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a lession i have learnt
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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most know me on here and have known i have had my odd flits of deleting and coming back...
with some recent hassle from now an ex playmate normally i would have cacked myself at his threats and deleted my account BUT
this occasion i have blocked him and deleted him told him that he contacts me again on my mobile i will be forced to report, but looking at the blackberry i released i could block him Number so job Done
i have decided that im going to follow my gut instincts and never give anyone 7 chances again
( and yes i was being a dumb fucker)
feel free to bollock me but im not deleting my account for one stupid twat
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"most know me on here and have known i have had my odd flits of deleting and coming back...
with some recent hassle from now an ex playmate normally i would have cacked myself at his threats and deleted my account BUT
this occasion i have blocked him and deleted him told him that he contacts me again on my mobile i will be forced to report, but looking at the blackberry i released i could block him Number so job Done
i have decided that im going to follow my gut instincts and never give anyone 7 chances again
( and yes i was being a dumb fucker)
feel free to bollock me but im not deleting my account for one stupid twat
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No bollocking needed, had similar in the past, onwards and upwards, Darling! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would anyone bollock you for this? I imagine most would give you a round of applause and say that you may have taken your time to reach this natural conclusion to a dalliance with a bell end, but you got there in the end, credit due!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"feel free to bollock me but im not deleting my account for one stupid twat
No bollocking needed, had similar in the past, onwards and upwards, Darling!"
*agrees* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"7 chances?? Feck me... I only got 2.. and all I did was snogged ya!
I'd give you at least 3.
Good for the OP. No-one should put up with abusive stuff like that."
takes guts to make the moves away too.... so good on you op, you're stronger for it (though I'd re_iew the number of 2nd chances you give em if I were you) and its their loss...
onward to greater things
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"7 chances?? Feck me... I only got 2.. and all I did was snogged ya!
I'd give you at least 3.
Good for the OP. No-one should put up with abusive stuff like that.
takes guts to make the moves away too.... so good on you op, you're stronger for it (though I'd re_iew the number of 2nd chances you give em if I were you) and its their loss...
onward to greater things
Wolf
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they will only get a chance now x |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"what hurt me more was the threats on my phone and telling me that i would go back to him and i would marry him
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The thing to realise, some people are so weak they think threatening behaviour is a demonstration of strength. Stupid or what? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what hurt me more was the threats on my phone and telling me that i would go back to him and i would marry him
The thing to realise, some people are so weak they think threatening behaviour is a demonstration of strength. Stupid or what?"
put it this way he has managed to make me keep my criteria at 28 and no lower unless i know the person via chams or forums
i got up feeling great and no more phone calls or texts from the twat
Im better than that x
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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago
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I have only just become active on this site.
But it amazes me on how many predatory, idiot males their are on here spoiling it for us quiet thoughtful and considerate blokes.
We maybe all be here for no strings fun but their is no need to be disrespectful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"7 chances?????
Not sure who's the dumbest!
me x
not you at all 
but i am glad you have moved on - onards and upwards hunny x x x
we'll have ball  "
that strapon is coming nowhere near me on sunx |
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"7 chances?????
Not sure who's the dumbest!
me x
not you at all
but i am glad you have moved on - onards and upwards hunny x x x
we'll have ball
that strapon is coming nowhere near me on sunx"
just rig the lube and we'll talk about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could hide your profile and still take part in forums, so you wouldn't need to delete if you got the urge again
Im not leaving fab x
Good girl, we'd miss ya "
Im not leaving
i reported and blocked and fab has done what i thought they wouldnt |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
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i gave one guy 2 chances to meet and he still never did so he wont get a 3rd
i reported as well the one i was suppose to meet last night, he did not text me to say sorry cant meet...... reported and nothing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"to the OP report him to police if threatening in any way, i hope he does not know where you live"
i cant see him turning up after all he didnt the past times we arranged a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have only just become active on this site.
But it amazes me on how many predatory, idiot males their are on here spoiling it for us quiet thoughtful and considerate blokes.
We maybe all be here for no strings fun but their is no need to be disrespectful."
I disagree. Most of us can spot a twat from the get go. Some women seem to attract certain types. Come on now, who would give their husbands seven chances, let alone someone you're meeting for casual sex!
In four years only once have I met a real test. Thankfully he revealed his true nature during a social meet, I didn't hang around and his subsequent messages were ignored.
A decent man has absolutely nothing to fear from the idiots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes it is hard to say no and stand firm. As a couple most don't have those kind of problems with guys cos they don't get as attached as singles may do. And I don't mean you were wanting a relationship, it stands to reason that single woman need to perhaps know more about a person so they do swap phone no's etc. Couples don't swap tel no's and neither do guys send abuse because they don't tend to when they know another guy is around.
Never keep deleting and starting up new profiles, there's no point in that, you want to be here so don't let him stop your fun. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"i think i got attached to the cock not the person lol
but i wont be deleting no more this is my profile and its staying"
sorry for your pain jacs xx but I am a sucker for a nice cock.
describe it to me if you would be as kind..
no need to take more than 5 strokes, oops seconds
xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think i got attached to the cock not the person lol
but i wont be deleting no more this is my profile and its staying
sorry for your pain jacs xx but I am a sucker for a nice cock.
describe it to me if you would be as kind..
no need to take more than 5 strokes, oops seconds
xx"
u fucker  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"i think i got attached to the cock not the person lol
but i wont be deleting no more this is my profile and its staying
sorry for your pain jacs xx but I am a sucker for a nice cock.
describe it to me if you would be as kind..
no need to take more than 5 strokes, oops seconds
xx
u fucker "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think i got attached to the cock not the person lol
but i wont be deleting no more this is my profile and its staying"
Good on you Jacqs, there are plenty of cocks to get attached to. And only delete a profile if you want to. Otherwise keep on smiling and having fun, you've got rid of him now, move onto the next willing victim |
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"I am amazed that someone would be threatening. Why threaten someone you want to make love too or just to have sex with? In my mind it is a contradiction in terms!
Or am I missing a point?"
what is amazing is he was putting more efforts into the treats than he was when she wanted to meet him!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what hurt me more was the threats on my phone and telling me that i would go back to him and i would marry him
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He sounds deluded, your worth more than that no matter how nice the cock
xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sorry but i just laugh at people when they are getting abusive mails from pre-meets or meets....honestly...how many times does it take for a cunt not to be known...i have lotsa pals i'd warn about someone being a cunt(yes im using the word again), posessive cunts ,jealous cunts, threatening cunts.
yet some pople(not getting at U personally op)- will sit and let this shit happen...and i'm sorry but after the first abusive mail if i was in that predicament...NO MORE CHANCES!- if its some form of supposed relationship, well theres always work needed if things arent right...but if we are talking about no committments sex and some cunt starts that kinda pish...what the fuck would it be like in that relationship!????????????
Oh and as a reference, cunts is an asexual term to people i dont really like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry but i just laugh at people when they are getting abusive mails from pre-meets or meets....honestly...how many times does it take for a cunt not to be known...i have lotsa pals i'd warn about someone being a cunt(yes im using the word again), posessive cunts ,jealous cunts, threatening cunts.
yet some pople(not getting at U personally op)- will sit and let this shit happen...and i'm sorry but after the first abusive mail if i was in that predicament...NO MORE CHANCES!- if its some form of supposed relationship, well theres always work needed if things arent right...but if we are talking about no committments sex and some cunt starts that kinda pish...what the fuck would it be like in that relationship!????????????
Oh and as a reference, cunts is an asexual term to people i dont really like."
You took the words right out of my mouth .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry but i just laugh at people when they are getting abusive mails from pre-meets or meets....honestly...how many times does it take for a cunt not to be known...i have lotsa pals i'd warn about someone being a cunt(yes im using the word again), posessive cunts ,jealous cunts, threatening cunts.
yet some pople(not getting at U personally op)- will sit and let this shit happen...and i'm sorry but after the first abusive mail if i was in that predicament...NO MORE CHANCES!- if its some form of supposed relationship, well theres always work needed if things arent right...but if we are talking about no committments sex and some cunt starts that kinda pish...what the fuck would it be like in that relationship!????????????
Oh and as a reference, cunts is an asexual term to people i dont really like.
You took the words right out of my mouth ...."
rather be shoving something in the mouth than taking it out! heheheheh x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have only just become active on this site.
But it amazes me on how many predatory, idiot males their are on here spoiling it for us quiet thoughtful and considerate blokes.
We maybe all be here for no strings fun but their is no need to be disrespectful.
I disagree. Most of us can spot a twat from the get go. Some women seem to attract certain types. Come on now, who would give their husbands seven chances, let alone someone you're meeting for casual sex!
In four years only once have I met a real test. Thankfully he revealed his true nature during a social meet, I didn't hang around and his subsequent messages were ignored.
A decent man has absolutely nothing to fear from the idiots."
On top of which these idiots rarely contact other blokes anyway as they have no reason to. And the stock of decent blokes actually rises as there are now clear bell ends to compare them with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm glad Madam. And I think you'll be very accomplished and give these lucky men such a sucking that they think they have died and gone to heaven, happy in the knowledge that this is one treat this idiot has denied himself.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" I'm glad Madam. And I think you'll be very accomplished and give these lucky men such a sucking that they think they have died and gone to heaven, happy in the knowledge that this is one treat this idiot has denied himself.... "
Treat its a gauntee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"most know me on here and have known i have had my odd flits of deleting and coming back...
with some recent hassle from now an ex playmate normally i would have cacked myself at his threats and deleted my account BUT
this occasion i have blocked him and deleted him told him that he contacts me again on my mobile i will be forced to report, but looking at the blackberry i released i could block him Number so job Done
i have decided that im going to follow my gut instincts and never give anyone 7 chances again
( and yes i was being a dumb fucker)
feel free to bollock me but im not deleting my account for one stupid twat
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thought the same - but there is wee gang on here want me to go but i dunno why, wont tolerate bullies - there the lowest of the low |
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"most know me on here and have known i have had my odd flits of deleting and coming back...
with some recent hassle from now an ex playmate normally i would have cacked myself at his threats and deleted my account BUT
this occasion i have blocked him and deleted him told him that he contacts me again on my mobile i will be forced to report, but looking at the blackberry i released i could block him Number so job Done
i have decided that im going to follow my gut instincts and never give anyone 7 chances again
( and yes i was being a dumb fucker)
feel free to bollock me but im not deleting my account for one stupid twat
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thats the ONE AND ONLY good thing about blackberry, i wish i could block numbers on my i phone xx |
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"Good for you jaqs, sometimes we need to kick our selves up the arse
Plenty of decent guys on heresadly not enough decent guys far to many on here ready with the bull, lies just to get what they want its not just a pussy your shagging its a person "
what a complete load of bollocks there a tons and tons of decent guys, you tend to here more about the negatives than the positives. Im more than happy with my time spent on here |
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