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At what point do messages go from flattering to creepy?
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So message comes in fine , reply as it's polite .
Then another and another ....
All the time polite but slowly getting a bit heavier.
Guess it's a block situation but feel bad of the guy is just being overly polite.
So when is the line from one to the other ? |
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When you feel uncomfortable. It's a personal thing. Only you can decide what that is for you.
I get that feeling about guys who don't wait for you to reply back and send 3 messages for every 1 message we send. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
When they start asking what I'm wearing or what kind of sex I'm into early on in the conversation.
One told me he could see me through my lounge window. I happened to be in my own at the time and I was totally creeped out!!  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"When they start asking what I'm wearing or what kind of sex I'm into early on in the conversation.
One told me he could see me through my lounge window. I happened to be in my own at the time and I was totally creeped out!! "
You do wonder how socially inept a person has to be to not realise how bad a comment like that is. Or was he actually in your garden?
OP, the moment I feel uncomfortable is the moment I back off. Dozens of messages, or the person getting more and more romantic put me right off. |
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over a year ago
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"When they start asking what I'm wearing or what kind of sex I'm into early on in the conversation.
One told me he could see me through my lounge window. I happened to be in my own at the time and I was totally creeped out!! "
I usually ask them what sex they are into very early on, so that I can see if they want to do stuff I don't like doing XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we all have to expect some messages that are not to our tastes, but it's the ones that when your having a nice chat and they come out the blue that throw me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, I noticed your profile and thought we could be a really great match and get along well! Please check out our profile and get back to us.
Ps, loved that dress you were wearing in Tesco's earlier.
And did you enjoy watching the new Dark Tower movie, I was sat behind you."
Might be an instant good to creepy example?? 
If by any chance you were in Tesco's and watched the Dark Tower, I swear to god this is pure coincidence!!!! |
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""Hi, I noticed your profile and thought we could be a really great match and get along well! Please check out our profile and get back to us.
Ps, loved that dress you were wearing in Tesco's earlier.
And did you enjoy watching the new Dark Tower movie, I was sat behind you."
Might be an instant good to creepy example??
If by any chance you were in Tesco's and watched the Dark Tower, I swear to god this is pure coincidence!!!! "
Wow. This guys got issues |
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This has just reminded me of a message I had off a lady a year or two back, she knew where I worked, what I did for a living and even knew the name of the boat I work on .... it was too creepy and I blocked her ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So message comes in fine , reply as it's polite .
Then another and another ....
All the time polite but slowly getting a bit heavier.
Guess it's a block situation but feel bad of the guy is just being overly polite.
So when is the line from one to the other ?"
i to be fair find the line very easy to find with me. I Don't really like guys talking to me like that. It quickly becomes creepy and uncomfortable x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When they start asking what I'm wearing or what kind of sex I'm into early on in the conversation.
One told me he could see me through my lounge window. I happened to be in my own at the time and I was totally creeped out!! "
Especially when your 26 stories up! !  |
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We seldom block, but if there are too many more messages after the 'good luck with the site' reply, we just delete them.
We find most people are quite polite, and have encountered bad abuse only occasionally..
Best wishes to all out there
Ray |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy messaged me this week normal chat then started asking how old I was when I started puberty, grew pubic hair and boobs and how old was I when I started my period and had sex.
Blocked straight away |
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