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are we doing something wrong??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never easy getting couple meets, most of the mid week meets on here are single guys not couples and if that's not your thing it's difficult, hope to see you down at Mingles again soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"due to work those days are my only days off"
Then the problem isn't you it's timing.
Your work patterns don't suit most people...it's clearly not something you've done wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want social meeting maybe to start don't be as specific regarding the date and time. If you're in it for longer term fun it will be worth waiting. Get some interest first from people interested in social meets and if you get replies from people you would like to met you can negotiate a mutually agreeable date. Also I think photos of you together..just dressed for a meeting no faces necessary would give people a better idea of what you're like. The cropped photos don't really present you as people...just random body parts. Of course it's nice to see nudie tits, pussy and cock...but you're asking people to met a couple...show them a couple. Good luck. |
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"Maybe new pics and pics of you both together .  "
I'd agree with this!
I don't think the type of pics you have on show (i.e. Mostly of rude bits) would appeal to most couples or fems!
Personally I don't mind the odd one - but I like a few 'normal ' ones to indicate what the face/body might look like - even if they're fully dressed!
And if a couple send me a face pic - I like it to be one of them together looking happy and comfortable with each other. I like to be 100% sure that couples are happy in their relationship before I'd consider meeting them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe new pics and pics of you both together .
I'd agree with this!
I don't think the type of pics you have on show (i.e. Mostly of rude bits) would appeal to most couples or fems!
Personally I don't mind the odd one - but I like a few 'normal ' ones to indicate what the face/body might look like - even if they're fully dressed!
And if a couple send me a face pic - I like it to be one of them together looking happy and comfortable with each other. I like to be 100% sure that couples are happy in their relationship before I'd consider meeting them! "
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By *adrMan
over a year ago
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"we been trying to set up a social meet which could lead to more fun but not getting interest is there something wrong with us or our profile "
Your Profile reads as being quite aggressive (& negative) & as others have said your pics will generally not be of interest to couples(most are too dark too). You don't say anything to those other folk who are also looking for a couple why YOU are their best choice. If/when you get a response spend a little time getting to know them by messaging here.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"we been trying to set up a social meet which could lead to more fun but not getting interest is there something wrong with us or our profile Your Profile reads as being quite aggressive (& negative) & as others have said your pics will generally not be of interest to couples(most are too dark too). You don't say anything to those other folk who are also looking for a couple why YOU are their best choice. If/when you get a response spend a little time getting to know them by messaging here."
this and the fact that people may not want to be part of your 'experiment'.
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"we been trying to set up a social meet which could lead to more fun but not getting interest is there something wrong with us or our profile "
The fact that you don't indicate which of you has written - the above in this instance - would tell me enough about you for me not to meet you. Maybe others might feel the same? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe new pics and pics of you both together .
I'd agree with this!
I don't think the type of pics you have on show (i.e. Mostly of rude bits) would appeal to most couples or fems!
Personally I don't mind the odd one - but I like a few 'normal ' ones to indicate what the face/body might look like - even if they're fully dressed!
And if a couple send me a face pic - I like it to be one of them together looking happy and comfortable with each other. I like to be 100% sure that couples are happy in their relationship before I'd consider meeting them! "
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