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i'm going to chams for the first time for the first time for the beach party. i could use some female advice on what to wear.
and general advice on when to get there - what time will the party get started?? |
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usually when i go to Chams i wear a towel and a smile. Never been when there is a theme and so never 'had' to wear anything different. But i guess you should wear what ever you feel comfortable in - bikini, all in one swim suit etc.
I have my name down but sounds like it is going to be very busy and I'm not good with crowds so chances are I'll be there as soon as possible after opening and leaving before it gets too busy lol.
Chams is a wonderful club - very relaxed and i have no problems with going on my own. I'm sure you'll have a great time x |
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Wear whatever your more comfortable wearing ... when i go i tend to start off in a corset but take a few choices of outfits with me and get changed throughout the day 
The last time we went it was for the red, white and blue party and the car park was full by 4pm so im guessing it gets quite busy pretty early
Swelsh |
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Personally this time I'm wearing a bikini. But wear what you're comfortable with. As Swelsh said, the car park will fill up pretty quickly so either go early or figure out somewhere else to park in advance!
It will be rammed, in honesty at things like this it's harder to play because the rooms fill up so quickly but it's a great social atmosphere and nothing to stop you arranging to meet people another time if you want a room and can't get one.
I usually go to these things as a single female and have a great time, everyone is friendly and you get chatting to all and sundry. I'll be the tall blonde with the pink bikini and heels on - feel free to come and say hi if you're feeling nervous! x |
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thanks guys. I usually feel most comfortable in a dress so i guess i'll have to figure out some variation... I'm not remotely shy and have no problem going on my own but it would be good to have some friendly faces saying hello... |
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"Have a look at my pics if me costumes fa socials that night give ya a few ideas pmsl xx  "
Her eyes will hurt if she looks at your pictures.  
Im going the boring bikini and sarong thing, with some nice underwear to change into later at night. |
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"Have a look at my pics if me costumes fa socials that night give ya a few ideas pmsl xx
Her eyes will hurt if she looks at your pictures.
Im going the boring bikini and sarong thing, with some nice underwear to change into later at night."
Sounds good ta me
Won't tell ya what I'm wearin other than the fact that part of it is designed fa 4 ta 8 year olds and a certain Scottish bint pissed herself because it fitted xx  |
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well i've been looking and trying on and i think its going to be a bikini (i only own one) with a turquoise towelling beach dress over the top. i may take some nice undies for changing into.
don't be shy about saying hello - i'm certainly not! i'm a curvy with long dark hair.
and soapy, i think i prefer to wear less flammable fabrics... |
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It will be my first time at anything like the beach party although not Chams.
I am 100% sure that you'll feel at home in no time, never met anybody but nic people there!
If you want somebody to hold your hand for a while then feel free to hunt me out, I would be more than happy to do so.
Hope to meet you there |
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outfit sorted, early check in sorted, people who will say hi and not leave me feeling like norma no mates sorted! Next question... Taxi or drive from the hotel? I certainly don't intend to get sozzled, but i have heard that there will be cocktails on offer...  |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"outfit sorted, early check in sorted, people who will say hi and not leave me feeling like norma no mates sorted! Next question... Taxi or drive from the hotel? I certainly don't intend to get sozzled, but i have heard that there will be cocktails on offer... "
Taxi.........
And come and find either myself, Femme, or Pearl Necklace and we'll look after you. We buddy up newcomers so you are never on your own.
p.s. I'll be the one behind the bar probably, looking frazzled and saying...."it's no wonder i never get a shag" |
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i usually wear a corset and stockings but any nice under wear your feel comfy in is fine
it will be very busy all afternoon/night so the party will be none stop lol |
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By *adchickCouple
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" I'll be the one behind the bar probably, looking frazzled and saying...."it's no wonder i never get a shag"
lol maddie...you touting for shags "
Please dear...... anyone wanna pimp me out?
I end up running round like an idiot and never get approached and offered........ no one wants me   |
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" I'll be the one behind the bar probably, looking frazzled and saying...."it's no wonder i never get a shag"
lol maddie...you touting for shags
Please dear...... anyone wanna pimp me out?
I end up running round like an idiot and never get approached and offered........ no one wants me "
We'll have to get you a shag card....you know, a bit like the dance cards that women used to have at balls way back when...... |
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" I'll be the one behind the bar probably, looking frazzled and saying...."it's no wonder i never get a shag"
lol maddie...you touting for shags
Please dear...... anyone wanna pimp me out?
I end up running round like an idiot and never get approached and offered........ no one wants me "
What you mean LIKE an idiot? Xx
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Me too xx
another keyboard bites the dust as I end up getting tea over it whilst laughing at this post.....
sounded more like pee than tea!!!"
hmph - you've just blown any chance you had, raise! |
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"Oh dont tell me people have got various outfits, its taken me long enough to come to a decision on one "
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I shall be there as soon as the door is opened.
No point getting into my costume if I am going to go in and out of the jacuzzis until the majority starts to arrive, which is usually around 18:00h onwards.
Therefore, I shall wrap myself up in a towel until then.
Once the jacuzzis start to get busy and hands start to appear from nowhere, then I am out of there, and change into my costume, so that I can mingle with the others.
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"Oh dont tell me people have got various outfits, its taken me long enough to come to a decision on one
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I shall be there as soon as the door is opened.
No point getting into my costume if I am going to go in and out of the jacuzzis until the majority starts to arrive, which is usually around 18:00h onwards.
Therefore, I shall wrap myself up in a towel until then.
Once the jacuzzis start to get busy and hands start to appear from nowhere, then I am out of there, and change into my costume, so that I can mingle with the others.
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Yes thats a good idea Pearl. |
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is minding someones pussys so wont be there.
but using this opportunity to say have a good time one and all. i know i will, I will be shagging and getting crumbs in certain peoples bed |
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"I would gladly send the OP a face pic in advance, however, it appears you have blocked women.  "
sorry honey, but the first messages i got on site before i had completely set up my profile and likes etc were from a woman who then gave me grief cos i didn't want to meet her apparently liking bi men and not bi women makes me not a swinger and i should have gone for a dating site...
being stubborn i soon sussed out the site and the filters but it does make me wonder how many profiles are abandoned within a few hours because they are targeted by people who then berate them if they don't want to meet??
anyway honey, i'll look out for you. |
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Yes have a great night would be great if we who cant make it can have some photos of the occasion but I know thats not allowed but would be good for the fun and games. |
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"thanks guys. I usually feel most comfortable in a dress so i guess i'll have to figure out some variation... I'm not remotely shy and have no problem going on my own but it would be good to have some friendly faces saying hello..."
Wear a beach sarong Dress then and solve the problem..and if you want to see a friendly face then I am sure loads will smile when they see you in a nice beachh dress...I will when I get there.
David |
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"For this year's event, I bought a cheapo bikini top, as I don't fancy getting chaffed nipples again! "
Lol Pearl Im not even gonna ask - oo go on then I cant stand it, how, who |
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"For this year's event, I bought a cheapo bikini top, as I don't fancy getting chaffed nipples again!
Lol Pearl Im not even gonna ask - oo go on then I cant stand it, how, who "
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Actually, no one, as it was too frigging busy!
I was wearing a Hawaiian shirt over a BBQ apron, and my nipples got chaffed rubbing against the fabrics!
I bought some nipple shields in readiness for the Beach Party, however, they are not very flattering. |
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"For this year's event, I bought a cheapo bikini top, as I don't fancy getting chaffed nipples again!
Surely cheap might chaff as well..but if you do will kiss them better for you
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Watch it, or I'll set Mark on you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bought another outfit today.
Ssshhhhhh......... don't tell Jason "
What's all this about different outfits! I was only planning to take one! Oh God..... |
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"I would gladly send the OP a face pic in advance, however, it appears you have blocked women.
sorry honey, but the first messages i got on site before i had completely set up my profile and likes etc were from a woman who then gave me grief cos i didn't want to meet her apparently liking bi men and not bi women makes me not a swinger and i should have gone for a dating site...
being stubborn i soon sussed out the site and the filters but it does make me wonder how many profiles are abandoned within a few hours because they are targeted by people who then berate them if they don't want to meet??
anyway honey, i'll look out for you."
I hope you reported them |
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I shall annoy femme et al and wear my red mock crocs!
If you see a small and chubby oriental women with almost white hair, wearing a pearl necklace, black bikinis, and a black apron with BBQueen written across it, wearing red mock crocs, that would be me! |
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"I shall annoy femme et al and wear my red mock crocs!
If you see a small and chubby oriental women with almost white hair, wearing a pearl necklace, black bikinis, and a black apron with BBQueen written across it, wearing red mock crocs, that would be me! "
Im not sure Ill recognise you from that description Pearl |
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"I shall annoy femme et al and wear my red mock crocs!
If you see a small and chubby oriental women with almost white hair, wearing a pearl necklace, black bikinis, and a black apron with BBQueen written across it, wearing red mock crocs, that would be me!
Im not sure Ill recognise you from that description Pearl "
Agreed... can we have a little more detail please or it's gonna be a struggle |
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We shall see you all in a couple of hours
Jai just getting ready working out which bikini to wear, got to love this type of event xx
Come say hi if you see us
Jai and Keith x |
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