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By *azz26 OP Woman
over a year ago
wrexham |
Ok so I have been feeling under the weather for last few weeks and made the big decision to wee on a stick this evening......blue line confirming that I am pregnant.
Mixed emotions at the moment of shock and happiness.
I am ready for the Fab Police condemning etc but when should I stop meeting? Now, at 3 months, 6 months, full term?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aww congratulations.
It's your body.
Sex when pregnant is amazing, once you get over morning sickness.
An at the end I recommend having sex, to start the labour off works better than pineapple an what ever over old wife tales they tell you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hope its a good surprise for both of you.
This may sound a little strange but I knew before my wife that she was pregnant and had this thing at the back of my head that I may in some way hurt the baby having sex while inside her so there was no sex between us until a while after she had given birth.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were meeting up till 7 months.
Had to start tern in down meets.
I was pregnant with twins though and they were lying in such a way I was permanently horny.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what feels right for you, OP 
Just be extra careful with condoms tho as picking up an STD whilst pregnant can have massive impact on baby's health - condoms for oral too unless with very trusted partner I would recommend 
And congratulations! Having a new baby is a lovely thing! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Congratulations
On my you and your partner should decide. You're still you, pregnancy is not an illness and as long as you stay safe then ignore the negative judgemental police on here. |
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"Ok so I have been feeling under the weather for last few weeks and made the big decision to wee on a stick this evening......blue line confirming that I am pregnant.
Mixed emotions at the moment of shock and happiness.
I am ready for the Fab Police condemning etc but when should I stop meeting? Now, at 3 months, 6 months, full term?
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First, congratulations!
Second, do what you like! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Congratulations!! If go by how you are feeling!pregnancy can be a mixed bag of emotions. Like someone said make sure you are EXTRA careful protection wise including oral as a lot of who's can be passed to baby!
But congratulations!!hope you are feeling ok xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Congratulations!! If go by how you are feeling!pregnancy can be a mixed bag of emotions. Like someone said make sure you are EXTRA careful protection wise including oral as a lot of who's can be passed to baby!
But congratulations!!hope you are feeling ok xx"
Thanks auto correct . Who=sti's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Congratulations!
Along with the others it's your body do what you feel is right, just be extra careful. For me personally my sex drive was next to 0 when I was pregnant, but all women are different X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who you are playing with. If you're meeting a regular partner and you are confident of negative STI status then I'd say enjoy.
Personally I'd avoid meeting new partners while pregnant, putting yourself at risk. And I don't care what precautions you take, nothing is 100%.
Some infections can pass to your baby through the placenta or be transmitted during labor and delivery or when your water breaks. Newborn infections can be very serious (even life threatening), and some may lead to long-term irreversible health and developmental problems. What's more, some STIs raise your risk of miscarriage, preterm premature rupture of the membranes (PPROM), preterm birth, uterine infection, and stillbirth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was going to add my thoughts but hey I'm a guy what do I know,
I do happen to think there is nothing more beautiful than a woman carrying a child.
Congratulations good luck and hope all goes well for you xxxxx |
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By *azz26 OP Woman
over a year ago
wrexham |
"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves  ."
Ummmmm no I don't but didnt we meet about 5 or 6 weeks ago?!!
In all seriousness yes I do know the father as we have been together for a considerable length of time. |
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"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves ."
WHAT!!!!
I'm sure the OP is aware who dad is! Can't believe someone would write this!  |
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"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .
Ummmmm no I don't but didnt we meet about 5 or 6 weeks ago?!!
In all seriousness yes I do know the father as we have been together for a considerable length of time."
haha. |
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"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .
WHAT!!!!
I'm sure the OP is aware who dad is! Can't believe someone would write this! "
really that shocks you.shelterd life you must lead lol. |
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"Depends who you are playing with. If you're meeting a regular partner and you are confident of negative STI status then I'd say enjoy.
Personally I'd avoid meeting new partners while pregnant, putting yourself at risk. And I don't care what precautions you take, nothing is 100%.
Some infections can pass to your baby through the placenta or be transmitted during labor and delivery or when your water breaks. Newborn infections can be very serious (even life threatening), and some may lead to long-term irreversible health and developmental problems. What's more, some STIs raise your risk of miscarriage, preterm premature rupture of the membranes (PPROM), preterm birth, uterine infection, and stillbirth."
Sorry to be a killjoy but this really!
Sounds old fashioned but bringing a life into the world is the most important job anyone can ever have, and it's important to do everything you can to give a child the best chance possible!
My views on (full) swinging during pregnancy are exactly the same as my views on smoking, drinking or drug taking during pregnancy - i.e. All just not worth the risk!
Congratulations op! Being a parent is amazing! |
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"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .
WHAT!!!!
I'm sure the OP is aware who dad is! Can't believe someone would write this! really that shocks you.shelterd life you must lead lol."
Who said I was shocked? I think you are plain rude asking a woman if she knows who the father of her baby is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .
Ummmmm no I don't but didnt we meet about 5 or 6 weeks ago?!!
In all seriousness yes I do know the father as we have been together for a considerable length of time."
Does he know your on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Congrats.do you know who the father is.with it being a surpprise and all there may be a couple of past meets reading this and shitting themselves .
Ummmmm no I don't but didnt we meet about 5 or 6 weeks ago?!!
In all seriousness yes I do know the father as we have been together for a considerable length of time.
Does he know your on here "
*high five Clitty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Congratulations!
I think it's up to you whether you want to play or not and how long you want to keep playing for. Just listen to your body. I'm 26 weeks along and probably going to stop meeting soon. Sex during pregnancy can be very, very good with the extra sensitivity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Congratulations!
I think it's up to you whether you want to play or not and how long you want to keep playing for. Just listen to your body. I'm 26 weeks along and probably going to stop meeting soon. Sex during pregnancy can be very, very good with the extra sensitivity. "
And partner surely? Don't fathers, husbands matter anymore |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Congratulations!
I think it's up to you whether you want to play or not and how long you want to keep playing for. Just listen to your body. I'm 26 weeks along and probably going to stop meeting soon. Sex during pregnancy can be very, very good with the extra sensitivity. "
congratulations to you as well x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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To the OP, I think I must be old school as I personally think the safety of your baby should be more important.
Yes I know sex is OK for most women when pregnant, but STD's are not and if you are sleeping with multiple people while swinging you don't know whether you will catch one or not even with safe sex.
So the answer for me would be, congratulations, but think of the safety of your baby and I think now is the time to stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To the OP, I think I must be old school as I personally think the safety of your baby should be more important.
Yes I know sex is OK for most women when pregnant, but STD's are not and if you are sleeping with multiple people while swinging you don't know whether you will catch one or not even with safe sex.
So the answer for me would be, congratulations, but think of the safety of your baby and I think now is the time to stop."
Agree...9 months is a short period in your life and emotions always change as your body goes through preparing a new.life. Your immune system is also slightly down, infections are easier to pick up so I would stop in the meantime personally. |
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