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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I'd like some advice regarding cuckolding.I finally plucked up the courage to tell my other half how turned on I would be if she went with another man.She is very very reluctant to do so as she says she would feel too guilty at fucking someone else.Ive tried explaining that she shouldnt feel guilty as it's my suggestion.Do u think I should stop asking her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try watching cuckold porn together,
Xhamster have some good stuff,
And tell her how much you enjoy it!
Maybe then, she will understand!  "
Some very good stuff on there  |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
don't push it. but when the opportunity to talk about it arises do go into detail about why you would enjoy it, phrase it in ways that you are sure won't put her off.
sometimes when we love someone we want to only be with them, we enjoy the sex no matter if it's great or not coz it's that closeness that brings you together. it can be hard to get your head round fucking someone else coz you associate sex with intimacy and bonding.
she needs to get it into her head maybe that sex can be hedonistic and selfish. |
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Tips?
Don't push her. Back off and leave the topic completely for a few months then ask her again.
She'll know then that it's a serious issue for you.
If she says no a second time I'd resign myself to it never happening as she's just not into it.
Keep pestering her and it could do real harm to your relationship.
Best of luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally get this, I'm really keen for my husband to fuck someone, it's a massive turn on for me, but I'm not keen to do it myself. I think I'd feel too guilty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You may feel ok about it but she may not want to because of how she feels about it. You saying you would like it, and that may help her, but she will wonder if your fantasy finally becomes a reality if you could react badly. It's very complex. So don't rush into anything. |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
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Try introducing a nice realistic vibrator or dildo into your bedtime fun , preferably bigger than you. Spend time gently using it , what you want is for her to orgasm stronger and better with it than with you . Once this is the case you want to make sure you orgasm before she does , then use the toy to bring her to orgasm . Repeat this over a few weeks until it almost becomes the norm , then explain to her how it turns you on so much the fact she orgasms stronger with the substitute cock than with you and how you'd love her to try another guy . |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
"Try introducing a nice realistic vibrator or dildo into your bedtime fun , preferably bigger than you. Spend time gently using it , what you want is for her to orgasm stronger and better with it than with you . Once this is the case you want to make sure you orgasm before she does , then use the toy to bring her to orgasm . Repeat this over a few weeks until it almost becomes the norm , then explain to her how it turns you on so much the fact she orgasms stronger with the substitute cock than with you and how you'd love her to try another guy . "
This has to be good advice. Not neccesarily in detail but in the though process OP needs to go through. I think there is a difference between a man who wants to see his partner with another man and a cuckold. |
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