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Stretch marks and a mummy tum
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! |
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Absolutely not a problem they are very sexy in my eyes xx |
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There's always someone who'll dislike anything, but in our few years of fun on here we've never met anyone who has been bothered by the stretches and wobbles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Bothered?? Surely you mean blessed to have the privilege of enjoying them in all their glory?? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think for me they are my biggest insecurity, and I just had a man comment nothing negative and it's just thrown me a little so was just curious if it was a thing or not. X |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
I think you will most guys are not 100% perfect either. They are a part of life and nothing to worry about
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love them personally,
Nothing wrong with a lady who gained her stripes x |
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Not bothered at all. In fact, I quite like it all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all so much X |
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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago
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Must say I've never had any problems with mine |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
Essex |
Love yummy mummies however they come your usually attracted to someone before you see them naked aren't you |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i've had 5 kids, nobody is bothered really. if they are they don't say anything. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've only ever had them some having children with my husband, never really thought about what other men may think of them until us joining this site, it wasn't until just moments ago someone made a comment so I thought I would just get a little insight to how people felt etc I do know we all have presences and I would never be offended if I wasn't someone's. X |
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I have had 2 kids and call them my tiger stripes i earned them and im proud of them if any man disliked them i would just say well go find somone else then lol |
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Honestly a real woman's body is the sexiest thing in the world. Be proud. I've looked, you really should be  . X |
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Its not something id go hunting for. It might put me off if i didn't know the woman to be honest. But if we click i don't really mind what she looks like. |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Not at all. Looking at your profile pics you have nothing to worry about, very hot body! Loving the pics and trying to stay... 'calm' whilst on a break at work here!
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Mummy tummy is sexy and shouts real woman to me (male half). I love them |
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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
There's nothing to be bothered about imo. Everyone has something they dislike about themselves, but that's what makes you you.
Wear it with pride....you look great to me  |
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I've had a fuckwit troll try to put me down on here and I've had someone ask about them but the men I actually sleep with have never said anything expect how hot and beautiful I was so it's all good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The majority have lumps bumps and everything else that goes with having a human body. Be comfortable in your own skin and block out the negativity.  |
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"I think for me they are my biggest insecurity, and I just had a man comment nothing negative and it's just thrown me a little so was just curious if it was a thing or not. X "
For me it liking the person. That way you find the fun is so much bett.er
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love them, part of wat makes you individual. |
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"Mummy tummy is sexy and shouts real woman to me (male half). I love them "
I couldn't have children so I don't have stetch marks,I agree it's make's me less of a 'real' woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mummy tummy is sexy and shouts real woman to me (male half). I love them
I couldn't have children so I don't have stetch marks,I agree it's make's me less of a 'real' woman."
Hell no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just be in the best shape you can be. If you look after yourself and maintain the things you can maintain I promise you the things you cannot change will only increase your attractiveness. Most of the time it's the things that we can easily maintain that get mixed-up with the things we can't and we are left feeling like our blemishes are due to our own efforts, or we feel ugly because we're not doing anything for ourselves. You've earned your tigress stripes bringing life into the world. You're a mum! That's huge in our eyes. Just stay in your best shape so you feel good about yourself because realistically, there's a difference between blemishes and just not looking after ourselves. I love mum bods! |
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"Mummy tummy is sexy and shouts real woman to me (male half). I love them
I couldn't have children so I don't have stetch marks,I agree it's make's me less of a 'real' woman.
Hell no "
 whoever said men will tell you anything for a leg-over! |
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"Mummy tummy is sexy and shouts real woman to me (male half). I love them
I couldn't have children so I don't have stetch marks,I agree it's make's me less of a 'real' woman.
Hell no
whoever said men will tell you anything for a leg-over!"
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"Mummy tummy" and stretch-marks are fine. in fact quite like them - so with other posters on that.
In the reality of swinging you get mainly "lived in" bodies - and that's absolutely fine - we are "all in the same boat together".
At the naturist place we go, one of the things is "tummy-rubbing" - well-developed mummy-tummys get a caress and rubbing. Many ladies simply open their gowns and say "Go on then, get on with it!". They are often a bit in askance, as they don't think their stretched-out tummy is an attractive feature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have loads and the mum tum (fat anyway then 3 big pregnancies) it doesn't make me any more of a real woman than someone who has them. They are just soemthing I have and have to deal with. No one has mentioned them and theyare pretty obvious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one has ever commented on mine...and any guy that comes out with the "real woman" bullshit line finds our communication goes no further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one has ever commented on mine...and any guy that comes out with the "real woman" bullshit line finds our communication goes no further. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
I've meet a few ladies with different shape mum bods. & what I found really sexy was the way they presented themselves & their body confidence. Not everyone including men can have the magazine model body but if u can rock a sexy outfit & project a sexy confident vide ofcourse you will attract the opposite sex |
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I have stretch marks & a CS scar.
At first I thought my body was ruined, until I realised what those marks meant, the lives produced that caused them.
3 amazing children.
Now I wear my scars with pride |
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We love yummy mummies!
Us mummies have gone through labour or cesareans to bring beautiful young people into the world! This is a part of who we are, if you are happy in yourself and your hubby thinks your attractive, you shouldn't have to worry what others think!
From our experiences people love a mummy tummy. I am very cautious of my scar and stretch marks,but people have never said anything about it. If they did they would be blocked of kicked out the house!
You have an amazing body, you should be proud! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Aww thank you so much, such a positive way to be! You inspire me ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank ou so much for the comment really is appreciated xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say i quite like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Embrace it. It's you |
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I've not yet met anyone who is at all bothered by my stretch marks and mum tum.
Some men really like it.
Very few women manage to have a flat stretch mark free stomach after being pregnant. Embrace your unique tiger stripes
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Mr here,
Nothing wrong with with you. My Mrs is bbw. Everybody has their own preferences. Personally I only go for bbw types and certainly nobody under a size 20. But each to their own. You certainly have nothing to worry about |
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I have stretch marks as I used to be a bigger girl! I wasn't blessed with having children unfortunately. But, I believe... making the most of yourself and not letting the stuff you can't change getting in the way! Embrace your bodies - only one we have after all xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Real men aren't bothered by real women. Don't know about the others. I would try not to worry if I were you, you should rightly be proud of that mum tum. It's gorgeous!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe once upon a time. But i think they're actually appreciated these days. I have them and do feel conscious. But in reality who actually cares x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me one bit |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks you so much ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is what I thought and I hadn't really thought about it before fab as the hubby has gone through all my new changes! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you so much really good to see that men are not bothered by a real women's body X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you so much, I know we all have to have a certain attraction I just wasn't sure if a mummy tum or stretch marks would actually put men off or not xx |
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"Thank you so much, I know we all have to have a certain attraction I just wasn't sure if a mummy tum or stretch marks would actually put men off or not xx "
not at all - not in a Million years
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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago
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Mum Tums and Dad Bods ftw! |
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Wifey has both and she was a little self conscious about them before we started swinging but if anything her body confidence has grown since doing this. None of the guys we've played with have seemed remotely bothered by hers and it certainly doesn't bother me seeing them on women that I've played with.
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Your pictures look great. You've an incredibly sexy body with some great 'assets' Everyone has body issues, don't get hung up on them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you so much, I know we all have to have a certain attraction I just wasn't sure if a mummy tum or stretch marks would actually put men off or not xx "
Well you have your answer now go and have fun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You are all just brilliant,once again thank you for your opinions to each of you that have commented!
Happy fabbing brilliant lot ?????? |
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"You are all just brilliant,once again thank you for your opinions to each of you that have commented!
Happy fabbing brilliant lot ??????"
Thanks id say im never put off by stretchmarks or mummy tummies as you should wear them with pride as it proves your decent mums and badges of honour for going through what women have to do to continue our species your all amazing and nothing to be ashamed of xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got away with the stripes but I had cacearen and was left with the tummy - overhang scar. It's my main hangup!!
But in my time here, the only person bothered is me! Still have to keep it covered during play! |
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By *wingsingMan
over a year ago
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I like them. I echo a lot of what has been said above. I find them sexy and very natural. Love your profile too. Happy swinging x |
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I have to admit my stomach is the one part of my body I'd consider having surgery upon because I hate it that much. I don't mind the stretchmarks at all but it's the 'deflated balloon' effect on my skin I can't bear because diet can't touch that and I feel I have to apologise and/or warn people about it 
However, I do have to say that this thread has been very positive and encouraging which I'm obviously pleased to see. |
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By *ason.Man
over a year ago
west yorkshire |
As a naturist seen many different tummys over the years
And there is nothing off putting about mummy tummy or scars
More natural to me
It's the same as boobs
Much prefer the natural saggy boobs to fake stuck on look
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Don't be body conscious next holiday try a nudist beach
Find out for yourself change the way you think about yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
I find them incredibly sexy. They are who you are and what you are made of and who you are.. I used to caress my ex's mummy tum and kiss her stretch marks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate my body . My stretch marks. I've lost lots of weight work out and the mummy tummy is still there so are the stretch marks. I don't have mirrors around so I can't see it. Some days I beat myself up about it. It didn't help with my partner not having sex with me but going online looking at picture of women . Then I found him using fab look for sex |
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By *ason.Man
over a year ago
west yorkshire |
That's so sad to hear you feel that way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
I'm sure most men would love a perfect slender model body to look at but in reality we are all "normal" ladies stretched marked or not try not to worry too much about it or let it affect you, your a beautiful lady xx |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Definitely not, I like to kiss a nice mummy tummy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not a problem they are very sexy in my eyes xx"
That's what I was going to say as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had 2 kids and call them my tiger stripes i earned them and im proud of them if any man disliked them i would just say well go find somone else then lol"
Absolutely fantastic I've never heard them described like that but agree totally. "Tiger stripes" are part of life and show a woman has given the greatest gift, a gift of life, no one should fear them be proud of them xxxxx
( I almost wrote then "their grrreat" think cereal advert)
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A lot of men have stretch marks too. I believe it's something like 40% of the male population. Of course some people will find them offputting, while others might not care or may even find them attractive.
I have them on my stomach and thighs, through being overweight. But I have quite a few on my shoulders too, and there's no fat up there. I like to think of them as a natural adornment: like tiger stripes, or a tattoo that nature chose to give me. In fact, I've seen a recent trend to have them coloured in by a tattooist.
I've never had anyone even comment on mine, unless I've prompted them to do so. I can get a bit self-conscious about them in photos though. Camera flash really tends to highlight them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a women would be happy to have fun with me why would I stand there and criticise her beautiful naked body. |
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I've had this troll business too.
'you'd be fit if it wasnt for your stomach... whats wrong with it?'
Each to their own opinion... we can tell who is getting no meets from here... xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this troll business too.
'you'd be fit if it wasnt for your stomach... whats wrong with it?'
Each to their own opinion... we can tell who is getting no meets from here... xx"
WTF really  |
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By *ason.Man
over a year ago
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"I've had this troll business too.
'you'd be fit if it wasnt for your stomach... whats wrong with it?'
Each to their own opinion... we can tell who is getting no meets from here... xx
WTF really "
Key board worriers
Probably still live at home with there parents
Politely tell them to F off get a life and hit the block button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this troll business too.
'you'd be fit if it wasnt for your stomach... whats wrong with it?'
Each to their own opinion... we can tell who is getting no meets from here... xx"
I bet he's living the dream with his own hand  |
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By *ason.Man
over a year ago
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"I've had this troll business too.
'you'd be fit if it wasnt for your stomach... whats wrong with it?'
Each to their own opinion... we can tell who is getting no meets from here... xx
WTF really
Key board worriers
Probably still live at home with there parents
Politely tell them to F off get a life and hit the block button"
Ps you look fantastic by the way |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Not im not at all bothered by them. Certainly wouldnt put me off meeting the ladies..
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Not im not at all bothered by them. Certainly wouldnt put me off meeting the ladies..
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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago
Berkshire |
I wouldn't even think twice about them |
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"I hate my body . My stretch marks. I've lost lots of weight work out and the mummy tummy is still there so are the stretch marks. I don't have mirrors around so I can't see it. Some days I beat myself up about it. It didn't help with my partner not having sex with me but going online looking at picture of women . Then I found him using fab look for sex"
Dont put yourself down love im sure you are beautiful in every aspect. Cogratulations on the weight loss too love. Be proud of who you are xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got a cesarean scar. Plus I'm a bit overweight and have stretch marks. No one has said anything negative about my body and if they did - next!
I've also got a huge scar down my back from a surgery. My scars are from life events and I refuse to feel self-conscious about them. |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
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I've got a 'mum tum' and stretch marks, I'm more bothered by them than anyone else.
Don't get me wrong I've had horrible people give me abuse for being fat/wobbly/grotesque/marked etc etc and I find these comments usually come from those who seem to struggle to get meets.
My mum tum and stretch marks are mine, and I own them, and they are a part of my story... and it's up to me who I share my story with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate my body . My stretch marks. I've lost lots of weight work out and the mummy tummy is still there so are the stretch marks. I don't have mirrors around so I can't see it. Some days I beat myself up about it. It didn't help with my partner not having sex with me but going online looking at picture of women . Then I found him using fab look for sex"
Don't knock yourself LB. I bet you look fantastic. X |
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For a 4'11 having a 9lb baby...I was stretched so much that she remained sideways. I ended up CS cos she was breech. No matter how much I gym, diet, the rest of my body is toned but my wobbly kangaroo pouch belly is my proudest achievement of them all. Ive accepted that its part of lifes experience n something u should not worry wot other people think, thatll be their problem not yours xx |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
I cant say for other men. Doesnt matter one jot to me. Not one for going into too much detail about my sex life but i will say i had the pleasure of a mum of three. Last thing on my mind was her motherly imperfections if you catch my drift. |
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Does not bother us in the slightest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm now 19 po from a tummy tuck. Hated my tummy but now I'm on a long road to recovery. Had a major set back last week!
Trying to work out if it's worth it....sure it will be but it's still early days.
I can't explain really why I did it. Wasn't embarrassment or shame. I work out a lot and it just wouldn't shift that last bit and it upset me. Genuinely upset me.
I wish I could of just embraced mine because I've a long long road ahead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have as lucky to have a meet with a very hot younger man...He did a Shirley valentine and kissed my stretch marks....obviously didn't bother him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like most things things regarding physical attraction, it's a matter of personal taste... Some people will love them and find them attractive. ..... Some will be put off or even find them actively distasteful and most will be somewhere in the middle and wont be bothered either way.... personaly I find them intriguing and attractive both in themselves and for what they represent...... Dont waste time worrying about it! Looking at your pics you are gorgeous and sexy and anyone who gets close enought to see them should count themselves very lucky! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate my body . My stretch marks. I've lost lots of weight work out and the mummy tummy is still there so are the stretch marks. I don't have mirrors around so I can't see it. Some days I beat myself up about it. It didn't help with my partner not having sex with me but going online looking at picture of women . Then I found him using fab look for sex
Dont put yourself down love im sure you are beautiful in every aspect. Cogratulations on the weight loss too love. Be proud of who you are xx"
Thank you i am proud of what I have achieved but I want prefect. We all have are of days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate my body . My stretch marks. I've lost lots of weight work out and the mummy tummy is still there so are the stretch marks. I don't have mirrors around so I can't see it. Some days I beat myself up about it. It didn't help with my partner not having sex with me but going online looking at picture of women . Then I found him using fab look for sex
Don't knock yourself LB. I bet you look fantastic. X"
Thank you |
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By *rchie_pMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I find the whole after children look pretty got myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think stretch marks are quite sexy tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had three children... plus I've lost abit of weight.... so I'm covered in stretch marks... I loathe them but no ones said anything bad about them... |
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over a year ago
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Really not a problem in my opinion . None of us here are perfect |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
I actually like them and also wrinkles for that matter -all the signs that a woman has lived. |
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"I hate my body . My stretch marks. I've lost lots of weight work out and the mummy tummy is still there so are the stretch marks. I don't have mirrors around so I can't see it. Some days I beat myself up about it. It didn't help with my partner not having sex with me but going online looking at picture of women . Then I found him using fab look for sex
Dont put yourself down love im sure you are beautiful in every aspect. Cogratulations on the weight loss too love. Be proud of who you are xx
Thank you i am proud of what I have achieved but I want prefect. We all have are of days "
You are perfect luv dont worry about that xx |
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A woman that has stretch marks etc and does not try to hide them from me when we are naked is far sexier and much more of a turn on for me than a woman that does not have any.
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Someone mentioned Shirley valentine above.
The scene re stretch marks involves her Greek lover kissing said marks and doing a speech about how he lies them as they are part of her.
Shirley turns to the camera and says "men talk such bollocks".
Compare and contrast the completely positive tone on this thread with the mixed reaction to the bloke who asked about his stomach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cant beat a hot milf! |
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"A woman that has stretch marks etc and does not try to hide them from me when we are naked is far sexier and much more of a turn on for me than a woman that does not have any.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got away with the stripes but I had cacearen and was left with the tummy - overhang scar. It's my main hangup!!
But in my time here, the only person bothered is me! Still have to keep it covered during play! "
wifey is the same about her c section scar she hates, I don't and judging by the amount of complimentary messages we get neither do most of fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you . X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I never really thought what other men/women thought about a women's body after children, my husband worships my body, but being on here I was just curious, thank you I'll try my best to now embrace them ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I used to say "a man who has no belly, has no history" ....this could easily be adapted to suit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the same boat, OP, my mum-tum affects my confidence too, but only when i let it. I try to remind myself how lucky i am to be half decent pretty much everywhere else. There mustn't be a person alive who doesn't have at least one part of their body they're unhappy with. At least with a tummy we can disguise it with nice underwear and dress to accentuate other bits.
Speaking as a fan of the female body, there's nothing more attractive than confidence. Try to forget your flaws and enjoy yourself and the other person/people won't notice them. |
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Funny enough, I find it attractive! |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts!
Bothered?? Surely you mean blessed to have the privilege of enjoying them in all their glory?? Xx"
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"A woman that has stretch marks etc and does not try to hide them from me when we are naked is far sexier and much more of a turn on for me than a woman that does not have any.
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Shame you don't live down my way!! ...seems he more north you go the better they like a real woman!!! |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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Okay ive had 6kidz and not one single complaint...if anything, I get compliments on my body and figure all the time! In my eyes if sum dont like then they kno wen the 'door' is. U take me as I am or not at all..its that simple x |
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By *uby100Couple
over a year ago
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Your a beautiful lady with a beautiful body but I know how u feel. I have had 4 c sections so I have stretch marks and my tummy hangs over. I hate it. Before we joined this site I wouldn't even let my hubbie see me with the lights on, but now I let other people see me naked hubbie says he loves my wobbly bits but I still feel really worried that others won't like what they see. but hey, as long as our hubbies or partners loves us the way we are then I guess we shouldn't care What anyone else thinks xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm in the same boat, OP, my mum-tum affects my confidence too, but only when i let it. I try to remind myself how lucky i am to be half decent pretty much everywhere else. There mustn't be a person alive who doesn't have at least one part of their body they're unhappy with. At least with a tummy we can disguise it with nice underwear and dress to accentuate other bits.
Thank you so much lovely!
You guys certainly have given me the boost I needed I wasn't expecting such positive comments/opinions X
Speaking as a fan of the female body, there's nothing more attractive than confidence. Try to forget your flaws and enjoy yourself and the other person/people won't notice them. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your a beautiful lady with a beautiful body but I know how u feel. I have had 4 c sections so I have stretch marks and my tummy hangs over. I hate it. Before we joined this site I wouldn't even let my hubbie see me with the lights on, but now I let other people see me naked hubbie says he loves my wobbly bits but I still feel really worried that others won't like what they
see. but hey, as long as our hubbies or partners loves us the way we are then I guess we shouldn't care What anyone else thinks xxxx"
Thank you so much, that's very true & I know he has no issues with the way I am it's just my one hiccup that I hadn't thought about before joining fab but you have all reassured me ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All signs of a life lived and experience gained |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to get worried about my tummy and marks but not anymore
I'm not looking for a perfect parter so why would I worry about myself?
Sweet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (mr) don't care if ladies have stretch marks or a mummy tummy, some people may be superficial and not like them but there is a lot who doesn't care if you have. |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
My honest answer is I love them....I find them very sexy Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
I decided that whilst I would rather not have them I do and that's that the symbolise the loves I have given.....
So I've had a dragonfly mandala tattooed over the worst ones
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Whoever made the comments is an idiot
Love a real woman's body and what could be more real than a mothers body Love a mum tum and who cares about stretch marks. Don't let it bother you for a moment. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
Most people seem to be too busy with the sex to care by the point they see mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Male half here but it has never bothered me on my Mrs and cant say I really pay much attention to them on her or any other women. Some women have them, some dont - neither is perfect as such a thing doesnt exist!
Just embrace who you are and enjoy the positive comments from others on this thread |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Not bothered in the slightest, stretch marks, lumps and bumps are part of you. They define the journey a woman has taken through motherhood.
It is a wonderful thing.... |
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My teenage daughter actually texted me last night from her holiday regarding some she has on her thighs. She's had a sudden growth spurt and is really conscious of them.
Are there any creams does anyone know that will help the appearance of them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My teenage daughter actually texted me last night from her holiday regarding some she has on her thighs. She's had a sudden growth spurt and is really conscious of them.
Are there any creams does anyone know that will help the appearance of them?"
Bio Oil fantastic stuff if only I'd known about it what I had my kids x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My teenage daughter actually texted me last night from her holiday regarding some she has on her thighs. She's had a sudden growth spurt and is really conscious of them.
Are there any creams does anyone know that will help the appearance of them?"
Bio-oil is meant to help.
As for the op question, nope, not bothered at all by stretch marks or mummy tummy. And the whole "real women" thing every woman is a real woman |
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"My teenage daughter actually texted me last night from her holiday regarding some she has on her thighs. She's had a sudden growth spurt and is really conscious of them.
Are there any creams does anyone know that will help the appearance of them?
Bio Oil fantastic stuff if only I'd known about it what I had my kids x"
Ok thankyou,I'll get some for her. |
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"My teenage daughter actually texted me last night from her holiday regarding some she has on her thighs. She's had a sudden growth spurt and is really conscious of them.
Are there any creams does anyone know that will help the appearance of them?
Bio-oil is meant to help.
As for the op question, nope, not bothered at all by stretch marks or mummy tummy. And the whole "real women" thing every woman is a real woman"
Thankyou. |
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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago
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I have a mum tum and stretch marks, and I'm like you, I'm self conscious about it. In fact when I go to clubs I tend to wear baby dolls to try and cover it a bit. But In saying that no ones ever said anything or turned me away because of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Of course they are. Just as women would be bothered by something they deem as off putting on a man's body. Why wouldn't they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love yummy mummies however they come your usually attracted to someone before you see them naked aren't you"
Yes but you can quickley become u attracted if you don't like what you see. Let's not fool ourselves here people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mummy tummy is sexy and shouts real woman to me (male half). I love them "
Ah yes the ol 'real woman' nonsense was bound to appear early in this thread. So to all you fit in shape women out there, I have some disturbing news for you...youre not real! |
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Confidence in your body is the key to being sexy. No matter what body you have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you so much really good to see that men are not bothered by a real women's body X "
That's highly offensive to women who don't have those things op. Youre implying theyre not real women. I'd be apologising for that comment if I were you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think the only offensive comments on this whole thread is by you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone know how I can delete this thread now? I'm greatful for all the comments received X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey,
I know I'm a woman but I think you look bloody sexy! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey,
I know I'm a woman but I think you look bloody sexy! X"
Thank you so much ?? |
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You look very sexy in your pics so just have loads of naughty fun and |
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"Does anyone know how I can delete this thread now? I'm greatful for all the comments received X "
You can't just let it run it's cause,unless contact Admin and see if they will delete it for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate mine some are over 2 inches long. So I have micro derma braisen treatment on my scars. It's the only treatment I've found to reduce appearance of scars. |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts!
I decided that whilst I would rather not have them I do and that's that the symbolise the loves I have given.....
So I've had a dragonfly mandala tattooed over the worst ones
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And bloody awesome they are too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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THE RESURRECTION  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love this post so refreshing to hear genuine men be real x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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WEAR & BARE THEM WITH PRIDE
AS THERE IS ALWAYS ANOTHER UNLUCKY, BROKEN HEARTED LADY OUT THERE WHO WOULD GIVE ANYTHING 2B ABLE 2 GET STRETCH-MARKS THROUGH CARRYING A CHILD OF HER OWN BUT CANT 
!!! DONT WANT 2 PUT A DOWNER ON THIS SUBJECT!!!
if a person is that shallow 2b put off by stretchmarks, CS SCAR, ETC,ETC
then its them who are the ugly people & shud hide themselves away |
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"A woman that has stretch marks etc and does not try to hide them from me when we are naked is far sexier and much more of a turn on for me than a woman that does not have any.
Oh "
Yup |
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"A woman that has stretch marks etc and does not try to hide them from me when we are naked is far sexier and much more of a turn on for me than a woman that does not have any.
Shame you don't live down my way!! ...seems he more north you go the better they like a real woman!!!
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Maybe you should come up to Scotland then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm really turned on by them!
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"A woman that has stretch marks etc and does not try to hide them from me when we are naked is far sexier and much more of a turn on for me than a woman that does not have any.
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Yup "
Good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing to be ashamed of what so ever you earned those tiger stripes wear them with pride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't have to have had kids to have a mummy tummy and/or stretch marks!
I am childless yet have a tummy, and feint stretch marks that I've had ever since I lost a lot of weight rather fast during my teenage years! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
I absolutely love a real woman's body.. And stretch marks are the sign of a real woman.. Love it! |
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By *lg1000Couple
over a year ago
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I'm a mother of one other one on the way and have tons of stretch marks. Never had any remarks on them xx |
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Good god quit with the real woman remarks for heaven's sake! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good god quit with the real woman remarks for heaven's sake!"
Ffs if that's a real woman then i want to be unreal  |
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"Good god quit with the real woman remarks for heaven's sake!
Ffs if that's a real woman then i want to be unreal "
It's just peeing me off for some reason. If you don't have stetchmarks or you're a slimmer woman it mean's you're not a 'real' woman in some people's books. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good god quit with the real woman remarks for heaven's sake!
Ffs if that's a real woman then i want to be unreal
It's just peeing me off for some reason. If you don't have stetchmarks or you're a slimmer woman it mean's you're not a 'real' woman in some people's books."
I think they're called. ...nah I'm not getting a ban for it |
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By *lg1000Couple
over a year ago
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Completely true. Despite being a mother myself, I don't think that by having children, or as you said, slimmer women are any less of a 'real woman'.
I wonder how all the men would feel if we started calling them 'real men' but only when they develop dad bods....
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"Completely true. Despite being a mother myself, I don't think that by having children, or as you said, slimmer women are any less of a 'real woman'.
I wonder how all the men would feel if we started calling them 'real men' but only when they develop dad bods....
Xx"
Or have an 8" or above penis. |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Personally I'm not bothered by them at all, if anything they can be a turn on, I'm not sure why Haha! |
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By *lg1000Couple
over a year ago
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"Completely true. Despite being a mother myself, I don't think that by having children, or as you said, slimmer women are any less of a 'real woman'.
I wonder how all the men would feel if we started calling them 'real men' but only when they develop dad bods....
Xx
Or have an 8" or above penis."
Hahahaha |
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By *urse89Man
over a year ago
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Cougar stripes are pretty sexy!! Means your a strong woman and usually earnedthise stripes! And the only men that have them are usually ones that have also earned them so appreciate them on a woman all the more!! I have stripes as a bloke from losing weight and stripes on my arms from putting muscle into them so yer usually gained and earned so should be respected!!
Plus they are natural!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cougar stripes are pretty sexy!! Means your a strong woman and usually earnedthise stripes! And the only men that have them are usually ones that have also earned them so appreciate them on a woman all the more!! I have stripes as a bloke from losing weight and stripes on my arms from putting muscle into them so yer usually gained and earned so should be respected!!
Plus they are natural!! "
Earned them? ?? Ffs. It gets worse! |
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over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Everyone has different likes and dislikes. For me, not a problem, I prefer the Mrs body after she gave birth, she looks all women.
Wear those stretch marks with pride |
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The whole "real women" bollocks is done by blokes who think that if they say stuff like that they will get a shag off women who are self conscious about things like stretch marks.
Notwithstanding that, if said blokes got an offer from a woman without stretch marks they would immediately forget they only like "real women". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think they are part of life's story, and life just makes a woman sexier and sexier, so embrace your gorgeousness as you are xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all part of being a gorgeous natural mummy hun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also have the same insecurities my tummy is my least favourite part after 4 children including a 10 lb one. But Swinging definitely has given me more confidence and I think guys are really not that bothered by stretch marks and a mummy tum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mummy tummy is sexy and shouts real woman to me (male half). I love them
I couldn't have children so I don't have stetch marks,I agree it's make's me less of a 'real' woman."
kind of agree. But people get stretch marks for all sorts of reasons. Not just having children... |
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"The whole "real women" bollocks is done by blokes who think that if they say stuff like that they will get a shag off women who are self conscious about things like stretch marks.
Notwithstanding that, if said blokes got an offer from a woman without stretch marks they would immediately forget they only like "real women". "
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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Strangely (possibly) my stretch marks don't bother me one bit. I honestly don't think about them.
My wobbly bits on the other hand... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
Love them love a wobbly arse and tummy x |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
I have a mum tum and stretch marks. I got stretch marks from simply growing taller as a teenager, so didn't stand a chance when it came to my pregnancies!
After my marriage broke up getting naked in front of someone else with my "mum bod" was a major concern When the time was right, it was fine, and no one has run away screaming!
My confidence about it all goes through peaks and troughs. I'm in a bit of a trough right now, but am working on things to make myself feel better.
Relax and enjoy! |
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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago
Staines |
Mr C speaking here. Personally, I love a mummy tum and stretch marks, one of the most natural and beautiful things in the world and having the privilege of touching/stroking them is the on which thing I'll never get bored of! |
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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"I also have the same insecurities my tummy is my least favourite part after 4 children including a 10 lb one. But Swinging definitely has given me more confidence and I think guys are really not that bothered by stretch marks and a mummy tum. "
Agree 100%. Xx |
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"Are men really bothered by them?
I've had 3 children & I've not been lucky enough to escape them, is it a person prefrance? Just really intrigue on your thoughts! "
If you like the lady you don't notice them. It's the way men are wired; to see a woman's best bits. Some guys will even find them attractive, seeing them as more 'womanly'. |
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