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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone.
I was thinking about this earlier. How did you bring up the topic of swinging with your partner or how did you get into the swinging scene?
Did you mention it at the dinner table, did you actually meet at a club?
I'm intrigued  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it started with a party weekend with my best mate and her bf, here in Brighton about 16yrs ago.
We all went out to a club, got very merry and then on the way back home I decided I didn't want to sleep on the couch that night lol...
I told my best mate and we just planned for me to jump into her bed hen we got home... which we did.
Next thing we know, we're kissing?!... Lol... Then next think I know, her bf is naked and I see my very first Prince Albert... which we both decided to give some attention to.
Next thing I know I'm semi bent with my hands on the edge of the bed, my best friend is going down on me and her bf is penetrating me at the same time = omfg amazing orgasm...
Which was the start of swinging for me lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With one ex girlfriend it was something that we fantasised about and then happened on a nudist beach on holiday then carried on when we got back...
With a different ex it started by going dogging and letting others watch to begin with... |
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When I first got to know the lady who has been my wife for 19 years, she told me she was not a "one man woman" and would like to see other men once we were secure together.
This she duly did, and after a few months we discussed further exploring non-monogamy as I now desired to see other women.
Open communication was the key from the start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had our first mff 3sum when we were 17 and 18 (a lot of drink helped lol) and from there we decided we enjoyed sharing. We only went "full time" a few years ago and haven't looked back since!! |
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By *edfred77Couple
over a year ago
warrington |
Our story was...married young..i was a virgin..got to my 40s..said to sue i wanted to sleep with another woman(to find out if she or i was good or bad)..didnt want to cheat so this was our option..both love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lover I had recommended a specific club to me. He said he thought I would like it. We were meant to visit together the first time. He disappeared on the day, I got stubborn, and curious, and went on my own. Here I am, more than seven years later. |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
harwich |
we went from lesbian fantasies to a relationship with a girl friend to another girl and when that ended we didnt want the fun to stop so went to a club once there we found that we could play with couples and guys as well |
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A guy I was chatting to on Pof told me and I'm nosey lol
Having recently plucked up the courage and walked away from the only man I had slept with all my life I thought I might like to explore .., 4 years on and loving life lol |
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Back in 2010 I got chatting to a girl on a vanilla site hundreds of miles away and we chatted for months. It turned out she was a swinger and she would tell me all her tales.
After some months she came to visit for a couple of days. She signed me up to a website called Fab and verified me.
After a couple of days she had to go home and I decided to explore this site she had signed me up to.
As I was browsing I heard a ping. Hark a message! It was from a local couple.
Turns out they were into cuckolding and were looking for a guy to play bull.
I vaguely understood the term cuckold but googled it just to be sure.
Went back to the couple and said I'm game but stressed that I was a beginner and would do my best to meet their needs lol.
They turned up that night, I got another glowing veri and the rest is history ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I corrupted boo by telling her how much fun it was, she was tempted and now swingers
 just made me curious how you mention it to your better half."
Show her your profile and see what she says? Lol |
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Spent half my life in a very boring vanilla relationship, always thought about 'things' but never went further than my imagination.
Then once singe, no confidence to actually do anything, or tbh where to even start looking.
Met someone on a dating site, he was already on here & encouraged me to join, said I should try out my fantasties, find the 'real me'
I did. He didn't like it!
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After more than 30 years with the same guy (hubby) and never straying we had a tough patch he strayed we parted briefly but worked things out and talked honestly. ..Had a holiday went to a nudist beach had a pleasant encounter and returned from that found Fab in June/July this year and here we are...stronger happier and honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After 20yrs if down trodden bad sex no sex marriage, finally got courage to divorce, now I have the freedom to finally enjoy life and I'm loving my journey! |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
Driving home late one night, we were getting a bit naughty in the car, decided it would be safer to pull in somewhere and do something about our urges, even as we pulled into the carpark she was sliding her mouth onto my cock, when I parked up next to some bushes, she was so busy she didnt notice the guys who gathered next to her window wanking, i had her knicks off to one side and was fingering her towards a nice wet orgasm, I decided to whisper to her that we had an audience, she just groaned loudly as she came and opened her legs wider so they could see everything better, we never looked back from there, after that point we discussed and played with any fantasies either of us could think of, without any guilt or embarrassment, but being watched together outdoors is still top of our list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We come back to our house with our neighbours after a party and started talking about it then a porn film went on we all ended up playing with ourselves we done this a few times after that one night we were doing it and my wife grabbed her friends husbands hand and looked at me and said we are going up stairs, me and is wife kissed and touched and then went up after them watching them fuck was awesome we then fucked there outside the bedroom on the floor,that was the start of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone.
I was thinking about this earlier. How did you bring up the topic of swinging with your partner or how did you get into the swinging scene?
Did you mention it at the dinner table, did you actually meet at a club?
I'm intrigued "
Long time ago a bf took me somewhere for a foursome as he knew i was interested |
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N had enjoyed a few mff threesomes in the past with her ex and I had always wanted one. We knew chams was close and found fab before we managed to go.
Don't get out almost as much as we'd like, but we certainly enjoy it when we do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I told my partner i didn't want to be with him any more. He asked why so I told him it's because I wanted to have sex with a girl and have a girlfriend..
He suggested watching me with a girl and admitted it would turn him on. We then discussed a mmf and sex just got hotter...
After some seriously sexy pillow talk we thought about a swingers club..
A few days later I signed us up to fab because I kept being a chicken and not going to the club.. haven't looked back for months. It's been great and definitely made us love each other more and also have fun with others xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well when we first met I had told Dorian I was bi. And later showed in interest in a MFF and he was interested and knew of this site so we signed up.
Didn't have much luck with single fems so discussed couples. He said he was interested in playing with couples and me playing with the guy and girl. So broadened to couples and eventually single guys and here we are 
~Mia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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During the summer when I sat my o-levels, my gang of mates and my self got to know a group of hippy-ish girls from a nearby town and we'd all get together for drinking sessions which descended into shagging. It was great fun while it lasted. Swapping partners from one session to the next. 30 years later memories of that time still brings a massive smile on my face and reminds me that once upon a time I was alive and sexy. I've recently felt the stirrings once again and I want to include my better half in enjoying adventures with me. I'm dropping suggestions full speed and hoping for a good outcome |
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We used to use fantasies during sex to get each other off, and some seemed to really get us going. Jayne admitted that she was bi curious, and we decided to do something about it. The rest, as they say, is history. |
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"For me it started with a party weekend with my best mate and her bf, here in Brighton about 16yrs ago.
We all went out to a club, got very merry and then on the way back home I decided I didn't want to sleep on the couch that night lol...
I told my best mate and we just planned for me to jump into her bed hen we got home... which we did.
Next thing we know, we're kissing?!... Lol... Then next think I know, her bf is naked and I see my very first Prince Albert... which we both decided to give some attention to.
Next thing I know I'm semi bent with my hands on the edge of the bed, my best friend is going down on me and her bf is penetrating me at the same time = omfg amazing orgasm...
Which was the start of swinging for me lol x
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Sounds awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we were looking on another site met a few men on there,the mrs always got horny as hell chatting to men how they wanted to fuck her etc,and myself sat beside her just out of cam view with a raging hard on, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi I'd alway wanted to share Miss out one Sunday nite me my mate and miss I ask my mate towards end nite up for it and yes was we got home and broke misses in all nite long and been at it since u |
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