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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bit of a daft one this and sure a few may slate me for posting it and not using my initiative but.. I'm a fairly outgoing, friendly and easygoing guy whose not been batterd with the ugly stick but struggling to get meets. Wondered if maybe its in the messages i send. Tend to just show an interest at first rather than a long message as seems waste of time for me and them if no interest on their part. What kind of thing should i be putting in a first message? Ta P x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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personally i like a message that shows they have read our profile in full so something that refers to it, also i like to know a bit about the person sending it, i know i can find it on their profile if they have bothered to fill it out properly but if its something that isn't just copied straight from their profile it shows its not just a cut n paste generic mail and a touch of homour goes a long way in my opinion
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"personally i like a message that shows they have read our profile in full so something that refers to it, also i like to know a bit about the person sending it, i know i can find it on their profile if they have bothered to fill it out properly but if its something that isn't just copied straight from their profile it shows its not just a cut n paste generic mail and a touch of homour goes a long way in my opinion
good luck
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"personally i like a message that shows they have read our profile in full so something that refers to it, also i like to know a bit about the person sending it, i know i can find it on their profile if they have bothered to fill it out properly but if its something that isn't just copied straight from their profile it shows its not just a cut n paste generic mail and a touch of homour goes a long way in my opinion
good luck
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Just reading your profile, it seems fab to me but are u targeting D/s couples as a lot of your wish list is in that direction.Also it says what u want but not what you can do for others. |
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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago
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I agree and actually posted a similar post initial message. It is difficult messaging aong message I'd you don't even get 80 percent of the time. In the other hand its mode to get a text that shows you are interested. Then again we all know a wink says the same, then always happy to.expand and chat.... difficult but good luck to anyone genuine. Cheers all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you propose to write a one size fits all opening message? 
You can't! You tailor your message to suit the recipient. Rule of thumb: short profile, likes winks...wink followed by short message. Hardly rocket science, just my opinion, but that's your problem, the world and his wife will have one...how will you choose which way to go? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"personally i like a message that shows they have read our profile in full so something that refers to it, also i like to know a bit about the person sending it, i know i can find it on their profile if they have bothered to fill it out properly but if its something that isn't just copied straight from their profile it shows its not just a cut n paste generic mail and a touch of homour goes a long way in my opini
good luck
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+ the two of us
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Just reading your profile, it seems fab to me but are u targeting D/s couples as a lot of your wish list is in that direction.Also it says what u want but not what you can do for others."
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