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Hi all.
We have been "playing now" for just over a year, in clubs in uk and Amsterdam.
In the last few weeks things have ramped up.... we had our first mmf and mfmf on the same night.
I (mr) loved watching her get fingered and her pussy ate so much..... she also got so horny gobbled the guys cock and made him cum in under a minute, this is something she said she would never been into..
She now wants to watch me fuck a girl again something she said she wouldn't want to see.
My question is ...... is this the natural progression with swinging you want more and more.
I loved watching her with another guy, but I see some seasoned swingers only swap girls...... r we the more extreme side of swinging or is this the norm. |
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"Hi all.
We have been "playing now" for just over a year, in clubs in uk and Amsterdam.
In the last few weeks things have ramped up.... we had our first mmf and mfmf on the same night.
I (mr) loved watching her get fingered and her pussy ate so much..... she also got so horny gobbled the guys cock and made him cum in under a minute, this is something she said she would never been into..
She now wants to watch me fuck a girl again something she said she wouldn't want to see.
My question is ...... is this the natural progression with swinging you want more and more.
I loved watching her with another guy, but I see some seasoned swingers only swap girls...... r we the more extreme side of swinging or is this the norm."
It's not natural no,but seemed to be natural for you guys and fair play. Lots of factors determine how that situation could have gone down. |
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I'd say there is no 'norm' , different people like different things. Some start by just watching and being watched and that's all they ever do. Others do more different things over time.
What you are describing isn't unusual. People realise they like things and aren't bothered by things they thought they might be.
So long as you and your playmates are having fun, go for it xx |
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WE started out a year ago, wanting to find a girl so I could watch sarah with her. She mainly done it for me.
I just find when u change your profile and add meets and tick the "M" box you have come a long way...
But yes very exciting, just hoping it's not too much for a married couple with kids |
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"WE started out a year ago, wanting to find a girl so I could watch sarah with her. She mainly done it for me.
I just find when u change your profile and add meets and tick the "M" box you have come a long way...
But yes very exciting, just hoping it's not too much for a married couple with kids"
I would say the largest group of people swinging is married couples with kids.
Just do what you are happy with. There is no target point of what you should be doing. |
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over a year ago
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The norm is
When you start you actually have no fuckin idea what you will be in to
So you start somewhere .and evolve. and work out what turns you both on
Thats what happened with us and it sounds very familiar with your experiance |
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"Hi all.
We have been "playing now" for just over a year, in clubs in uk and Amsterdam.
In the last few weeks things have ramped up.... we had our first mmf and mfmf on the same night.
I (mr) loved watching her get fingered and her pussy ate so much..... she also got so horny gobbled the guys cock and made him cum in under a minute, this is something she said she would never been into..
She now wants to watch me fuck a girl again something she said she wouldn't want to see.
My question is ...... is this the natural progression with swinging you want more and more.
I loved watching her with another guy, but I see some seasoned swingers only swap girls...... r we the more extreme side of swinging or is this the norm."
This is swinging, there is no "norm".
Some like to play as a couple in 4sums, some couples like just the woman to play, some couples like to play with single fems, or single guys, some like to attend orgies where anything goes with anyone, and some just like to watch from the sidelines.
I could go on, but I think I've made my point... it's "your" fun time, do what you want, with whomever you want, so long as you are BOTH happy.  |
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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago
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Can anyone define what normal is? Most folks consider this isn't normal to start with, though we all seem to think it is  As others have said, if you are happy and enjoying then it is normal for you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The norm is
When you start you actually have no fuckin idea what you will be in to
So you start somewhere .and evolve. and work out what turns you both on
Thats what happened with us and it sounds very familiar with your experiance "
This exactly it |
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Society tells us husband and wife in bed lights out quick how's ya father once a week is "normal"
Who really wants normal????
I suspect no one!! I suspect most people secretly would wanna try this scene and enjoy all the sensations your body has to offer but are to scared of not being "normal"
Did you both enjoy it? Did it feel good and both wanna do it again? Who is it hurting?
If it feels good do it, there it's now become normal to you and to all the other thousands of normal people on here!!
Now I just need to convince my wife the same thing lol ??
She can't let society's expectations of what's expected of her go I think.
You two have found each other and both like the same things your very lucky now go and enjoy!!!!!!
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"Hi all.
We have been "playing now" for just over a year, in clubs in uk and Amsterdam.
In the last few weeks things have ramped up.... we had our first mmf and mfmf on the same night.
I (mr) loved watching her get fingered and her pussy ate so much..... she also got so horny gobbled the guys cock and made him cum in under a minute, this is something she said she would never been into..
She now wants to watch me fuck a girl again something she said she wouldn't want to see.
My question is ...... is this the natural progression with swinging you want more and more.
I loved watching her with another guy, but I see some seasoned swingers only swap girls...... r we the more extreme side of swinging or is this the norm."
Just wait until you've been swinging for six years , and have experienced pretty much everything imaginable !
We had no idea we would be into the things we now enjoy .
We are , ( and always have been ) of the mindset that if we fancy trying something , we do it . No regrets , no ifs and buts , and if we like it we do it again .
We now meet tgirls , groups , and all manner of scenarios which didn't even occur to us when we started .
We are probably now seen as being extereme , but we don't see ourselves as such . We are just open minded hedonists who love what we do .  |
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There is no "normal".
Everyone does things their own way and progresses as and if the feel comfortable to other situations.
We are probably quite unusual in that we did full swap on our very first club visit and had a 6 person group session not thst long after.
As long as you both enjoy what you are doing, that's all that matters.
Have fun 
Nita |
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"WE started out a year ago, wanting to find a girl so I could watch sarah with her. She mainly done it for me.
I just find when u change your profile and add meets and tick the "M" box you have come a long way...
But yes very exciting, just hoping it's not too much for a married couple with kids"
It's only 'too much ' when one of you starts to feel unhappy/uncomfortable with the progression or feels coerced into it! If that isn't the case, and from what you're saying I imagine it isn't - just keep communicating well with each other and have as much fun/variety as you both think is right!
Peachy |
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"WE started out a year ago, wanting to find a girl so I could watch sarah with her. She mainly done it for me.
I just find when u change your profile and add meets and tick the "M" box you have come a long way...
But yes very exciting, just hoping it's not too much for a married couple with kids"
Your progression is almost exactly the same as ours.
We've met other couples along the way though who moved much faster than us, and some that have gone much slower. What's right for one couple may not be what's right for another but if what you're doing 'feels' right, then run with it.
Seems like you're at a very exciting point in your adventures. good for you, hope it continues
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"Hi all.
We have been "playing now" for just over a year, in clubs in uk and Amsterdam.
In the last few weeks things have ramped up.... we had our first mmf and mfmf on the same night.
I (mr) loved watching her get fingered and her pussy ate so much..... she also got so horny gobbled the guys cock and made him cum in under a minute, this is something she said she would never been into..
She now wants to watch me fuck a girl again something she said she wouldn't want to see.
My question is ...... is this the natural progression with swinging you want more and more.
I loved watching her with another guy, but I see some seasoned swingers only swap girls...... r we the more extreme side of swinging or is this the norm."
What's Extreme in swinging, swinging is there to be enjoyed how you guys like it.
You can tailor it to your niches & desires with many like minded people so think of it as an adventure & don't label yourself.
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You will tend to have "conservative" agreements re. swinging as you start - then sense the overall terrain of swinging plus your own natural desires revealing themselves - and you "re-negotiate" your swinging relationship understanding.
It is almost inevitable you will come to this juncture? It is very "normal"?
Throwing out "soft swing only", both saying "fuck it!" and each performing coitus with a stranger, side by side on one bed, is a common earlish juncture. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Personally I don't feel there is a norm, if things feel right to both of you and your communication is in line with your expectations of each other, that is all good in my opinion.
I think you have to find your own normal, and own acceptable for your personal dynamic. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Meeting as a single is so difficult - I'm surprised you haven't been meeting as a couple. The majority of people I have ever met have been in mmf situations. It's been very casual, very entertaining, very enlightening, though rules still apply whoever it is you're meeting. If you don't like someone you don't have to have sex with them, similarly if someone is shagging like they've never seen a woman before, there is no harm communicating it to them - and vice versa. I'm surprised it's taken a year. |
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"We started with a list of no no's as long as your arm, that got shredded pretty quickly lol lol that's seems to be us what is happening with us...."
I guess we are becoming more relaxed and easy going, either that or widening our field lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say there is no 'norm' , different people like different things. Some start by just watching and being watched and that's all they ever do. Others do more different things over time.
What you are describing isn't unusual. People realise they like things and aren't bothered by things they thought they might be.
The 'norm' is anything that you enjoy and are comfortable with.
So long as you and your playmates are having fun, go for it xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"WE started out a year ago, wanting to find a girl so I could watch sarah with her. She mainly done it for me.
I just find when u change your profile and add meets and tick the "M" box you have come a long way...
But yes very exciting, just hoping it's not too much for a married couple with kids
It's only 'too much ' when one of you starts to feel unhappy/uncomfortable with the progression or feels coerced into it! If that isn't the case, and from what you're saying I imagine it isn't - just keep communicating well with each other and have as much fun/variety as you both think is right!
Peachy "
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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One person's norm could be anothers kink. The ever evolving eroticism of fab. Don't question it, enjoy it. Boundaries and limits are being expanded by you both happily. I am a mother, a daughter, a sister, a partner and a swinger |
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"Hi all.
We have been "playing now" for just over a year, in clubs in uk and Amsterdam.
In the last few weeks things have ramped up.... we had our first mmf and mfmf on the same night.
I (mr) loved watching her get fingered and her pussy ate so much..... she also got so horny gobbled the guys cock and made him cum in under a minute, this is something she said she would never been into..
She now wants to watch me fuck a girl again something she said she wouldn't want to see.
My question is ...... is this the natural progression with swinging you want more and more.
I loved watching her with another guy, but I see some seasoned swingers only swap girls...... r we the more extreme side of swinging or is this the norm."
We both love mmf and ffm. It helps that watching each other is a major turn on, the downside being single females are few and far between and wrongly some couples see them and treat them as toys. Any 3some in any form should be pleasurable for all parties involved. |
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