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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You get chatting to someone gets all flirty. Swap pictures all good still. Arrange to meet then it all goes wrong. No replies then either suddenly blocked or hidden profile. Is it just me ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normal- no
Rude-yes
Regular occuance on fabs......YES!
Don't take it personaly.... just perservere and move on, there are a lot of great people on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's quite common. They don't want to meet, they want something to wank over, because it's a man and not the woman you thought you were talking to.
Or, she wants attention but not the sex, for whatever reason.
Or, she doesn't find your pics attractive enough to want sex with you. |
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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago
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I've been stood up half a dozen times in the last couple of years by various women I've contacted on various sites (including some who contacted me first). It is annoyingly common, yes. Sometimes I did meet them on the 2nd or 3rd attempt, so at least I know those were actually female!
Some are shy fantasists who just don't have the balls to go through with it. OK, the females don't have balls, but that might be part of the problem, less testosterone-fuelled motivation! And women don't need to try very hard to get meets, so some are less likey to take precautions against mishaps (like checking your frigging diary for other appointments first, or NOT going out on a shopping trip to another town a couple of hours before the meet...)
There might be some who stand guys up maliciously, but I expect it's mostly carelessness.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are just after pics / sex chat. You need to learn to spot the signs unfortunately."
Thanks but at the moment I can't spot the signs. Have seen a few fake profiles as not on here for more than a couple of hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks but at the moment I can't spot the signs. "
Nothing is set in stone! ....but I'll only show interest in people who are site supporters, have been photo verified, have recent verifications, or who have been verified by friends or been to places I know of. I won't entertain newbies at all, which may be harsh but mostly they are only here for a look. Yes, fab is a funny place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get chatting to someone gets all flirty. Swap pictures all good still. Arrange to meet then it all goes wrong. No replies then either suddenly blocked or hidden profile. Is it just me ?"
ive cut contact many times with couples and guys as there version of pre meet chat just put me off. Could you be getting too keen??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes but less so on this site. On a different site we had three no shows in three weeks  "
I don't even get that . As soon as it comes to chatting about meeting ignore and block  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you know they are women and genine photos?
Exactly I don't that's what the annoying thing is where do they get the pictures from ?"
Tinternet. The amount of unverified male profiles I see with pictures of them playing with females is crazy. I always thought they needed consent. |
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By *lg1000Couple
over a year ago
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"Yes but less so on this site. On a different site we had three no shows in three weeks
I don't even get that . As soon as it comes to chatting about meeting ignore and block "
Two just stopped responding and the other hand the check to text three hours later to say he was horny and could he come round! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We suffered the same problem and got wise to pic hunters.
So now, we have 6 public photos and no other photos. So 99% of random incoming friend requests have stopped along with messages asking for more photos.
We don't do face pics (that's the who point in being discreet), we travel a max an hour away for a meet and we mainly just visit clubs. A meet off this site is just classed as a bonus. |
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