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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are a couple who have only ever had soft swing meets. We are contemplating attending a club but unsure what to expect. We'd probably just want to take it all in slowly, would we fit in? Any advice.....??

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple over a year ago

Old Hill

You would completely. Plenty of couple keep themselves to themselves and enjoy some people watching.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are a couple who have only ever had soft swing meets. We are contemplating attending a club but unsure what to expect. We'd probably just want to take it all in slowly, would we fit in? Any advice.....??"
. Lots of people are put off going to clubs as they expect to be forced to play. It's not true lots of clubs have a nice relaxed atmosphere where you can chat with fellow couples. For your first time maybe pick one that doesn't have a dress down policy straight away. Just go with a open mind and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep just take things at your own pace. Some go and never play at all. Or play themselves in a private room. Just go along and soak up the atmosphere, see where it takes you

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Clubs tend to be just like bars, but some people go off to have sex.

Same as normal bars but they put beds and stuff in clubs

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

I've been socially but never to play and I never felt out of place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you'd have a great time, everything that has already been mentioned is so true. I love the relaxed atmosphere of a club

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It is what you want it to be on the night, just relax and enjoy yourselves, I was nervous my first time at a club, but it was a nice laid back atmosphere x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can make it whatever you feel comfortable with x

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

As others have said, yes you'll have a great time. We soft swing only but are also naturists so prefer dress down clubs with "spa" type facilities as we find them more relaxing.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

"Clubs tend to be just like bars, but some people go off to have sex.

Same as normal bars but they put beds and stuff in clubs

Fantastic description. Pretty much sums clubs up. XX

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

You'll be totally fine! Great advice on here, clubs are way more chilled than you would imagine & you only do what you want to. Take it slowly to start and if you want to play with others, let them know your limits. We have soft played with guys and couples - it can be a lot of fun

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