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over a year ago
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And there is a big party at the Chameleons club in Darlaston this Sunday, in the theme of a Beach Party. Lots of forums regulars will be there, myself included.  |
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"I thought Chams was couples only on saturdays."
Chams is couples only after 1930... I do have a 'friend' that I go with but she is strictly vanilla... I need a little more spice, and yes she knows that. |
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over a year ago
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I have been informed by one of my playmates that he received PMs from peeps after posting to say he may be joining us in the Beach Party thread!
Another indication that social events may help to improve one's chances. |
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over a year ago
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"Many people (according to profiles) will not meet unverified folk... how do I get verified if no one will meet me even for a coffee? "
We take no notice of verifications by other people and don't understand why some people do (unless they know the verifiers personally ) |
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over a year ago
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"I don't agree with being verified by cam or Phone.. It doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet."
if they dont turn up just report there profile.
i would like to be verified to prove to people i am genuine - some dont like it that is there choice.
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"I don't agree with being verified by cam or Phone.. It doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet.if they dont turn up just report there profile.
i would like to be verified to prove to people i am genuine - some dont like it that is there choice.
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And what will reporting there profile do? |
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over a year ago
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"I don't agree with being verified by cam or Phone.. It doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet."
equally just because someone has veries for turning up to some meets doesn't mean they turn up to all arranged meets |
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"I don't agree with being verified by cam or Phone.. It doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet.
equally just because someone has veries for turning up to some meets doesn't mean they turn up to all arranged meets"
That's right.. But if it was a social then it's proven who they are and for me, that is good enough for a verification. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cam verification's can show that, if it's a couple that both are actively involved, not where one is pretending or pressuring their partner to swing.
It also shows if their photographs are up to date.
I've heard about folk meeting up with others only to find that the photos used are either 10 years old or of a completely different person.
From people I have talked to here on this site, verification's aren't always honestly given & some people aren't reported when really they should be.
There are rotten apples in every barrel.
Some of us aren't really interested in going to clubs or socials.
If we have arranged to meet up with someone we have ALWAYS shown up. In our experience it's others (including those that are verified in person) that have let us down & been a no show.
Please don't tar everyone with the same brush. |
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personally i think verifications are aload of tosh
i have met people with no verifications and had a great time and
i have met people with verifications and was cancelled 10 mins before a meet
so its up to you how things are done |
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Can't really see the point in them either. Really easy to fake.
The only veri we put much faith in is the site one but even thats easy enough to get round if you really wanted to.
Personnaly we would like to see the site one expire say every 3 months and have to be renewed. |
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