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Why does no one reply to my messages
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you'd messaged me, which I fully appreciate you haven't, my non-reply would be due to your photos and your profile. Why anyone else doesn't respond, I couldn't say. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"What will make that change then? Starting to feel like an ugly fuck"
Make your profile interesting and get some decent pics, all I can tell just now, is your a cock....is that all you are? |
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"What will make that change then? Starting to feel like an ugly fuck"
I'm sure you're not ugly but your profile isn't terribly appealing if I'm honest - remember that most folk view the profile before reading the message and so it needs to be the best representation of you that you can make it. Good tip: read profiles before messaging to make sure you match what they're looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you reply to 40 messages from women with no profile pic or anything interesting in their profile? Let alone meet them?
You are the shop window....would you be attracted to your profile?
Plus we all have preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type  "
Spend some time writing your profile in better detail. What your looking for, what you have to offer etc. And perhaps take some more appealing pics other than 2 hairy cock pics. Hope this helps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type "
OP Approximately how many times since you joined the site have your messages been ignored of rejected?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I'll add more photos then but other than the photos what's wrong with my profile? "
More photos yes, but not of your cock! Try some body shots, bum, semi naked etc.
You need to rewrite your profile, or certainly add to it. It is currently bland and boring. Your profile is your shop window, sell yourself.
Sadly (for you) your age will go against you for many people, but nothing you can do about that. Also remember this isn't instashag...it's a swinging site, and people like the social side to so like to meet people who they have things in common with.
Good luck
Poppy |
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"Oh I'll add more photos then but other than the photos what's wrong with my profile? "
Everything.... Pics are awful, not much about you, no profile pic, no fun.
I'm surprised you got any replies to even say no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type "
Hello mate, I'm no expert but I'd start by getting rid of the two photos, one is at an unflattering angle and the other just looks untidy, your bedding looks a mess and you've got white socks on and black boxers, girls see these details. Try and take some better photos and go from there. |
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"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type
Hello mate, I'm no expert but I'd start by getting rid of the two photos, one is at an unflattering angle and the other just looks untidy, your bedding looks a mess and you've got white socks on and black boxers, girls see these details. Try and take some better photos and go from there. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type
OP Approximately how many times since you joined the site have your messages been ignored of rejected? "
Two days no reply.....
Now I know what its like to be ignored  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type
OP Approximately how many times since you joined the site have your messages been ignored of rejected?
Two days no reply.....
Now I know what its like to be ignored "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you'd messaged me, which I fully appreciate you haven't, my non-reply would be due to your photos and your profile. Why anyone else doesn't respond, I couldn't say. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type
OP Approximately how many times since you joined the site have your messages been ignored of rejected?
Two days no reply.....
Now I know what its like to be ignored "
sorry I didn't check the thread! But all the time I either get ignored completely or get told to send a face pic then bam they disappear like Houdini |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1.Your gender
2.Your age
3.Your profile
Two of them you can't change, but one you can"
Why would my gender be the reason if they're looking for men?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Every couple or female I message either don't reply and say I'm not their type
Hello mate, I'm no expert but I'd start by getting rid of the two photos, one is at an unflattering angle and the other just looks untidy, your bedding looks a mess and you've got white socks on and black boxers, girls see these details. Try and take some better photos and go from there. "
lmao cheers mate, I just added these one and didn't know what people thought and obviously they suck too! What kind of pictures should I upload then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh I'll add more photos then but other than the photos what's wrong with my profile?
More photos yes, but not of your cock! Try some body shots, bum, semi naked etc.
You need to rewrite your profile, or certainly add to it. It is currently bland and boring. Your profile is your shop window, sell yourself.
Sadly (for you) your age will go against you for many people, but nothing you can do about that. Also remember this isn't instashag...it's a swinging site, and people like the social side to so like to meet people who they have things in common with.
Good luck
Poppy"
Thanks I'll update my profile now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile does need work, but try meeting people at social events it gets your face out there. Fab isn't easy for single guys and your very young, which isn't a problem,unless like us we won't meet anybody our children's age or younger. Just keep trying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1.Your gender
2.Your age
3.Your profile
Two of them you can't change, but one you can
Why would my gender be the reason if they're looking for men? "
Because you are a single male in a sea of thousands per female and couples so u will have to stand out |
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