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Wanting to take wife into a club
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Hello
I really want my and my wife 2 experience a club
Our sex life as a married couple is great and that's both off us agreeing to this
She thinks I am sick in the head wanting to go to a club and experience things
Any advice would be helpful
My wife is stunning |
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The fact that she's stunning has no bearing on whethe she wants to go to a club or not.
Step back, give her space and ask her why she thinks you're sick for wanting this. It's uncomfortable having your nearest and dearest dismiss your sexual fantasies as sick and its equally uncomfortable being nagged to do something you really don't want to do.
Take a breather approach the subject gently and try and find a compromise if you can. |
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"If she don't want to go you can't make her. .......
What's her view on your profile on here ?
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I was thinking the same ting. Dies she know about it and for how long,has she looked at the site and how it works,has she spoken to anyone besides you about this lifestyle. I'm a nosey so and so sorry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if she thinks you're "sick in the head" for wanting to go to a swing club, it illustrates you're poles apart (& that she's very straight laced).
Two options...
1. Tolerate being married to someone woefully straight laced....be unhappy.
2. Find yourself a filthy slut. |
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Popcorn, get your hot popcorn!!!
Wise old saying, unstoppable force hitting an immovable object springs to mind?
The more you push, the more she digs in... Also if she doesnt know about you having a profile on here, how is it going to go down when your at a club and bump into someone you have met before or talked to? |
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By *elen321Woman
over a year ago
Shaftesbury |
Maybe you'd be better off suggesting meeting with someone at home or hotel first, rather than a club. But to be honest if that's the way she feels about clubs I
don't think she will be open to the idea of swinging at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just get her all dressed up sexy for a night out tell her you're taking her to a club ,but befany of the above show her your single guy profile oh yes best pack you bags first hey |
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"Hello
I really want my and my wife 2 experience a club
Our sex life as a married couple is great and that's both off us agreeing to this
She thinks I am sick in the head wanting to go to a club and experience things
Any advice would be helpful
My wife is stunning "
is that your wife in the pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is what I am going to do arrange a meet in a bar and see what happens
Get the couple to talk to her about it in a friendly way "
You might struggle to find a couple willing to to this, surprising your wife this way is likely to badly, very badly. She already thinks your sick in the head for suggesting a club how will she feel if she finds out you've gone behind her back to arrange this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The most disappointing thing about this site is the amount of people who don't know their photos appear on here.
I always think when I see an unverified couples profile it's private relationship pics that the wife has no knowledge of.
I take it Mrs doesn't know she is onyour profile!? |
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You really shouldn't spring this on your wife in a bar, it's highly unlikely it will turn her round to the idea. Show her how much your love is unconditional, treat her with love and respect (leave fab) then work on your communication and trust with each other, both those things have to be at 100% before you even consider swinging, once your relationship is in a good place try sharing your fantasies with each other, sooner or later the question "would you like to do that for real?" Will come up and that's where you start from |
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"If I had a gorgeous sexy lady I would not be sharing her on here .
This attitude baffles me"
Wants access to other people’s wives but wouldn’t share his own - that’s exactly the attitude that makes people say single men can’t be swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a joint decision, if your doesn't want to go, then you can't force it, her opinion matters as much as yours.
Just take things slowly, she may surprise you one day."
Looks like she did |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
The South |
"Not married anymore
How have you gone from married and wanting to take your wife to a club to "not married anymore" in 1 day?
The thread is over a year old  "
People don't read profiles.
They don't read threads either.
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"Not married anymore
How have you gone from married and wanting to take your wife to a club to "not married anymore" in 1 day?
The thread is over a year old
People don't read profiles.
They don't read threads either.
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Whoops, read the thread but not the date. Sorry OP |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
The South |
"Not married anymore
How have you gone from married and wanting to take your wife to a club to "not married anymore" in 1 day?
The thread is over a year old
People don't read profiles.
They don't read threads either.
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Whoops, read the thread but not the date. Sorry OP"
Easy done.
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