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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.
Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.
Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? "
Could be either/or. Not everyone deletes. Some ppl reply days after |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised. |
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Yes I had it to don't worry to much what will be will be just trying to make friends and chat buddy's but at end of the day it's there choice to talk or not.
Also got a block for saying a profile picture was nice ?? Wow !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised."
That sounds like a really good idea actually. |
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The Fab inbox only displays the most recent 75 messages received so it could have dropped off and won't reappear until they delete newer messages. A frequent problem we have trying to find messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The Fab inbox only displays the most recent 75 messages received so it could have dropped off and won't reappear until they delete newer messages. A frequent problem we have trying to find messages. "
That makes a lot of sense. So say if my message is number 76, once they delete the first 75, mine will go to the top? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.
Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? "
Don't overthink padwan. *Can't believe me, of all people has just said that to somebody! |
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"The Fab inbox only displays the most recent 75 messages received so it could have dropped off and won't reappear until they delete newer messages. A frequent problem we have trying to find messages.
That makes a lot of sense. So say if my message is number 76, once they delete the first 75, mine will go to the top?"
It could be that reason or it could be that they're already having conversations with a few people already about meets so haven't got around to replying to other messages.
Could be a whole host of reasons sadly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.
Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it?
Don't overthink padwan. *Can't believe me, of all people has just said that to somebody!"
I have a problem with overthinking, I really need to break that habit. Just trying to get the lay on the land, once I get it all sussed out I should be alright. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised."
Why didn't anyone tell me that little beauty.. they let me go mad! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.
Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it?
Don't overthink padwan. *Can't believe me, of all people has just said that to somebody!
I have a problem with overthinking, I really need to break that habit. Just trying to get the lay on the land, once I get it all sussed out I should be alright."
It's not that easy lol... remember the advice I gave you. live that advice. and you will figure out the rest. Then you know what you will become. Life first, Fab Second. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.
Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it?
But I'll cryptically leave you with the words.. don't overthink it still. it doesn't make any sense.. till you've figured it out
Don't overthink padwan. *Can't believe me, of all people has just said that to somebody!
I have a problem with overthinking, I really need to break that habit. Just trying to get the lay on the land, once I get it all sussed out I should be alright.
It's not that easy lol... remember the advice I gave you. live that advice. and you will figure out the rest. Then you know what you will become. Life first, Fab Second."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised."
Yup this is what I do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.
Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? "
if they read it give them one day if they don't reply don't message them they are not interested just block them n move on that's what I do n I am happy with the result lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.
Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? if they read it give them one day if they don't reply don't message them they are not interested just block them n move on that's what I do n I am happy with the result lol"
Don't block them! Don't block anyone. Unless they are crossing the line for you. You may be unknowingly mailing some big fish.. who like games.. learn to swim first |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"The Fab inbox only displays the most recent 75 messages received so it could have dropped off and won't reappear until they delete newer messages. A frequent problem we have trying to find messages. "
I didnt know that! I had alwats just assumed tbe other persin had blooming pages and pages. Im hoping my last message to someone still makes it then. Was in the middle of a nice convo. |
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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago
Staines |
"Number one tip for your sanity: once you've sent the message, delete it from your sent box. Then you won't be mithering about what it means, and if you get a reply you'll be pleasantly surprised."
This 100% |
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By *omeo1stMan
over a year ago
Littlehampton |
"I've been here a few weeks now and I've noticed that messages I've sent have been read, but not deleted. I'm just wondering if there's a reason for that.
Does it mean they're interested in talking at some point or they've just forgotten to delete it? "
If a message that I send gets deleted within days or I get a 'Thanks but no thank you' reply, I leave myself a private note on here saying 'Not interested, do not contact again'.
This works for me. Many women/couples receive so many messages that any message I might send could potentially get lost amongst the masses and never actually get read.
I have re-messaged people who never opened my message many months later and then received positive replies and resultant meets. |
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