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"Quick question.
Is it common for a wheelchair user to go to clubs. Any advice would be appreciated "
While not common, I've seen people in wheelchairs at clubs.
What sort of advice are you looking for? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Quick question.
Is it common for a wheelchair user to go to clubs. Any advice would be appreciated
While not common, I've seen people in wheelchairs at clubs.
What sort of advice are you looking for?"
Meeting people, my profile and what club's are good? |
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While I love to give advice  I am generally not much good at profile advice, since my opinions usually go contrary to everyone else's.
As far as clubs go, some are just not set up to get around in easily unless you can manage stairs, so -- maybe pick the ones that look interesting and contact them for accessibility? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"While I love to give advice I am generally not much good at profile advice, since my opinions usually go contrary to everyone else's.
As far as clubs go, some are just not set up to get around in easily unless you can manage stairs, so -- maybe pick the ones that look interesting and contact them for accessibility?"
Yeah will do. Thanks a million |
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OP most swingers clubs aren't wheelchair accessible. They are not in purpose built buildings and are usually on different levels with no lift etc.
The only one I know of that is fully accessible is quest which is owned/managed by a wheelchair user (I think). There have been other threads about this in the past so a forum search may throw up some more advice. |
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Kestrels/Abfabs is the most wheelchair accessible we've seen.
Ps. OP, read your profile and couldn't help but comment... naked skydiving sounds great but if you do. Strap the little fella to your leg 1st. Only so much flapping around at terminal velocity you want  |
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"Kestrels/Abfabs is the most wheelchair accessible we've seen.
Ps. OP, read your profile and couldn't help but comment... naked skydiving sounds great but if you do. Strap the little fella to your leg 1st. Only so much flapping around at terminal velocity you want "
Thanks for your help.
About the skydive I'll tape it good and tight.
Would you ever do one ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kestrels/Abfabs is the most wheelchair accessible we've seen.
Ps. OP, read your profile and couldn't help but comment... naked skydiving sounds great but if you do. Strap the little fella to your leg 1st. Only so much flapping around at terminal velocity you want
Thanks for your help.
About the skydive I'll tape it good and tight.
Would you ever do one ?
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Both of us would without a doubt (says he without asking her) |
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Most clubs are on different levels, the best one as mentioned is Kestrels/ Abfabs. Are we reading your post right & that your question relates to you, as there is no mention of any disability in your profile, which is a tad misleading? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kestrels/Abfabs is the most wheelchair accessible we've seen.
Ps. OP, read your profile and couldn't help but comment... naked skydiving sounds great but if you do. Strap the little fella to your leg 1st. Only so much flapping around at terminal velocity you want
Thanks for your help.
About the skydive I'll tape it good and tight.
Would you ever do one ?
Both of us would without a doubt (says he without asking her)"
Giggle here and id be up for skydiving, not sure about the naked bit though. Isn't it a bit chilly? I wouldn't want you guys to get frostbite  |
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"Most clubs are on different levels, the best one as mentioned is Kestrels/ Abfabs. Are we reading your post right & that your question relates to you, as there is no mention of any disability in your profile, which is a tad misleading? "
Well I was unsure bout putting it on there. Yes It's About me . I would tell eventually. Is that bad? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Kestrels/Abfabs is the most wheelchair accessible we've seen.
Ps. OP, read your profile and couldn't help but comment... naked skydiving sounds great but if you do. Strap the little fella to your leg 1st. Only so much flapping around at terminal velocity you want
Thanks for your help.
About the skydive I'll tape it good and tight.
Would you ever do one ?
Both of us would without a doubt (says he without asking her)
Giggle here and id be up for skydiving, not sure about the naked bit though. Isn't it a bit chilly? I wouldn't want you guys to get frostbite "
We'll wear Willy warmers. Where there's a will there's away.
Or you can rub them until we jump |
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"Just a thought do the access rules for shops and pubs etc apply to clubs?"
Yes, almost certainly, as they are probably are classed as 'Service Providers' under The Equality Act 2010. The regulations require 'reasonable adjustment', so are not obligated to make adjustments if they are unreasonable. (An interesting consideration, and not wanting to high jack the the thread, is that they may be in breach of the regulations by having different membership rates / entry fees for single males.) |
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By *icpl81Couple
over a year ago
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"Most clubs are on different levels, the best one as mentioned is Kestrels/ Abfabs. Are we reading your post right & that your question relates to you, as there is no mention of any disability in your profile, which is a tad misleading?
Well I was unsure bout putting it on there. Yes It's About me . I would tell eventually. Is that bad?"
I don't think it's bad you've not stated on your profile your a wheelchair user. I'm assuming that's not the biggest part of you? Pun not intended lol!
I'm dyslexic and don't have that on my profile! We're far more than disabilities and anyone worth an ounce of credibility won't be bothered your in a wheelchair. So what your legs don't work! If your cock works all is good. Good luck with the club visit OP xx |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Just a thought do the access rules for shops and pubs etc apply to clubs?
Yes, almost certainly, as they are probably are classed as 'Service Providers' under The Equality Act 2010. The regulations require 'reasonable adjustment', so are not obligated to make adjustments if they are unreasonable. (An interesting consideration, and not wanting to high jack the the thread, is that they may be in breach of the regulations by having different membership rates / entry fees for single males.)"
Wrong. Please at the very least do a five minute Google search before commenting on a subject that you know little about. This has even been answered many times previously on this very forum.  |
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"Most clubs are on different levels, the best one as mentioned is Kestrels/ Abfabs. Are we reading your post right & that your question relates to you, as there is no mention of any disability in your profile, which is a tad misleading?
Well I was unsure bout putting it on there. Yes It's About me . I would tell eventually. Is that bad?"
I don't see why or how it is misleading or why you need to shout about it on your profile. It's not what defines you nor wholly relevant until you decide the time is right for it to be mentioned. Happy fabbing |
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OP; if you are a wheelchair user then I think you should mention it on your profile as it is hardly a slight disability, such as dyslexia, which has no impact whatsoever during a sexual encounter
Anyway, it is your profile and you should manage it as you wish. But I would not impressed if I expected a non-disabled man and he turns up to meet with me in a wheelchair
But each to their own
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"OP; if you are a wheelchair user then I think you should mention it on your profile as it is hardly a slight disability, such as dyslexia, which has no impact whatsoever during a sexual encounter
Anyway, it is your profile and you should manage it as you wish. But I would not impressed if I expected a non-disabled man and he turns up to meet with me in a wheelchair
But each to their own
- Mrs. J -"
Oh I wouldn't turn up to a meet not having told them I was in a chair. That would be some shock.
I let them get to know me first and see if they like me.
Thanks for your advice |
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"Quick question.
Is it common for a wheelchair user to go to clubs. Any advice would be appreciated "
Liberty Elite used to have wheelchair users at some of the kink events. They can put out a ramp at the entrance and at the two steps near the bar. Getting into the hot tub is harder as there is no ramps for the steps into it. You wouldn't be able to access the few private rooms upstairs but the rest is accessible. |
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"Just a thought do the access rules for shops and pubs etc apply to clubs?
Yes, almost certainly, as they are probably are classed as 'Service Providers' under The Equality Act 2010. The regulations require 'reasonable adjustment', so are not obligated to make adjustments if they are unreasonable. (An interesting consideration, and not wanting to high jack the the thread, is that they may be in breach of the regulations by having different membership rates / entry fees for single males.)
Wrong. Please at the very least do a five minute Google search before commenting on a subject that you know little about. This has even been answered many times previously on this very forum. "
Not sure which bit you consider to be wrong, so yes, a 5 minute Google search will help you. Happy to provide links to assist. Love and peace.
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"Just a thought do the access rules for shops and pubs etc apply to clubs?
Yes, almost certainly, as they are probably are classed as 'Service Providers' under The Equality Act 2010. The regulations require 'reasonable adjustment', so are not obligated to make adjustments if they are unreasonable. (An interesting consideration, and not wanting to high jack the the thread, is that they may be in breach of the regulations by having different membership rates / entry fees for single males.)
Wrong. Please at the very least do a five minute Google search before commenting on a subject that you know little about. This has even been answered many times previously on this very forum.
Not sure which bit you consider to be wrong, so yes, a 5 minute Google search will help you. Happy to provide links to assist. Love and peace.
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Your second statement in brackets is totally incorrect
Your first statement is correct in as much as businesses have to make reasonable adjustments
Reasonable adjustments would be something like that they spend £10,000 because they have 100 wheelchair users who are their customers. It would be unreasonable for them to spend £10,000 because there is one wheelchair user who visits their store once a year
Another unreasonable example would be that a building is torn down and rebuilt because they have 1,000 wheelchair users but there is no practical way to provide them with access unless the building is torn down and rebuilt with them in mind
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No. If they did then the majority would have to shut down. 