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Do I carry on?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.
Is it really worth carrying on?? |
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"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.
Is it really worth carrying on??"
Go to a club or social & enjoy yourself.Meeting face to face is better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.
Is it really worth carrying on??
Go to a club or social & enjoy yourself.Meeting face to face is better "
Agree. Ive done better at clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if a 99 year old lady laid naked in front of you , you would actually have sex with her at your age  "
What if he caps it at 60 and misses a hot 70 yr old? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if a 99 year old lady laid naked in front of you , you would actually have sex with her at your age
What if he caps it at 60 and misses a hot 70 yr old?"
Good point , best keep it to a 99 might even get a flake with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if a 99 year old lady laid naked in front of you , you would actually have sex with her at your age
That I would like to see...."
Not sure I would though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha"
We pay attention to everything, amazing what people pick up on. The fact you seem to list every option under interests also stands out. It reads that you're either not fussy or don't know what you want to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.
Is it really worth carrying on??"
I really don't get it. Great pics, great profile.
Get to clubs! You'll get there in the end. You're too cute and have an aura. If only you were 30 and in Plymouth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials first and clubs there after. That will get you on the right track.
And when you go into a club: have zero expectations in terms of getting laid. Go to have a good time, like you would going to a bar/club anywhere else and you'll soon see things change.
Do not get mislead because sex and all things related to it are so up front here compared to other places. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha
We pay attention to everything, amazing what people pick up on. The fact you seem to list every option under interests also stands out. It reads that you're either not fussy or don't know what you want to us."
I disagree with this. He states his interests. No different from you or I. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I very much know how to handle a woman, but I'm new to this scene so experience and guidance is always benifical  "
Gotta know what you're doing in this game fella could get chewed up & spat out with a comment like that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha
We pay attention to everything, amazing what people pick up on. The fact you seem to list every option under interests also stands out. It reads that you're either not fussy or don't know what you want to us.
I disagree with this. He states his interests. No different from you or I. "
It's a matter of opinion, I was just giving mine. Clearly the profile gives you a different impression but if he's struggling, and going by other comments on this thread, maybe I'm not the only one thinking along those lines.
No one will ever appeal to everyone, my advice to OP is be honest about what you are looking for, it might narrow the field but you should find the right people for you. |
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"The point of the post is I kinda don't know what I'm doing in this game haha I was hoping people with experience would be kind and helpful  "
Believe me that, even if we seem harsh or negative, we are actually being kind and helpful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I need to cap the age limit? Do people realllly pay attention to that? Haha
Women pay attention to everything honey...!! "
Except everything written on a profile  |
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Unfortunately some people on here will decline your offer to meet simply because of your age. But there are plenty of others that won't, so look for them. Use the search facility, and tick the litle box that says 'I must match their age requirements too'
To improve your profile I'd suggest proof reading it. There are several spelling mistakes, that do detract from the overall impression. Also, reconsider your use of double question marks, especially when you don't seem to actually be asking a question.
You have already been given some good advice from others, and your profile doesn't look too bad overall. However you've not directly asked for profile advice, so please forgive us.
Is it worth carrying on? Well that depends on how much you have enjoyed it so far. We are regular chatroom users and will often while away the hours chatting to all and sundry. We don't get to meet as often as we would like, but we would definetly miss the chatrooms if we just quit. Would you miss anything?
Good luck out there |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Also socials yes. Clubs no. Unless you already had clubs in mind in which case yes go for it. Too many people push the club thing on here. They aren't for everyone. Just my opinion of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.
Is it really worth carrying on??"
Yes it's worth carrying on this site. Two months is nothing. You are one of thousands of single guys on here. Go to clubs and meet real people. It works for me. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.
Is it really worth carrying on??"
By 'subscription' I guess you mean site membership? It's a fiver, don't be so bloody tight! Lol! You're a good looking guy, you could do well on here with a bit more effort, give up the fags and renew your membership if money is that much if an issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.
Is it really worth carrying on??
Go to a club or social & enjoy yourself.Meeting face to face is better "
Totally agree - meet real swingers in swingers clubs, keep fabs profile for staying in touch.....that has worked well for us for 3years now |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Get yourself to the Townhouse. They have some great events such as Milf Monays and im sure they recently advertised one for younger guys seeking older women. Bite the bullet and dont rely on being good looking and young on fab, you need to be way more than that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have been on here for about two months now and my subscription is coming to an end; I have had 0 meets and honestly tried to make the most of this site.
Is it really worth carrying on??"
Yes. At first we struggled. Mainly because of the age gap between me and Mr. People where put off by how young I was but liked his age.
However we stuck by it. Had a few meets. One of which is now a good friend and regular fun. As per prev comment only list what you want from fabbers. Listing everything can be confusing also a little scary.
Most important thing we learnt was just to have fun. Don't see rejection as something bad on you we are all adults with preferences. It's not that your not good enough ECT it's just on a site like this people have options.
Try and be yourself and have fun. It will happen but at the right time with the right people.
Also you don't need to be a site supporter to enjoy fab. Just removes a couple of perks
The Mrs |
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