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really hard to get anyone to talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is this same for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No problem my end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well that's one not looking for ts sorry "

Ah well I'm not looking for men I just said hello....good luck on getting a reply with that attitude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only contact people who are online.

Make what you say interesting and pertinent

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

Many people read profiles before they answer messages. Maybe therein lies your problem.

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By *-4pleasureCouple over a year ago

Belfast

"Well that's one not looking for ts sorry "

And there's why no one talks to you right there

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Is this same for everyone "

How U doin?

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By *esparate danMan over a year ago

glasgow

Another look at me im a douchebag thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Look at who

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP if you just want to talk then join in with the many threads on the many forums and crack on..

if as it appears your just looking for wank fodder then just say so and others who want the same may respond..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What's op mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I can't to meet but obviously you need to communicate first

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"What's op mean"

Original Poster, its next to your name when you post..

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Another look at me im a douchebag thread"

Be nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok thanks

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I can't to meet but obviously you need to communicate first"

If you are replying to a specific post then hit the reply and quote option then other poster can also respond accordingly..

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I can't to meet but obviously you need to communicate first"

It is nice to be able to communicate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What are your messages like?

Do you send a face pic with your message?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi OP(steve),

if I was walking by a blacked out window in a shop and wanted to buy something...do you think I'd buy from there or the other shop window that has at least some goods to show?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sorry didn't mean to offend anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I usually read profile and say hello would like to chat and send photo never really get a reply though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Depends if it were sex shop

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends if it were sex shop"

use the reply and quote steve

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can't to meet but obviously you need to communicate first

If you are replying to a specific post then hit the reply and quote option then other poster can also respond accordingly.."
ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm new to this as you can all see

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By *100Man over a year ago

Essex

Get some pics so people can see who they are talking to it works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Another look at me im a douchebag thread

Be nice

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thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What's op mean

Original Poster, its next to your name when you post.."
thanks

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Is this same for everyone "

No. Just talk here

, if no one talks back just carry on talking eventually the will start to talk back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Add a profile pic too, doesn't have to be of your face

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Add a profile pic too, doesn't have to be of your face

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ok of what then

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By *asteregg01Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I can't to meet but obviously you need to communicate first"

as others have said, i look at the profile before i open the message.

You have a very generic profile. Standard 18-99 meet requirements, no listed interests, no profile text and no visible pics.

I'd either delete your message or reply no thanks.

There are thousands of guys with similar profiles, people dont have the time to chat to everyone who messages them, just to find out they arent interested.

You need to make a good first

impression, show off your personality and let people know what you like.

Good luck

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By *rightonCheekyMan over a year ago

Brighton

OP simply join MI6' I'm sure they can make any fucker talk eventually

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok not that good but profile pic at least

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree.

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Ok not that good but profile pic at least"

It's a good start. Remember I said start though. With swinging, the journey is more fun than the destination!

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

"I can't to meet but obviously you need to communicate first

as others have said, i look at the profile before i open the message.

You have a very generic profile. Standard 18-99 meet requirements, no listed interests, no profile text and no visible pics.

I'd either delete your message or reply no thanks.

There are thousands of guys with similar profiles, people dont have the time to chat to everyone who messages them, just to find out they arent interested.

You need to make a good first

impression, show off your personality and let people know what you like.

Good luck"

All of this!

You have a two threads going and had 40+replies yet your profile is still empty.

Your profile is your shop window to sell yourself

That maybe a

I'm looking for one off meets/fuck buddy/repeat meets .... whatever you are here for but tell people!!

We are not mind readers and tbh have lives so rarely "ask if you want to know

Message the profiles who are looking for the same

Eg: if you only want random meets no real conversation don't message a person clearly saying they are into fuck and go meets

Effort in =results

The facts yours threads are saying you aren't getting anywhere..... well what do you think!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well thats a start, but anyone who read your profile stats, will know 50% of what you have just wrote

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"well thats a start, but anyone who read your profile stats, will know 50% of what you have just wrote"
ok lol didn't think of that so maybe I should add more things x

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

"well thats a start, but anyone who read your profile stats, will know 50% of what you have just wroteok lol didn't think of that so maybe I should add more things x"

Delete the repeated information and tell us what you want/expect from the site...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"well thats a start, but anyone who read your profile stats, will know 50% of what you have just wroteok lol didn't think of that so maybe I should add more things x

Delete the repeated information and tell us what you want/expect from the site...

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make new friends meet people maybe have a little fun as I'm stuck I house on my own at min

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

Well if you are stuck in the house you have plenty time to tweak the narrative

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"...make new friends meet people maybe have a little fun..."

This bit can go in. Keep going!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"...make new friends meet people maybe have a little fun...

This bit can go in. Keep going!

"
eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Admittedly we tend to reject requests from random strangers to chat on line. We'd rather get out there and have some fun. Maybe you should get out there too, and not waste time looking for cyber chat in the hope in leads to sex.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Admittedly we tend to reject requests from random strangers to chat on line. We'd rather get out there and have some fun. Maybe you should get out there too, and not waste time looking for cyber chat in the hope in leads to sex.

Mrs"
I would gladly get out there just not sure where and I'm not looking for cyber sex ill leave that to the robots just most seem not to be genuine or full of shit kik the women who claims to be thirty weeks pregnant who just messaged me

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

"...make new friends meet people maybe have a little fun...

This bit can go in. Keep going!

eh"

He means that's a good start on your narrative. Now keep going and adding to it..

Getting out-- check for local socials

The forum is full of information

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"...make new friends meet people maybe have a little fun...

This bit can go in. Keep going!

eh"

Add it to your profile. By Christmas you will have a decent profile and be knee deep!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

MrsI would gladly get out there just not sure where and I'm not looking for cyber sex ill leave that to the robots just most seem not to be genuine or full of shit kik the women who claims to be thirty weeks pregnant who just messaged me "

Well if you would rather get out there as opposed to chatting, perhaps your thread should be 'which clubs welcome single guys' not 'why don't people want to chat?' Why on earth do you want to chat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"...make new friends meet people maybe have a little fun...

This bit can go in. Keep going!

Add it to your profile. By Christmas you will have a decent profile and be knee deep!

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in clunge add what to profile I doubt it this site is more secret than freemason noone talks

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"...make new friends meet people maybe have a little fun...

This bit can go in. Keep going!

eh"

Some of the "good" profiles you see have evolved over time. Also people learn about themselves while swinging so as they try stuff and find out what they like, they add more info to the profile. Don't worry about getting it right first time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...make new friends meet people maybe have a little fun...

This bit can go in. Keep going!

Add it to your profile. By Christmas you will have a decent profile and be knee deep!

in clunge add what to profile I doubt it this site is more secret than freemason noone talks "

you are just going round in circles now...you moaned that no one talked to you, plenty of people, on 2 different threads, gave you plenty of advice, you ignore most of it , and hours later, again you're moaning that no one talks?..might have been more productive to spend al this time actually doing something about your profile rather than repeatedly whining about no one talking to you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"...make new friends meet people maybe have a little fun...

This bit can go in. Keep going!

"
ok obviously I have not got it right was trying to be discreet maybe I should let it all just hang out

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By *hat the hellCouple over a year ago

Down South

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

1 OP asks why are people not chatting

2 people try to help or answer the question

3 OP decides to be rude to the very people who are trying to help

4 none of the aforementioned advice has been taken

5 OP has actually made things worse for himself as people will use the forum threads as another filter to out undesirable people

6 this will result in multiple blocks on the OP, bringing us back to the fact that nobody is chatting to him!!

Enough said, effort in and rewards out! Happy fabbing people!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love these threads, ask for help then give abuse to the people who offer suggestions

oh dear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Woow just woow.

. Beg for advice then get shitty when advice is given.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Woow just woow.

. Beg for advice then get shitty when advice is given.

beg that's what your dog does you cretin"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5 OP has actually made things worse for himself as people will use the forum threads as another filter to out undesirable people

Can you do that? I'd like to search for threads by specific people?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well if that is your banta on top form then who are we to disagree with you.

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