danger may be you start to really like the other person. They press all the right buttons verbally so to speak and get you really hot. You end up thinking wow if this person is that good with words I wonder how good they are for real. |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.
Sorry, but who is Jimmy Carter??
He's a peanut farmer.
JUST a peanut farmer ? ??"
Of course not. Nobody is JUST a peanut farmer  |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.
Does that mean you think its just a bit of fun and nothing to worry about??"
That would be passing a moral judgement on others' behaviour. I don't do moral judgements where consenting adults are concerned. |
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"Just curious to know what others think about cyber sex? Is it like having an affair??
If you believe Jimmy Carter even looking at a woman with lust is committing adultery in your heart. Not many would subscribe to that attitude nowadays.
Does that mean you think its just a bit of fun and nothing to worry about??
That would be passing a moral judgement on others' behaviour. I don't do moral judgements where consenting adults are concerned."
As long as ALL parties are consenting Jim but as the OP asked if it can be held akin to an affair I'd assumed that their is a deceived partner somewhere.
Is he an M n S peanut farmer then ? |
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cyber sex with another person when you are taken is currently seen as the most common form of unfaithfulness these days. there was an article in the news about it. people who do it regularly with the same people think its "okay and not really cheating", but a poll showed 95% of people thought it was just as bad as cheating in the flesh.
also to have erotic cyber that turns both people on means you have made a connection that should be directed at your partner |
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"cyber sex with another person when you are taken is currently seen as the most common form of unfaithfulness these days. there was an article in the news about it. people who do it regularly with the same people think its "okay and not really cheating", but a poll showed 95% of people thought it was just as bad as cheating in the flesh.
also to have erotic cyber that turns both people on means you have made a connection that should be directed at your partner"
Correct! and it's not even half the fun ... Fnnnarrr x |
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Thanks for your comments. I was suprised to see there is an article where 95% saw cyber sex just as bad as cheating in the flesh.
Must admit, in the chat room when on cam, there are certain individuals that turn me on more than others - just the way "they say things" can have an effect on me, even if their cam is off and they are watching. However, someone could say nearly the same thing but in a different way and I could be completely turned off and they could be drop dead georgeous. I am rambling now lol. But thanks anyway xx |
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I love a bit of cyber sex but it is rare to get a man who is good at it. After reading the stories in the Stories and Fantasies section I think I may have spotted someobdy who may be good at it lol |
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