As part of our fun we are looking at swapping Js transfer QofS tattoo for a real one next Saturday we are planning a meet with some of her regular BBC in the north west on Friday night and intend to have tattoo done the following morning?
Although we have no real issue doing this with a vanilla tattooist it would be far far Hornier if there was a ( quality) tattooist off the scene in the Manchester chester Liverpool area.
Ideally again if they were black as it would have added significance and we'd like to do a few photographs of it being done,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't want much do you, a black swinger tattooist to do your poor taste tattoo at very short notice."
Translation:
"Judge judge judge judge virtue signal judge judge" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people have no respect of others views "
It's not the BBC views she was getting catty about, it's the use of the word spade. Over the last, maybe, 100 years or so it's had racist connotations.
But from everything I've seen and read, there's nothing inherently sinister about the word. Also, it's been reclaimed, without any malice (quite the opposite), by people such as yourselves.
So I'm like.... if people are going to start getting offending for the sake of it, and without any actual clue as to why, they can fuck off.
Good luck to you both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing against tattoos as have some myself but always thought about content and how I would explain it to my kids. Mine is easily explained but if I had a Qos tattoo just wondering how I would explain it to anyone who saw it! Could either be truthful
"Yeah it's coz I love big black cocks"
Or "er I like to play cards...."
Up to you op but would advise finding a tattoo artist that you were happy with and you had done your homework on them a bit.
Good luck with it though, and can I ask where about are you getting it done?  |
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over a year ago
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I'll be honest, I think it's poor taste, and fetishizing a whole group of people is problematic. Your body your rules, but you will have to live with that tattoo forever.
If a guy who only had sex with oriental women because he assumed them to be submissive and got a geisha tattoo or similar I'd say the same. Good luck to you. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Well this thread escalated fast for a Sunday morning!
That is quite the specific ask you have there - you want a (presumably) male, black, swinging tattoo artist in a certain part of the north-west, and you need to find them within the next five days. Treasure hunt and a half there!
I have to admit to being slightly discomfited by your wish for a black guy to be the person to permanently ink on you what was historically a symbol for white supremacy BUT only because of how it could be perceived, not because I think you yourselves are racist.
I'm not in that scene, I have zero clue about the dynamics, so I can't judge until I've seen it for myself and talked to people who enjoy race play, both the guys and gals, to understand the motivations behind it. Seems a tad premature to judge before I know anything about it so I wish you all the luck in the world in finding your tattooing unicorn  |
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Appreciate finding a black tattooist in the north-west is going to be hard that I wish but we are looking for a decent tattooist to do this tattoo. It is our choice and we have discussed what it means at the end of the day unless somebody in the scene knows what it is we are never really have to worry they look quite nice in a discrete area such as the ankle |
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Your body, your life; your decisions.
My only point on this thread is that rather than searching for a black tattooist do your research and get some one that has the feedback and reputation that your body deserves. it's going to be there forever, make sure that it's a good one.
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"The ankle isn't a discrete area when you are on the beach or in a swimming pool.
Sally "
Or wearing a skirt, or shorts, or flip flops, or sandles etc etc etc. This isn't Victorian times, women's ankles are flashed about willy nilly these days. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
I'm so naive, I didn't even know what a Queen of spades tattoo was supposed to symbolise until this thread!
As others have mentioned, I'm not sure the racial connotations are great of the spade part, nor the power dynamic of the Queen/subject  part either. It might be worth considering that it could potentially offend and alienate the people you like to play with.
Finally, as others have mentioned you have a long wish list of what you want, a very specific location, time, race, skill etc. That might be difficult to achieve. |
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In regard to the last couple of posts we don't really feel we will alienate the guys that we play with or the groups that we play with we frequently already use a transfer tattoo and quite often At their behest!
Also as we've explained earlier and we have thought about it the only people that are going to understand what it means or people in the scene, it's not like we're having slave or BBC slut tattooed on her arse is it? it's not like we're having slave or BBC slut tattooed on her arse isn't? |
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"In regard to the last couple of posts we don't really feel we will alienate the guys that we play with or the groups that we play with we frequently already use a transfer tattoo and quite often At their behest!
Also as we've explained earlier and we have thought about it the only people that are going to understand what it means or people in the scene, it's not like we're having slave or BBC slut tattooed on her arse is it? it's not like we're having slave or BBC slut tattooed on her arse isn't? "
Do what you guys want, its your body and your lives.
Just one bit of advice, dont go too big with it as it'l be harder to cover up, should you find the desire to latter on?
Good luck guys x |
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over a year ago
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Good luck in your search for a quality tattooist but I fear you may not be able to get one at such short notice, most are booked up for a considerable time beforehand although you may be lucky |
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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago
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Oh shit, is the queen of spades associated with swingers? I have a queen of heart tattoo on my hand and a customer at work commented the other day that maybe it should be a queen of spades and I laughed it off thinking he meant something else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it seems an accepted term in the lifestyle and until a black guy comes along to say he finds it derogatory I'm going to assume it's an indicative label they see no issue with. |
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